When it comes to the word "socialism", there is much confusion- often because the meaning of the word has changed so much over time.
When conservatives today hear the word "socialism", the mental association that immediately comes to their minds are tyrannical, poor, corrupt nations- places like the former Soviet Union, Venezuela today, N. Korea, Cuba, etc... This is certainly the more traditional sense the word has been used.
But when liberals use the word "socialism", they have countries like modern-day western Europe/Scandinavian nations, or places like Singapore, Japan, etc... Bernie, for example, whose name sends shudders down conservatives' spines, only talks of the "Nordic model", pointing to the success of these nations in creating happy and prosperous societies.
So we need to clarify what we mean by "socialism" today to clarify what it is we are really talking about when we use that word, and so avoid talking past each other so much.
Let's look specifically at the Scandinavian countries- the so called "Nordic model" which Bernie talks about. Scandinavian nations have, in the last decade or so, consistently ranked in the top 5 or 10 happiest countries in the world. The following is an interesting article examining WHY this may be, looking at everything from the weather, to the welfare state model, to the level of racial/ethnic homogeneity, to the role of the work ethic and other cultural foundations, etc... looking at what we know to be true about these countries, dispelling myths which we know to be false, and looking at questions we still don't have good answers for:
So what do YOU mean when you talk of "socialism"? What countries specifically come to your mind, and which countries do you think the other side should not use as an example of "socialism" when discussing this topic? Of those countries which call themselves "socialist" today but which you don't think represent real "socialism", do you think they are mistaken in thinking of themselves as such?