The word "responsible" NEVER meant what you say it does. YOU are the one who has not looked it up in the dictionary yet. From Merriam-Webster:
1a : liable to be called on to answer
b(1) : liable to be called to account as the primary cause, motive, or agent a committee responsible for the job
(2) : being the cause or explanation mechanical defects were responsible for the accident
c : liable to legal review or in case of fault to penalties
2a : able to answer for one's conduct and obligations : trustworthy
b : able to choose for oneself between right and wrong
3 : marked by or involving responsibility or accountability responsible financial policies
Look closely at 2b. Obviously, women are completely responsible when they get abortions on demand.
Show me how forcing them to stay pregnant against their will is being responsible. I don't see it.