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Mom smacks down body shamer at pool - CNN.com
Seriously???? Does this crap really happen for real???
Men at the pool would feel more comfortable??? :doh
Blame the men?
I doubt one man at that pool said anything remotely negative.
Most were probably hoping she'd start breast feeding... :2razz:
Her response deserves :clap:
Although she should have recognized that it was not the men that complained....but just this one woman.
So tell me, who is truly more responsible for "body shaming"?
I've personally known that complaints regarding inappropriate female clothing in the work-place have always come from other women.
(Guys typically don't complain if ladies show more skin)
Is what the older lady did at that pool something that's not uncommon?
An older woman rambled up to her and made what Sinclair initially thought was friendly conversation.She asked her how old her son was, how much he weighed, whether he slept well at night.
Then the woman dropped a load on her.
"She then proceeded to tell me that the men at the pool would feel more comfortable if I was in a one-piece swim suit because a bikini isn't appropriate for a mother, especially one who's "still recovering,"
Seriously???? Does this crap really happen for real???
Men at the pool would feel more comfortable??? :doh
Blame the men?
I doubt one man at that pool said anything remotely negative.
Most were probably hoping she'd start breast feeding... :2razz:
Her response deserves :clap:
"I'm proud of my body. In just one year I've gained 50 pounds, and lost 37. I've grown a human and given birth to a beautiful miracle. My body provided food for my child. So, no, my body might not be the best sight for other men to see. My stretch marks and tummy pudge might not be sexy. But they're proof that I've done something amazing."
Although she should have recognized that it was not the men that complained....but just this one woman.
So tell me, who is truly more responsible for "body shaming"?
I've personally known that complaints regarding inappropriate female clothing in the work-place have always come from other women.
(Guys typically don't complain if ladies show more skin)
Is what the older lady did at that pool something that's not uncommon?