No one is "just one thing," and many "bad boys" eventually grow up. I'm not trying to insinuate anything here other than what I have already stated.
The fact of the matter here remains, however, that when women are on the prowl for sex (or simply very young and naive), they overwhelmingly tend to prefer physically powerful and inter-personally aggressive men over men with more "average" or "reserved" attributes. They prefer "Alpha Males." Not to step on anyone's toes, but "Alpha Males" can have a definite tendency to be pushy and abrasive "jerks," or impulsive risk taking "bad boys" a lot of the time as well.
That's really all there is to it.
This isn't to say that all dominant men are like this, per se, and it isn't even to say that many of the men who do fit this description will not ultimately grow out of it either. Frankly, beyond even that, it is undeniably true that men who manage to combine "Alpha Male" physical and social bearing with brains and personal restraint are usually far more successful in life than those who are simply physically powerful or inter-personally aggressive alone.
I was simply pointing out the way things are, and, due to our evolutionary history, always have been. Trying to deny that basic reality (as some posters in this thread have done) is pointless.
It is self-evidently true.
For some reason, when I was young, I was attracted to that kind of boy. Maybe it's a rebellion kind of thing that girls go through. The boys do it by acting bad, and the girls do it by being attracted to them. :lol:
