Really, so you don't think that Trump is more despicable than the rest of us. That says a lot about how you conduct your life then.
Let's see: Trump as we know has been married to 3 different women, all of which married him for money. He by his own admission was not involved in the raising of his own children. He publicly joked about aborting one of them. He has had multiple affairs, including out ****ing pornstars with a newborn baby at home. He has a lifelong history of racism and bigotry. Is a textbook narcissist. So much so that that he is literally used as an example of a personality disorder in psychology classes. He is also a pathological liar, seemingly incapable of being honest about anything.
I have been married to the same woman for 19 years, my first and only wife. We have 3 children, and I was and am heavily involved in their raising and parenting. I am not a racist. I try to be honest in life. I have not had multiple affairs and have not ****ed and paid off pornstars while I had a newborn child at home. I am not perfect, but I am a hell of a lot better husband, father, and person than Trump is.
Obama wasn't perfect either, but he was a devoted father, a good husband and tried to be a good person. Bush was not perfect, but he was a devoted father, a good husband, and tried to be a good person. Even Clinton, with his history of rampant infidelity, was a at least a devoted father.
Point being that if you think Trump is "no more despicable than the rest of us", that is a pretty solid indictment of you as a person, because most people endeavor to be a hell of a lot better husband, father, and person than Donald Trump.