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10 million times yes.
Without question.
When I read it I thought, hell ****ing hell yes yes yes!!!
10 million times yes.
Without question.
When I read it I thought, hell ****ing hell yes yes yes!!!
That is the common understanding, however, applying this on a clinical basis you are presented with a much more difficult challenge: you have a child who is willing to kill themselves if you can’t help them stop being gay.“OlNate” said:I think the discomfort you are mentioning is due to the fact that they are afraid of the social stigmatization that comes from folks like phattonez, as he has so eloquently represented himself in this thread. The right approach is to ensure that people feel supported in being who they are. I can't think of any modern psychological theories that advocate trying to change who you are to fit into perceived societal norms, other than so called gay conversion therapy. I believe you are legitimately concerned for these kids, but denying who you are, let alone allowing someone else tell you to deny who you are, is never a healthy approach.
I certainly understand your aversion to my statement, but even though homosexual attraction is not psychological*. Homosexual behaviour is what the children I am referring are concerned with and where the feelings of discomfort are turning suicidal. Any sexual behaviour is psychological and can in fact be “changed”. So theoretically the intentions of “conversion therapy” are possible as scary as that might seem to us all.“Northern Light” said:But where you're off base is when you talk about changing the psychology of children. Being homosexual is not psychological. It's not a matter of changing one's mind. It's a hard wired drive, whether or not one acts upon it. We don't help homosexual children by trying to reprogram them, we help them to come to terms with being homosexual in a society that often has trouble accepting them.
Remove the highly emotionalized language which paints it all as psychopaths out to torture children. I can’t say I feel all that different. But I’ve seen the flip side where even secular liberal child just hate being gay and the therapy will not take them at their word and it doesn’t end up well either :-| So I worry, enough to oppose a ban probably not.And more often than not, conversion therapy is not about what children want, but what their parents and their religious communities want. If it were really about the welfare of children, then we would be examining their true natures and helping them be who they really are, as God created them. Let's stop beating around the bush. Conversion therapy is an invention of evangelical Christians who believe homosexuality is wrong. They can't outright torture gay people anymore like they do in Saudi Arabia and Russia, so they just go the pseudoscience route. These people are psychopaths, not scientists, and they should not be granted access to "treating" children. Not with their track record of pedophilia, closet homosexuality, and criminal behavior like embezzlement.
The fact that the world treats homosexuals poorly sometimes is not a reason to give homosexuals conversion therapy. That's like saying if you're a victim of racism then you might as well get gene therapy to turn you white. I would much rather deal with my child being homosexual even if it's challenging for me, than toss them to the evangelical dogs who are totally self-interested in promoting Christianity in the most twisted, unloving ways.
Of course it should be banned for minors. It's child abuse, plain and simple.
Monogamous heterosexual sex does not contract STD's.
That is the common understanding, however, applying this on a clinical basis you are presented with a much more difficult challenge: you have a child who is willing to kill themselves if you can’t help them stop being gay. .
I'll stop ranting about this when the gay lobby allows any actual science on homosexuality to be done.
I believe if a child is brought up with a loving family who encourage acceptance and confidence in who they are, it would not come to that. It's the children of families who hear/see the negative reactions of their family towards gays that will make them feel insecure and negative about who they are. I bet you would find in many suicide cases that one or more family members, openly or not, made the child feel self conscious enough to keep to themselves and hide what they are. That starts the spiral downward. Some children and young adults are not strong enough to take rejection from their family. It's very sad.
There's been plenty of science down on homosexuality that's proven that there's nothing psychologically or socially damaging about it.
Of course I'm sure you'll ignore it, but that's the truth.
No, obviously.
I'll stop ranting about this when the gay lobby allows any actual science on homosexuality to be done.
That's something that parents ought to decide.
That is a very common belief, however if you get involved with children in crisis you will unfortunately find they come in many shades and all have distinct histories. Not to underplay trauma or certain types of parenting as common factors.”holbritter “ said:I believe if a child is brought up with a loving family who encourage acceptance and confidence in who they are, it would not come to that. It's the children of families who hear/see the negative reactions of their family towards gays that will make them feel insecure and negative about who they are. I bet you would find in many suicide cases that one or more family members, openly or not, made the child feel self conscious enough to keep to themselves and hide what they are. That starts the spiral downward. Some children and young adults are not strong enough to take rejection from their family. It's very sad.
I think it’s wonderful you gotten there and hope you continue to share your experience with young people. Children need role models as well as exposure to different types of childhood experience.”TheGoverness” said:that wasn't a very pleasant time in my life. At times I hated myself for being gay. Sometimes I wished I could change it. But not anymore.
I for one greatly appreciate you sharing as it is personal for you! And I agree “feeling ashamed of oneself” is exactly the real disorder that needs to be treated in these situations.Apologies for getting a bit personal with this. But yeah, I've got absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Nobody should feel ashamed about who they are.
Well...
American Academy of Child Adolescent Psychiatry https://www.guideline.gov/summaries/summary/38417?#Section420
American Academy of Pediatrics http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/reprint/92/4/631.pdf
American Counseling Association Ethical issues related to conversion or reparative therapy
American Psychiatric Association https://psychiatry.org/File Library...tion.pdf?_ga=1.101084102.696243170.1483042091
It's a mental dysfunction.
Yeah, because the science was never influenced by political pressure. Never.
https://homosexualityandscience.wor...entary-on-dr-yiks-response-to-lawrence-khong/
This was the first study that examined, psychologically, nonpatients; the opposite was a serious methological flaw in past studies. Experienced psychologists saw NO difference.Psychologist Evelyn Hooker's groundbreaking study compared the projective test results from 30 nonpatient homosexual men with those of 30 nonpatient heterosexual men. The study found that experienced psychologists, unaware of whose test results they were interpreting, could not distinguish between the two groups. This study was a serious challenge to the view that homosexuality was always associated with psychopathology.
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Interviews and first-hand accounts of an historic decision that affected the mental health profession—and American society and culture Through the personal accounts of those who were there, American Psychiatry and Homosexuality: An Oral History examines the 1973 decision by the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to remove homosexuality from its diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (DSM). This unique book includes candid, one-on-one interviews with key mental health professionals who played a role in the APA’s decision, those who helped organize gay, lesbian, and bisexual psychiatrists after the decision, and others who have made significant contributions in this area within the mental health field.
American Psychiatry and Homosexuality presents an insider’s view of how homosexuality was removed from the DSM, the gradual organization of gay and lesbian psychiatrists within the APA, and the eventual formation of the APA-allied Association of Gay & Lesbian Psychiatrists (AGLP). The book profiles 17 individuals, both straight and gay, who made important contributions to organized psychiatry and the mental health needs of lesbian and gay patients, and illustrates the role that gay and lesbian psychiatrists would later play in the mental health field when they no longer had to hide their identities.
Individuals profiled in American Psychiatry and Homosexuality include:
Dr. John Fryer, who disguised his identity to speak before the APA’s annual meeting in 1972 on the discrimination gay psychiatrists faced in their own profession
Dr. Charles Silverstein, who saw the diagnosis of homosexuality as a means of social control
Dr. Lawrence Hartmann, who helped reform the APA and later served as its President in 1991-92
Dr. Robert J. Campbell, who helped persuade the APA’s Nomenclature Committee to hear scientific data presented by gay activists
Dr. Judd Marmor, an early psychoanalytic critic of theories that pathologized homosexuality
Dr. Robert Spitzer, who chaired the APA’s Nomenclature Committee
Dr. Frank Rundle, who helped organize the first meeting of what would become the APA Caucus of Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Psychiatrists
Dr. David Kessler, AGLP President from 1980-82
Dr. Nanette Gartrell, a pioneer of feminist issues within the APA
Dr. Stuart Nichols, President of the AGLP in 1983-84 and a founding member of the Gay and Lesbian Psychiatrists of New York (GLPNY)
Dr. Emery Hetrick, a founding member of both AGLP and GLPNY
Dr. Bertram Schaffner, who was instrumental in providing group psychotherapy for physicians with AIDS
Dr. Martha Kirkpatrick, a long-time leader in psychiatry and psychoanalysis, both as a woman and an “out” lesbian
Dr. Richard Isay, the first openly gay psychoanalyst in the American Psychoanalytic Association
Dr. Richard Pillard, best known for studying the incidence of homosexuality in families of twins
Dr. Edward Hanin, former Speaker of the APA Assembly
Dr. Ralph Roughton, the first openly gay Training and Supervising Psychoanalyst to be recognized within the American and International Psychoanalytic Associations
American Psychiatry and Homosexuality presents the personal, behind-the-scenes accounts of a major historical event in psychiatry and medicine and of a decision that has affected society and culture ever since. This is an essential resource for mental health educators, supervisors, and professionals; historians; and LGBT readers in general.
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By contrast, these first-person accounts provide corrective insider views of the process. Several speak of the depressing psychiatric attitudes prior to 1973. Lawrence Hartmann recalls, "The few analysts who wrote about gay people tended to describe them as nasty psychopaths, close to psychosis. I am not making this up!"
Judd Marmor recalls the view that "homosexuals were inherently seriously mentally disturbed, irresponsible, and completely driven by needs over which they had no control." They were supposedly "emotionally immature, deceptive, impulsive, unreliable, and incapable of truly loving."
...gay activist Ron Gold arranged for gays to meet with the APA's Committee on Nomenclature where they laid out evidence from studies supporting gay mental health. Robert Jean Campbell recalls, "They had a lot of data that I had never seen. I don't know where they got it, but I was really overwhelmed by the data."
Campbell argued that the committee should take its own look at the scientific evidence about homosexuality.
Spitzer recalls thinking, "Is there something that they (other mental disorders) all share that I can argue does not apply to homosexuality?" His conclusion was that people with other conditions "were usually not very happy about it. They had distress or...in some way the condition interfered with their overall functioning."
Spitzer continues, "If you accepted what the activists said, clearly here were homosexuals who were not distressed by being homosexual. Instead, they might be distressed by how people reacted to their being gay."
Cure-therapists, mostly psychoanalysts such as Irving Bieber and the zealously homophobic Charles Socarides (whose son is openly gay), were furious and began gathering signatures demanding a referendum to overturn the board's decision. Edward Hanin recalls, "The controversy was led by people who essentially said this was politics intruding into science. It wasn't. The APA Board of Trustees had reviewed very carefully the evidence related to homosexuality."
Judd Marmor agrees: "The fact is that the decision to remove homosexuality...was not based on gay political pressure but on scientific correctness and only after a full year of exploratory hearings and study of the issue. The so-called 'politics' surrounding the decision was subsequently instilled into the process by opponents."
Robert Jean Campbell comments, "I thought the only reason they were worried was that they wouldn't have any patients if this went through. People would no longer go to them for something that was no longer a disease."
I would take the word of those who were there, rather than that of a reseracher-reporter, any day.[FONT="]Dr. John Fryer, M.D., a psychiatrist who in 1972 spoke at a psychiatry panel on homosexuality, appearing as “Dr. H. Anonymous,” disguising his true physical identity—and even his voice. In those days, to come out as a gay psychiatrist meant a ruined career. [/FONT]