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Yes, your flavor of investing can work, but its not for everyone; there are too many people who spin the wheel - like plowing every cent into their own business, which may or may not fail with uncontrollable and controllable forces at work like luck or CV19 for instance. Then there are the artists, inventors, gamers, outdoorspeople, explorers, adventurers, humanitarian volunteers, and those who just can't find the lust for money compelling or sufficiently abundant in their vocation. Nose to the grindstone is not a life worth living for many, especially with so many non-rewarding grunt labor positions that have absolutely no sense of reward or accomplishment other than a bank balance.
Anecdotally speaking, After many years being a business owner (I had a motorcycle shop among other things, which paid poorly) I decided to try a safe way to 'success;' I went back to college, graduated with a degree in Computer Science, and landed a very comfortable job working for a major credit card company - but after a few years, it felt like I sold my soul to the devil. I got sucked into it mattering what kind of car I drove, where I lived, what my house cost, and what my pay scale was; I was money rich, and self esteem and happiness poor, so I quit.
Now that I actually had some money, I was making a LOT in the Real Estate market, so invested heavily. Income was soo good, and required so little time, that I signed on with the Hospice that so kindly helped my Father pass through death's door, as a Respite Caregiver, which was both full time, and a volunteer position. Long story short, I hit the perfect financial storm in 2008 when the luck ran out; what looked like a bullet proof investment went belly-up big time with the rest of the industry, and basically wiped me out.
The one thing that pulled me through was working at Hospice and doing something that actually mattered, which I stuck with as long as I could while reviving the (now downsized, and barely profitable) motorcycle business; I love working with and for the M/C industry - it is the 2nd most enjoyable an fulfilling vocation of my life. Now I'm retired, living off my S.S., and making a few bucks wrenching bikes for the locals; once again, life is genuinely good. In retrospect I would not have taken life's little detour, but can't deny that the excursion into the corporate world was very enlightening, and not for me. I learned the way to genuine happiness to chase dreams, and not the almighty dollar.
agree that money alone will NEVER bring happiness or satisfaction
for me and my wife, for the 35 + years we were in DC, we worked with a shelter that catered to homeless families
pretty sure i wrote about this a few years ago....in fact i know it was part of a bet i won
we still give to that one, and are looking for something similar here in our new area....
Giving back was one of my dad's big things....and my wife's....so i have great teachers