• This is a political forum that is non-biased/non-partisan and treats every person's position on topics equally. This debate forum is not aligned to any political party. In today's politics, many ideas are split between and even within all the political parties. Often we find ourselves agreeing on one platform but some topics break our mold. We are here to discuss them in a civil political debate. If this is your first visit to our political forums, be sure to check out the RULES. Registering for debate politics is necessary before posting. Register today to participate - it's free!

Women - What are you feelings about "giving away the milk for free".

That is hilarious. Alone in the house =\= first chance to have sex in years.

folio_matte_100.jpg


Betcha there's one right around the corner and she could have just as easily gone that route, which is an even bigger YES signal of course...until you asked her when's the last time she'd had her oil changed, LOL.

Nope.
 
Then instead of pulling back when I tried to kiss her, why not just tell me that? I swear to God if she had said something like hey, my name, I am terrified of having sex with anyone because it's been years and I'd rather we just cuddle I SWEAR TO GOD I would have been fine with that. I would have appreciated her honesty, I'D ****ING CUDDLE WITH HER ALL NIGHT, CLOTHES ON if that's what she wanted.

The problem is she didn't communicate anything. She closed off. She's damaged goods, JMR.



Yeah, again. Communication? You know, people talking to one another and sharing their feelings? Have you heard of that? Sheri's incapable. I have no time for that, sorry.



She slowed NOTHING down. She terminated the encounter, full stop, with no explanation other than, "I don't know you well enough".



And I disagree with you, JMR. This woman I'm seeing, Melissa told me she things Sheri is a victim of society's pressure to feel "perfect" all the time. Today's advertising of cosmetics and such has made women feel inadequate. Makes a lot of sense, do you not agree?

Sheri needs help, JMR. She needs help or she's going to end back up on that couch with another guy and experience the same disappointment and shame.

you don't read links.... I addressed this point in the link on comments
 
Not a Praxas fan, but he's right about you.

Get yourself a blowup doll. That way you won't have to have a morning after meltdown because a real live woman turned you down.

Again, honey. Please send me a pic so I can make a blowup doll that's a perfect facsimile of you. The difference is that I'm going to ask the manufacturers to make the doll missing one orifice - the mouth!
 
If you like who you are, and know who you are, what Sherri decided was best for her wouldn't even bother you. No need to ask others what they think about this either because you would have already been onto greener pastures.
It's obvious that you're the one with issues. I'm thinking that you actually delude yourself into thinking you were entitled to have sex on a third date but because she blew you off, your frail ego isn't having any of it.

Baby, what is it, truly? Forget it, I know what it is. You are suffering from the hottest, most burning case of frustrated attraction that I think I've ever seen. Now, hon. Truly, if you'd like to take this private and explore our options, I'm more than willing. I've never seen such jealousy of other women I'm dating and regret for what you think you can't have, my love.

I will show you that anything is possible. I will take you to places you have never been. Think about it, but please don't take too long. Others are waiting.
 
Again, honey. Please send me a pic so I can make a blowup doll that's a perfect facsimile of you. The difference is that I'm going to ask the manufacturers to make the doll missing one orifice - the mouth!


Baby, what is it, truly? Forget it, I know what it is. You are suffering from the hottest, most burning case of frustrated attraction that I think I've ever seen. Now, hon. Truly, if you'd like to take this private and explore our options, I'm more than willing. I've never seen such jealousy of other women I'm dating and regret for what you think you can't have, my love.

I will show you that anything is possible. I will take you to places you have never been. Think about it, but please don't take too long. Others are waiting.

I think almost everyone who is reading this thread knows that Sherri made the right decision and you're just going to have to learn to live with that.
 
Apparently you don't either. She's a liar and has mental issues with regards to intimacy. After 3 months how did you not know this?

4 months. Hey, look I'm really sorry for the tone in my posts responding to you today. You've got valid points. Again friend, I truly feel I treat women with respect. I'm really sorry you disagree. Hopefully, someday I'll be able to convince you that I'm not such a bad guy.

Pleasant evening, my friend. Be well.
 
You do not treat women gently and with respect. This thread of yours is proof of this.

You are so wrong. Please allow me the chance to prove it to you. You know where my PM button is.
 
It's not about being "owed" sex; it's about being a chump. There are benefits besides sex. For example, I know guys that can always use a good spotter when offroading. If she can prevent a hobbyist from flipping their truck over then she doesn't need to lay down her tracks.

:2razz: I can't help but read your messages as very dry humor satire.
 
So, basically what you are saying here is... (see formatted text above) "you want a "slam bang bump and grind, I got mine!!!"... Thank's babe"
As your post continue to speak about "the other's" you are pursuing within all this time frame".... :roll:

Keep talking... the "real" truth keeps coming out :doh

It might be interesting to note.. some women who have kids, have high standards, because they never stop being a role model, and they want to face their kids with a straight face... having felt comfortable they did not just "play the lay and spread" for any Jack, Jake or Fred....

I don't know from what planet anyone would ever get your interpretation of what I said.

Be real or I won't be able to hear you, friend.
 
You are so wrong. Please allow me the chance to prove it to you. You know where my PM button is.

Sorry, but I am not wrong. I wish I were wrong... The problem isn't Sherri, it's you.
My creep-dar went into full force after wading through a thread that would have any man with an ounce of self-awareness feeling mighty embarrassed for the things they have said about their expectation of a woman they have dated only 3 times.
 
But still, average age of menopause is 51, usual range 45-55, but only 5% at 40-45 and 5% at 55+, so you weren't off base.

Menopause information | myVMC

Yeah I realize it's the forties for most women, but I was just saying I've encountered outliers.
My first wife didn't go through the change until she hit 59 years old, amazing.
She was ten years older than me.
 
4 months. Hey, look I'm really sorry for the tone in my posts responding to you today. You've got valid points. Again friend, I truly feel I treat women with respect. I'm really sorry you disagree. Hopefully, someday I'll be able to convince you that I'm not such a bad guy.

Pleasant evening, my friend. Be well.

Fair enough, I'm only able to judge by what you've shown here.

Have a good night.
 
Okay I'm not one to usually admit this, but I actually was acquainted with a couple that had green carpet throughout their home. And the thing is, this was a super nice house in an expensive part of town. So people's first time visit they'd be walking in the whole "omg we LOVE your house! the outside is simply to die for!!" then they'd lock onto the fact they'd just stepped onto a putting green with a vaulted ceiling and there would be a pause while they tried to overcome it and find something else to focus on.

And the funny thing was, I always just assumed it came in the house when they bought it, but then they happened to mention on some occasion that they'd had new carpet put in. Imagine my surprise to go to the next party over there and.............GREEN carpet! :golf

Nobody ever asked why, it was just one of those unspoken oddities. This was in the 90's btw not some freak 70's deal. Or weird doggie three way! :lol:

By the way, I just glommed onto that avatar and used it one night when arguing with a "holy person", and I was pointing out that the entire world has always been kinky, even the ANIMAL kingdom. And then I posted that pic and their head went kaboom and there was much chuckling and hooting and hollering.
 
I don't think she's nuts. I think she's a sweet lady that's put the "cart before the horse". She needs to address her issues/fears surrounding intimacy before she continues dating.

Yeah, I probably shouldn't have used that word. Perhaps she's probably not as ready for intimacy as she might have thought.

I thought about it a little after I wrote that last post, and I realized that I went though something kind of similar with my wife the first time I tried to kiss her. The set-up to that was a little different than your situation, but she freaked out a little just like your lady did. She said nothing, but I realized that I'd overstepped a boundary. We decided to be "just friends" after that incident. We started to hang out and do things together; we basically became best friends. We both kept dating other people, etc. 6 months later she came to a realization that she had goofed. Obviously we've been together ever since. There's way more to that story of course, but that's the quickie version.
 
you don't read links.... I addressed this point in the link on comments

No idea what you're talking about. Sorry you feel I missed your point. I feel I made mine. Thanks for listening.
 
By the way, I just glommed onto that avatar and used it one night when arguing with a "holy person", and I was pointing out that the entire world has always been kinky, even the ANIMAL kingdom. And then I posted that pic and their head went kaboom and there was much chuckling and hooting and hollering.

Did you include the fact there was a cat third back, it's just obscured by the dog? :shock:
 
I think almost everyone who is reading this thread knows that Sherri made the right decision and you're just going to have to learn to live with that.

Oh, daaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaammmm, baby. Don't do me like that!

Daddy needs some sugar!
 
3 dates. 3 strikes. You're out. Get over it. Move on.
 
Last edited:
I absolutely disagree with you. If I'm about to have sex with someone for the first time, I have to know how much of a "driver" I have to be. Sheri telling me it had been "years" told me immediately I had to reassure her that I am capable of guiding her through everything since she's basically, again a virgin.

No, I disagree with you friend. That's important information for me to have.

I was not there so I do not know your "bedside manner" (a term usually reserved for doctors) but you need to accept that it just might be possible that in this case your bedside manner might have been a buzzkill for that woman, and it's not your fault or hers, it just is what it is.

Again, here's the box comparison:

man woman switch-box.webp

And if you ever arrive at the point where you think you know all the buttons and switches and know how to operate them all perfectly, it's sure as **** you have not, plus new buttons and switches will be put on there while you're not looking.
And woe to us men if we ever actually DID arrive at that point anyway, just because.
 
You're making assumptions. You have no idea how I was treating her. I could have been smacking her across the face and telling her, "get your clothes off and get into bed, babe". Is that's what you pictured happening? You don't know me, you don't know Sheri, and you don't have a clue regarding what you're talking about.

I'm a nice guy. I treat women gently and with respect. You're just going to have to take my word that I know how to talk to women I'm dating, pal.

Well, you made assumptions concerning Sheri's intent for being alone with you in her home.

And, I agreeded your assumptions may have been true.

The problem with assumptions is that they can also be untrue.

True, I have no idea how you were actually treating her.

I would need to hear Sheri's side of the story to get the full picture.

Yes, you could have been "smacking her across the face and telling her, "get your clothes off and get into bed babe".

No I did not picture that. Based on what I wrote to you, I don't see how you came to that assumption that is what I pictured in my mind. That idea came from your mind and you tried to put it on me.

True I don't know you. True, I don't know Sheri. Thanks to you, I do know about her now and what you think about her.

The only clue I have regerding this matter, is based only on the information you have provided in your orignal post.

I used only the information that you provided when you started this thread directed specifically towards Women, and there feelings about "giving away milk for free"

If, you really didn't want women to share their feelings concerning this subject and only wanted them to back up your feelings on the matter, you shouldn't have asked them for their imput.

You asked. You got their feelings on this matter. Which you have mostly rejected with many I'm not a very nice guy responses to the women who shared their feelings.

You were not a very nice, gentle, nor a respectful guy towards Trix (a woman) with your multiple pornographic fantsies concerning her.

You posted the following explanation to Skyfox...

"I already went over this, but when I tried to gently guide her toward her bedroom she pulled away, scared out of wits. She said, "no, I'm not ready". I sat back down with her and I asked her, "Why do you think that is?". She answered, "I don't know you well enough". And no, I didn't ask her what she meant by that, but I did say, that if there was any chemistry between us that she would know by now. To that she said nothing. I then said, someday you're going to find someone you're both attracted to and who will take good care of you." I then hugged her goodbye and left."

When you were gently guiding her towards her bedroom and she pulled away, the scared out of wits reaction you witnessed, was a singular point in time for women when the word rape pops into their minds. That, fear did not go away until you left her home and she locked the door behind you.

Based on the information you have provided the type of women that you mainly have dated are the type that have no problem giving the milk away for free and have made up their minds no doubt about it long before you made your move and the fear of rape would not pop into their minds and cause the scared out wits reaction.

You don't know me, just like I don't know you. So, I'm not your pal.

Roseann:)
 
Well, you made assumptions concerning Sheri's intent for being alone with you in her home.

And, I agreeded your assumptions may have been true.

The problem with assumptions is that they can also be untrue.

True, I have no idea how you were actually treating her.

I would need to hear Sheri's side of the story to get the full picture.

Yes, you could have been "smacking her across the face and telling her, "get your clothes off and get into bed babe".

No I did not picture that. Based on what I wrote to you, I don't see how you came to that assumption that is what I pictured in my mind. That idea came from your mind and you tried to put it on me.

True I don't know you. True, I don't know Sheri. Thanks to you, I do know about her now and what you think about her.

The only clue I have regerding this matter, is based only on the information you have provided in your orignal post.

I used only the information that you provided when you started this thread directed specifically towards Women, and there feelings about "giving away milk for free"

If, you really didn't want women to share their feelings concerning this subject and only wanted them to back up your feelings on the matter, you shouldn't have asked them for their imput.

You asked. You got their feelings on this matter. Which you have mostly rejected with many I'm not a very nice guy responses to the women who shared their feelings.

You were not a very nice, gentle, nor a respectful guy towards Trix (a woman) with your multiple pornographic fantsies concerning her.

You posted the following explanation to Skyfox...

"I already went over this, but when I tried to gently guide her toward her bedroom she pulled away, scared out of wits. She said, "no, I'm not ready". I sat back down with her and I asked her, "Why do you think that is?". She answered, "I don't know you well enough". And no, I didn't ask her what she meant by that, but I did say, that if there was any chemistry between us that she would know by now. To that she said nothing. I then said, someday you're going to find someone you're both attracted to and who will take good care of you." I then hugged her goodbye and left."

When you were gently guiding her towards her bedroom and she pulled away, the scared out of wits reaction you witnessed, was a singular point in time for women when the word rape pops into their minds. That, fear did not go away until you left her home and she locked the door behind you.

Based on the information you have provided the type of women that you mainly have dated are the type that have no problem giving the milk away for free and have made up their minds no doubt about it long before you made your move and the fear of rape would not pop into their minds and cause the scared out wits reaction.

You don't know me, just like I don't know you. So, I'm not your pal.

Roseann:)

I'm your pal. :) :kissy:

Awesome post, Roseann.
 
Honestly that could have been exactly it. Was this the first kiss? Maybe he kisses just like her ex. Maybe a tone of voice or comment killed the fire.

Or the nose hair.:shrug:

I do HAVE nose hair. Not happy with it either. I've suffered for my nose hair, lost women over it, bled for it, invested in obscure trimmers for it.
At long last I finally got it under control many years ago.

I've been told I kissed (or did other things) just like someone's ex-whatever when it WASN'T a good thing, or when it WAS a good thing. When it WASN'T a good thing, that pretty much killed my chances. When it WAS a good thing I just casually said something like "whatever floats your boat", but of course being a man as I am, I appreciate hearing that I did something or things "better than".

But in the end, whatever gets you through the night. ;)

 
Where do you guys get these emoji's ????

Hit Reply or Reply With Quote; hit "Go Advanced"; you'll see some emojis and the word "more"; hit "more". Voila. :)


Edit: Oops, too late; I see someone already helped you out, lol.
 
Back
Top Bottom