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Some of us in the Trans community seem to like being offended at everything, Trans is the safest thing I know to use verbiage wise right now.
I think her biggest issue is that she believes "This is how it should be" and any information to the contrary cannot be so. I've seen first hand, how easy it is to get HRT, how easy it is to just skate through the process as an adult had I so chosen too. These are the "cheerleaders" of therapy that just rush people along. It shouldn't be, but if you raise a concern about it, you get call "TRANSPHOBIC" or "ANTI-LGBT" or a "GAY HATER" or in my case there are people on this forum that have accused me of faking being a trans woman. All because I dare to challenge the "narrative" they believe should be the only truth around the subject.
There are always rogue doctors or psychologists that should be disciplined or have their license suspended or revoked because they refuse to follow established protocol. That action on their part hurts patients but we cannot assume that all Drs have a personal agenda or don't follow the established Harry Benjamin protocol. There is a difference between being supportive and not following the rules. There should not be cheerleaders or others in mental health. They should encourage the person to get the necessary care for them but they should not tip the scales or have a personal or social agenda to push people into being transgender or shortcutting the process that is there for the protection of both the Drs/psychologists and the patients. Drs and psychologists shouldn't be pushing anyone into a diagnosis or a gender role. That is the patient's choice to make as they want or feel comfortable, once they are aware of what the various differences are.
Many people do not know the difference between gender identity and sexual orientation or that someone who is non-binary might be transgendered because they don't fit into rigid gender roles.
Hormones are not just Tic-Tacs to be handed out easily and they cause serious emotional and physical problems, especially if there are underlying ideas, physical problems or mental health issues that have not been explored or addressed, which is very common in the transgender community because of bullying, harassment and ignorance.
BTW. The common term used by be transsexual but that is no longer encouraged.