Women - What are you feelings about "giving away the milk for free".

[TheGoverness]

IN

THIS

SCENARIO

WOULD

YOU

SLEEP

WITH

THE

GIRL?

I won't ask again, Gov. You and I obviously both know the answer.

I've very sorry I upset you again, Princess. I hope you have a great week!

I've already given you my response. Take it or leave it, it doesn't matter to me. :shrug:

You need to relax.

 

[Praxas]

I am not lashing out. I'm just pointing out the women here are doing nothing but attacking me and dodging the question. Sorry if you disagree, my friend. You have the right not to read my posts any longer - I'm just sayin'.

But you did lash out and accuse her of needing therapy because she didn't put out for you.

 

[lurchadams]

No. I thought I made that very, very clear. The Guv did as well, but you are saying we aren't, simply because we aren't answering the question the way you want it answered.

I would NOT jump a guy's bones if I hadn't had sex for months. That's what a battery operated boyfriend is for.

Ok. Knowing what I know about you I don't believe you. You've always impressed me as a sensitive person with a tremendous life experience who has a healthy outlook on life.

I just think your empathy for this woman you don't know is causing you to project anger on to me. Your instinct is to "protect" this woman you do not know.

Your anger is obscuring your ability to answer me honestly, IMO.

You're be all over this guy, Superfly. He probably wouldn't be able to walk for days after you were done with him!

Just admit it!

 

[TheGoverness]

I am not lashing out. I'm just pointing out the women here are doing nothing but attacking me and dodging the question. Sorry if you disagree, my friend. You have the right not to read my posts any longer - I'm just sayin'.

None of us have been dodging anything. You just don't like the answers we're giving you.

 

[ttwtt78640]

I dunno, saying there's something wrong with a woman -- and that she needs therapy -- because she doesn't want to have sex with you seems more 1950s to me.

Maybe it's time to toss out the difference between a slut and a bitch: a slut will have sex with anyone while a bitch will have sex with anyone but you.

 

[TheGoverness]

Your anger is obscuring your ability to answer me honestly, IMO.

The ironing is delicious.

 

[lurchadams]

I dunno, saying there's something wrong with a woman -- and that she needs therapy -- because she doesn't want to have sex with you seems more 1950s to me.

Okay. Again. I don't agree with you but I thank you, sincerely for your participation in this thread.

 

[lurchadams]

Read this:




Lurch, you have to understand you can ask 100 women and get 100 different answers because we are all different.

Yes, I'd jump some bones but that doesn't mean the woman next to me would do the same. :shrug:

I don't agree with you, AM. I think I'd ask 100 different woman and get the same answer from 98 of them. The other 2 would behave like my date Saturday night. I think the women here are empathising with this woman's predicament and are trying to protect her.

It's admirable, it's just not honest.

 

[lurchadams]

Dude. I answered this for you already.

No. I would not sleep with the guy. No. I can't make that any more clear.

Alright. I accept your answer. Thank you for sharing.

 

[lurchadams]

I have friends who didn't wait at all to have sex with their boyfriend's, and I have friends who've waited more than a year. Not every girl is the same, and you need to respect that. Your whiny bitchfest is not going to help you get laid.

Women first (whether gay or not) before men. Protect the women at all costs.

I truly feel that's what you're doing here.

 

[TheGoverness]

Women first (whether gay or not) before men. Protect the women at all costs.

I truly feel that's what you're doing here.

I don't care. This has nothing to do with protecting women. This has everything to do with respecting boundaries. I'd be saying the exact same thing had the genders been reversed in this scenario.

 

[ecofarm]

She pulls back again and says, "No, I'm NOT READY!". I ask her, gently why she thinks that is. She tells me she "doesn't know me well enough". This woman and I have been talking for months. She knows my family - where I went to school. She knows who my friends are. We're facebook friends. In my opinion this woman knows me better than most women do when they first decide they want to have sex with a guy.

So the "not knowing me well enough" excuse was bull****.

It's not that she doesn't know you well enough for physical relations. It's that she doesn't know you well enough to tell you about the reason(s) for her reservations, which have nothing to do with you personally. She didn't finish her sentence, and you have mispresumed the ending.

(Didn't read responses to the OP yet, just sayin')


Edit: I threw a quote from the OP up there because I don't want Lurch to miss this in the fray. I really think I'm correct.

 

[Superfly]

Ok. Knowing what I know about you I don't believe you. You've always impressed me as a sensitive person with a tremendous life experience who has a healthy outlook on life.

I just think your empathy for this woman you don't know is causing you to project anger on to me. Your instinct is to "protect" this woman you do not know.

Your anger is obscuring your ability to answer me honestly, IMO.

You're be all over this guy, Superfly. He probably wouldn't be able to walk for days after you were done with him!

Just admit it!

Not sure how I am supposed to respond to this, Lurch.

I can only hope you are trolling us here, because you not only called me a liar, you assumed facts clearly not in evidence.

I have a healthy outlook on life. I also have a healthy outlook on sex. That does not mean I will bedflop with a guy when he thinks I should be ready, despite the fact that I am not ready.

 

[lurchadams]

She's just not that into you.

Oh, hon, I'm glad you're here. I had a dream about you last night. We were on a beach. We were riding together on your big while horse, named, "Sparky the Wonder-Mare". You're wearing a long, peach-colored sheer, negligee. The wind teases your hair and blows your nightee up exposing your beautiful, soft thighs as, with your superb horsemanship, me behind you on Sparky, my hands gently around your waist, we journey down the shoreline at sunset.

Please baby, can we make this fantasy a reality?

Call me!

 

[lurchadams]

Boy, those wimmins are all balls of crazy, ain't they? :roll:

I just suspect their first instinct is to protect other women instead of being honest about their feelings. They tell me I'm wrong, so I admit I might be.

 

[lurchadams]

You shame a woman for not being a slut after 3 whole dates, but find MY response 'ugly'.

Yep...thats at least consistent.

I'm shaming no one. I'm SYMPATHIZING with this woman. Women who decide to sleep with men are not, "sluts". They're fulfilling their need for intimacy and expressing their feelings for their partner.

Wait. Are you actually a woman?

 

[Harshaw]

I just suspect their first instinct is to protect other women instead of being honest about their feelings. They tell me I'm wrong, so I admit I might be.

I keep going back to the fact that you're saying all of these things voluntarily, and apparently sincerely.

 

[Omega Man]

I remember feeling all pissy like this when I was 17, and my prom date had *the audacity* to not put out. In my 50's now? I've long since figured out within the first 5 minutes if a woman wants to sleep with me; and even then if she's giving me signals, I have no need to throw a hissy fit if she changes her mind - which is her GD right to do so. I'd also have no problem parting ways if she wasn't for me, without having to resort to some sort of self-righteous scheme.


OM

 

[lurchadams]

I've already given you my response. Take it or leave it, it doesn't matter to me. :shrug:

You need to relax.

I'm very relaxed. I'm sorry you're not.

 

[lurchadams]

But you did lash out and accuse her of needing therapy because she didn't put out for you.

I think she need therapy because she fears intimacy. It's my honest opinion. Sorry you're so upset, friend!

 

[VanceMack]

I'm shaming no one. I'm SYMPATHIZING with this woman. Women who decide to sleep with men are not, "sluts". They're fulfilling their need for intimacy and expressing their feelings for their partner.

Wait. Are you actually a woman?

You are here peeing yourself in public outrage because a women didnt put out for you after three whole dates. You are embarrassing yourself. You should stop.

You wont.

 

[lurchadams]

None of us have been dodging anything. You just don't like the answers we're giving you.

I now accept the answer you've given me, Gov. Thanks for participating in this thread.

 

[trixare4kids]

Oh, hon, I'm glad you're here. I had a dream about you last night. We were on a beach. We were riding together on your big while horse, named, "Sparky the Wonder-Mare". You're wearing a long, peach-colored sheer, negligee. The wind teases your hair and blows your nightee up exposing your beautiful, soft thighs as, with your superb horsemanship, me behind you on Sparky, my hands gently around your waist, we journey down the shoreline at sunset.

Please baby, can we make this fantasy a reality?

Call me!

Triggered much?
I wouldn't let you near me either...

Get over yourself. I'm betting the thought of you repulses her.

 

[lurchadams]

The ironing is delicious.

I prefer eggs and bacon for breakfast. Irony can be sweet, but it does not a meal make.

 

[TheGoverness]

I now accept the answer you've given me, Gov. Thanks for participating in this thread.

This was fun.