The child knows enough that their psychological gender identity is incongruent with the biological gender because she has said that she feels like a girl, despite her biology.
He has, Lisa? Link us up then. Are you going to pretend that this little boy also sometimes feels like a boy, that he is "fluid" in this regard? I know that you want him not to be, but you continue to ignore what the judge's findings were (all the while accusing others of doing what YOU are doing). So again, and from the Judge's ruling (linked earlier and multiple times in this thread):
10) The Court finds that the Mother changed James' name to Luna on her own volition.
11) The Court finds that the Mother asked the child if he still wanted to be called James.
12) The Court finds that James did not initiate the conversation about having his name changed.
13) The Court finds that James' first choice of name, when asked by is Mother, was Starfire, but the Mother dissauded James from this name.
14) The Court finds that the Father did not participate in the name change of James.
15)The Court finds that James appears comfortable as a male, female, or gender nonspecific.
16)The Court finds that both boys of tender years just want to live the life of a child.
51. The Court finds that the Mother has exceeded the scope of the exclusive rights and duties provided in the prior order.
60) The Court finds that when the Mother was asked, Dr. Albritton goes on to say that while the implications of your actions are not entirely clear, it appears that you, Dr Georgulas, have attempted to facilitate social transition in a manner that may cause James some overinvolvement in is transgender role.
Do you read that to say that you are affirming or that you're going beyond affirmation and are actually encouraging?
A. I would say that it is closer to--might have gone over and above.
Q. Over and above affirming?
A. Right.
Q. And over and above letting the child take the lead, correct?
A. Correct.