no, you just don't want to answer. here, i'll try again...
"so you're saying some did leave and the ones that didn't leave earlier are the cause of them being gunned down by their husbands/boyfriends/exes? do i have that right?"
and next time you need to find the stories about women being gunned down, just google it. you can find whatever you want. now, are you gonna blame this Alabama victim somehow too? the one gunned down by an ex-cop. or are you gonna say that they had relationship problems and they shouldn't have tried to work them out? or are you gonna say he is mentally ill? maybe you will say she shouldn't have stayed with him for a whole year before separating? all of the above?
Ex-cop surrenders after estranged wife found dead in Mountain Brook - al.com
"A woman found shot to death in the Mountain Brook Athletic Complex parking lot on Sunday had obtained a restraining order against her husband, a former police officer as several law enforcement agencies."