JC Callender
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- Joined
- Jan 26, 2013
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- Metro Detroit
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I'm going to guess that you wouldn't be content with a woman who constantly belittles you, thinks everything you do is stupid, tells her friends how idiotic you are, treats you like a child instead of an adult and thinks every decision you make is horrible..... just for regular blowjobs.
Actually Josie, I've known at least a few guys who have the "yes dear" attitude towards relationships, where they take insults and agree whether they think something's right or not simply to keep the peace. I guess that's the price they believe they have to pay for the hopes of some sort of steady romance/sex, which often comes after cleaning up the yard, getting a promotion, running errands for the wife, etc...basically a treat for doing something good. And if he doesn't do something good but does the opposite, he's in the dog house. Respectable people don't go to the dog house since it's realized that the mistakes they do make are obviously unintentional and if possible will be fixed soon.
I'm sure that romance between two people who have great respect for one another is multiple times better because there are passionate emotions involved that more than likely wouldn't be in the "yes dear" relationship. Respectability is often hard work that entails consistent tactful honesty, some sort of courage, a strong desire to do well by your significant other/family, etc...basically many of the things that make certain people more admirable than others.