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Unfortunately.. I lost and the kid ended up in the state facility.
that poor child.

Unfortunately.. I lost and the kid ended up in the state facility.
I understand. My first pregnancy damaged my kidneys too. I became so anemic from complications from the pregnancy my GYN set up the delivery room ready for a full blood transfusion and put me under a general before delivery. When they wheeled me into the delivery room I did not know if I would live to see the baby.
We chose to continue our difficult pregnancies , but because we are pro choice ( realizing medical decisions should be left up the woman and her doctor ) Gaugingcatenate has no respect for the medical sacrifices we went through giving birth.
That may well be so... but those containers are not in possession of the capacity premeditating the harm...so are far less culpable.
Yep it can be pretty bad. I once had a patient that had been born premature, addicted to heroin, HIV positive (luckily it was just the mothers antibiodies) and fetal alcohol syndrome. .. we followed him for years in foster care where he did wonderfully (his foster parents were awesome.. but he had needs.. he had a PEG tube, and other developmental disabilities but very high functioning.).
The foster parents basically raised him as a baby until he was 6. They wanted to adopt but mother hadn;t given up parental rights. When she got out of prison. she wanted him and so he went to her. 5 months later, he was found locked in the bathroom of an abandomed apartment, Burns, no food, luckily he was smart enough to drink out of the toilet (water had been turned off) to survive.
Now.. he was back in our hospital system and I was called in to give my advice on his discharge plan. The mother had given up her parental rights in a plea deal. So I said , why not let the foster parents (the ones that raised him and wanted to adopt him) adopt him.
The social worker said they were not appropriate to adopt because they were not able to meet his "cultural needs". It was because the child was black and the foster parents white.
Well, I had some things to say about that.. considering that this was the only parents that this kid had every known.. and it seemed more important to do right by this poor abused child, than use him as some political pawn.
Unfortunately.. I lost and the kid ended up in the state facility.
A fetus is neither innocent or guilty.
WRONG.A fetus is neither innocent or guilty.
I was under the impression from pro-choice that Roe vs Wade is a done deal.....but apparently there's only one vote that's
stopping it from being reversed.
https://www.gq.com/story/kennedy-retires-supreme-court-the-fight-is-coming
There's a big chance that Roe vs Wade can be reversed. That depends on who's going to replace Kennedy.
Brett Kavanaugh and Amy Coney Barrett are said to be the leading candidates for Supreme Court seat.
Kavanaugh is rumoured to be the favorite. Both of these candidates are quite young.
Yep it can be pretty bad. I once had a patient that had been born premature, addicted to heroin, HIV positive (luckily it was just the mothers antibiodies) and fetal alcohol syndrome. .. we followed him for years in foster care where he did wonderfully (his foster parents were awesome.. but he had needs.. he had a PEG tube, and other developmental disabilities but very high functioning.).
The foster parents basically raised him as a baby until he was 6. They wanted to adopt but mother hadn;t given up parental rights. When she got out of prison. she wanted him and so he went to her. 5 months later, he was found locked in the bathroom of an abandomed apartment, Burns, no food, luckily he was smart enough to drink out of the toilet (water had been turned off) to survive.
Now.. he was back in our hospital system and I was called in to give my advice on his discharge plan. The mother had given up her parental rights in a plea deal. So I said , why not let the foster parents (the ones that raised him and wanted to adopt him) adopt him.
The social worker said they were not appropriate to adopt because they were not able to meet his "cultural needs". It was because the child was black and the foster parents white.
Well, I had some things to say about that.. considering that this was the only parents that this kid had every known.. and it seemed more important to do right by this poor abused child, than use him as some political pawn.
Unfortunately.. I lost and the kid ended up in the state facility.
Tho I personally object to abortion, with exception for threat to the mother's life, bringing to term a child facing a short painful life because of malformation, and the results of rape
Why do you hold this personal position?
Even tho the history of humanity is filled with examples of humans slaughtering humans, holding life cheap, I choose to accept each human life as precious, and children, each a gift. Not complex, and not simple.
So you are personally opposed to abortion except in those extremely limited cases because you see an unborn child as a human life, a precious child, and a gift?
do you know of any case before the court right now, which seeks to reverse the 70's USSC decision?
the court would not going to seek eliminate the right of privacy, but more then likely refer abortions to be a choice of the states, in other words return to state powers.
under original constitutional law, the congress has no authority to pass laws on the people, only state governments do.
Comprehension is your friend. Does my choice to believe as I do, bother you? Tho I make two alterations to your interpretation, I see a fetus, an unborn child as a potential child, and then I see that child if brought to term, a gift. Additionally, I do understand that tho that child may be a gift, come later in life, it could become a horror. However we are not here to discuss the future of that child I see as a gift.
It is interesting that you single out my preference for life, rather than the gestalt of my post, expressing the reasons why the decisions by others are not within my purview. Nor that I've express far greater issues for not overturning Roe vs Wade. My Magic 8 Ball predicts the emergence of emotional intolerance boiling under your skin and about to erupt.![]()
So it it a human child, or not. You seem to waver.
Not really. I think your position not terribly well thought through, which is why I am focusing on the center issue. If it is a human child, then there is no justification for killing it outside of absolute incidents of life-of-the-mother. If it is not a human child, then there is no particular value associated with it, and no reason to be against abortion, personally, or otherwise.
Nonsense. You need to reread article 1!
With the constitutional right to an abortion reaffirmed, the Court next reiterated Roe's ruling that, first, states could not ban abortions before the "viability" point (the point at which the fetus is able to sustain life outside the womb), and second, that
in no case may states ban abortions that help preserve the life or health of the mother.
that poor child.![]()
I think your position not terribly well thought through, which is why I am focusing on the center issue. If it is a human child, then there is no justification for killing it outside of absolute incidents of life-of-the-mother. If it is not a human child, then there is no particular value associated with it, and no reason to be against abortion, personally, or otherwise.
Play judge, jury and executioner and take your chances then, brother.
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I am not here to ease your pain... not when it comes to such apathy about the voiceless.
Even though you would willingly steal that right from others.
So, I dont care about the mothers life because I care for the babies life?
I am not forcing anything on anybody. Make your damn choices
Exactly, we can all of us look back and see I never made that statement
Well.. theres the irony. The person that's apathetic about the voiceless is you. YOU are the one that thinks that you know what's best for the voiceless. YOU have no problem with children being born into suffering.. simply to satisfy your warped morals.
Ah, so sorry. I remember one almost the same...Kathy. Born addicted to heroin. Smart, sweet, funny. Once she got to be about 4 yrs old, her mother started getting her back. Then she'd lose custody or get arrested again and Kathy would come back to the same foster home. Until one day, she went 'home' to her mother and ended up dead.![]()
Exactly. It changes the 'voiceless' from the unborn to women if they are forced to remain pregnant against their wills.
It's a blindness usually born of resentment and disrespect for women.