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You're not alone... I know many girls in my environment who are into "complicated" guys (which maybe is a mix of self-consciousness, yet being "interesting"?). And that's often just as fatal as being into "bad boys" ...
And I also don't think that physical dominance is that important. Now of course, there is a number of women who is into that kind of thing, but in my environment, the macho-bodybuilder type is rather ridiculed by many women, while the slightly androgynous, hipster-indie-rock type of guy is all the rage.
Stick around; what's hot and what's not varies between places and cultures, and changes over time.... and then changes back again. Also varies with age.