LOL, I've had 4 friends/coworkers make the 2 week pilgrimage to India and return with a wife. "Arranged" all the way.
I had a friend who did the same thing, (went to India) arranged marriage and all, but you can bet they were ****ing like bunnies once the initial adjustment period (about two days if I remember correctly) was over.
That was twenty years ago, they're still together, seems like they're still
VERY happy.
Another couple I know, very orthodox Jewish, were "match-makered" but they insist that's not the same as an arranged marriage. Yeah okay...I dunno, sure seems that way to me. They too are still together but I think the moaning and groaning stopped about ten years ago, and they've been married for twenty. Their health isn't the greatest, so that might be why.
But I don't understand why two independently wealthy (or financially secure) people of a certain age and attractiveness would marry but forego both children AND physical intimacy, it doesn't make any sense to me either.
As another poster put it quite brilliantly:
EPIC FRIENDZONING!
While I don't think I ever would have gone with an arranged marriage, I will say this much, I probably should have sought the advice of my parents on my first marriage.
I was young, stupid, lonely and she actually was quite phenomenal as far as intelligence and beauty go, but ALL wrong for me, in almost every way. We held it together for eight years and by the fifth it was going downhill, and it exploded quite dramatically and we both did a lot of damage, to each other, and to our loved ones.
Thankfully no kids!