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I would recommend you log in to the "Scream Free Parenting" site and download their audiobook. It will help you deal with you, your partner, and your kids. You cant control the environment and you cant force your child to develop for YOUR sake. The Scream Free motivations help them develop the motivation for their sake and helps people learn how to thrive in spite of the outside influences.Lots of ground covered here...I guess my biggest issue is, I'm a corporeal punishment kinda guy. For serious things, spankings, soap in mouth, etc. And it seems to me, I must be in a minority...cuz these other kids are animals. What am I to do, when my kids see that, and join in? WTF is wrong with the parents? What happened?
I think there are different ways to look at the VERY TOUGH situation you describe (nothing but respect for you and how you guys are dealing with it). I always taught my kids to develop an appreciation for their environment for selfish reasons...thats the talent pool they will be competing against for college scholarships.