So I have 2 Dates today

[lurchadams]

My date last night with Christina was amazing. We met in her hospital cafeteria. The cafeteria was closed so I brought us takeout.

We:

Talked, made out. She gave me forearm and back massages, she wanted one so I gave her a massage as well.

She writes erotic prose and poetry and read me some of her work.

She told me she's excellent at giving oral sex (a preview of things to come, I suppose).

I took her back to her room and prior to our parting ways she sat me down and told me what her ex did to her. It makes me literally want to kill him - bastard really did a number on her.

As I left her place and drove to Portland last night - we were both flirting pretty hard via text my whole drive down - that was fun

I'm going to see this girl again obviously. She's a sweet smart lady - we definitely "click".

 

[calamity]

My date last night with Christina was amazing. We met in her hospital cafeteria. The cafeteria was closed so I brought us takeout.

We:

Talked, made out. She gave me forearm and back massages, she wanted one so I gave her a massage as well.

She writes erotic prose and poetry and read me some of her work.

She told me she's excellent at giving oral sex (a preview of things to come, I suppose).

I took her back to her room and prior to our parting ways she sat me down and told me what her ex did to her. It makes me literally want to kill him - bastard really did a number on her.

As I left her place and drove to Portland last night - we were both flirting pretty hard via text my whole drive down - that was fun

I'm going to see this girl again obviously. She's a sweet smart lady - we definitely "click".

During the first conversation I had with the chick I began seeing during a break up period with my long-term, she tells me she digs giving head. My immediate response was. “What are you doing tonight?”

She had some ****ed up story about her ex too. In fact, he was sitting in jail, doing a year for domestic abuse, at the time. That must be a common thing.

 

[lurchadams]

During the first conversation I had with the chick I began seeing during a break up period with my long-term, she tells me she digs giving head. My immediate response was. “What are you doing tonight?”

She had some ****ed up story about her ex too. In fact, he was sitting in jail, doing a year for domestic abuse, at the time. That must be a common thing.

LOL - my response was pretty much, "I'm sure you do" or words to that effect.

Unfortunate that emotional abuse is not also considered a crime or her ex would be in for life.

 

[calamity]

LOL - my response was pretty much, "I'm sure you do" or words to that effect.

Unfortunate that emotional abuse is not also considered a crime or her ex would be in for life.

Psychological abuse can be exceptionally brutal, especially when targeting someone's weaknesses. And, unfortunately, sick puppies are very adept at finding weaknesses.

Not that I wouldn't know all about it just that I pick on people my own size.

 

[lurchadams]

So here's my latest dating site adventure. I met this woman, Marianne (Mar) on POF. I was excited when I met her, she was both smart and beautiful, about 10 years younger than me and had a very no-nonsense, sex-positive attitude. She also seemed interested in me so I thought, finally - I've met someone I can both be attracted to and to whom I can relate - or so I thought.

So she tells me she's on several dating sites, has a dating coach and has been hurt several times, she liked me, but she wanted to, "take it slow". She said that what she'll need from me before we ever get intimate is a 100% commitment from me. This, I told her was fine with me - I was willing to "take it slow", I was just excited to have a female person I could hang out with to whom I could relate and who could "get" me. Then, the weirdness started:

In our conversations subsequent to this, "take it slow" discussion she tells me she is hypersexual. She tells me she has "fk" buddy who she uses to service her about every six weeks. This is a blue-collar guy she says that just rocks her world sexually, her routine was that he was to "service" her and then leave. There would be no post-coitus cuddling with this guy, she said she required this so that she won't get attached. She tells me she can climax "just with her mind", meaning lying down or sitting and just thinking erotic things. She tells me she likes to be fisted.

So after all that I said, "hey about this taking it slow stuff, if you keep bombarding me with these erotic images I'm going to have a bit of hard time. And then she apologized. Last Monday I was on the road in Eastern WA, and we had a long phone call - at the end she told me about a 2-month relationship recently. She said that she and her lover were psychically connected - so much so that they could both see each other's past and present - they both knew at any time where each other was and what they were thinking. She then told me that she routinely "communes with spirits" (yes, ghosts).

So, even after all the above I said, "hey Mar, I really like you, and I fancy myself as being someone with an open mind, but if a 100% commitment from me, I'm going to have to see some evidence of this stuff you just told me because I just ended a relationship with a crazy person!". She said "fair enough, but I can't control when the power comes". About an hour after that, she texts me telling me she's, "she's being bombarded with disturbing images of me cheating on her with other women, she could actually see me making love to them". I responded, "then we should probably end things, because I don't want to be a party to hurting you".

And that was my last "relationship"

 

[Winchester]

So here's my latest dating site adventure. I met this woman, Marianne (Mar) on POF. I was excited when I met her, she was both smart and beautiful, about 10 years younger than me and had a very no-nonsense, sex-positive attitude. She also seemed interested in me so I thought, finally - I've met someone I can both be attracted to and to whom I can relate - or so I thought.

So far so good.

So she tells me she's on several dating sites, has a dating coach and has been hurt several times, she liked me, but she wanted to, "take it slow". She said that what she'll need from me before we ever get intimate is a 100% commitment from me. This, I told her was fine with me - I was willing to "take it slow", I was just excited to have a female person I could hang out with to whom I could relate and who could "get" me. Then, the weirdness started:

Again so far so good.

In our conversations subsequent to this, "take it slow" discussion she tells me she is hypersexual. She tells me she has "fk" buddy who she uses to service her about every six weeks. This is a blue-collar guy she says that just rocks her world sexually, her routine was that he was to "service" her and then leave. There would be no post-coitus cuddling with this guy, she said she required this so that she won't get attached. She tells me she can climax "just with her mind", meaning lying down or sitting and just thinking erotic things. She tells me she likes to be fisted.

Okay, moved out of "relationship" material to crazy **** buddy.

So after all that I said, "hey about this taking it slow stuff, if you keep bombarding me with these erotic images I'm going to have a bit of hard time. And then she apologized. Last Monday I was on the road in Eastern WA, and we had a long phone call - at the end she told me about a 2-month relationship recently. She said that she and her lover were psychically connected - so much so that they could both see each other's past and present - they both knew at any time where each other was and what they were thinking. She then told me that she routinely "communes with spirits" (yes, ghosts).

Run away Lurch... run very far away.

So, even after all the above I said, "hey Mar, I really like you, and I fancy myself as being someone with an open mind, but if a 100% commitment from me, I'm going to have to see some evidence of this stuff you just told me because I just ended a relationship with a crazy person!". She said "fair enough, but I can't control when the power comes". About an hour after that, she texts me telling me she's, "she's being bombarded with disturbing images of me cheating on her with other women, she could actually see me making love to them". I responded, "then we should probably end things, because I don't want to be a party to hurting you".

And that was my last "relationship"

Lurch, lurch, still hoping to get a fling out of it, but finally seeing the light. :2razz:

 

[Logician Man]

So here's my latest dating site adventure. I met this woman, Marianne (Mar) on POF. I was excited when I met her, she was both smart and beautiful, about 10 years younger than me and had a very no-nonsense, sex-positive attitude. She also seemed interested in me so I thought, finally - I've met someone I can both be attracted to and to whom I can relate - or so I thought.

So she tells me she's on several dating sites, has a dating coach and has been hurt several times, she liked me, but she wanted to, "take it slow". She said that what she'll need from me before we ever get intimate is a 100% commitment from me. This, I told her was fine with me - I was willing to "take it slow", I was just excited to have a female person I could hang out with to whom I could relate and who could "get" me. Then, the weirdness started:

In our conversations subsequent to this, "take it slow" discussion she tells me she is hypersexual. She tells me she has "fk" buddy who she uses to service her about every six weeks. This is a blue-collar guy she says that just rocks her world sexually, her routine was that he was to "service" her and then leave. There would be no post-coitus cuddling with this guy, she said she required this so that she won't get attached. She tells me she can climax "just with her mind", meaning lying down or sitting and just thinking erotic things. She tells me she likes to be fisted.

So after all that I said, "hey about this taking it slow stuff, if you keep bombarding me with these erotic images I'm going to have a bit of hard time. And then she apologized. Last Monday I was on the road in Eastern WA, and we had a long phone call - at the end she told me about a 2-month relationship recently. She said that she and her lover were psychically connected - so much so that they could both see each other's past and present - they both knew at any time where each other was and what they were thinking. She then told me that she routinely "communes with spirits" (yes, ghosts).

So, even after all the above I said, "hey Mar, I really like you, and I fancy myself as being someone with an open mind, but if a 100% commitment from me, I'm going to have to see some evidence of this stuff you just told me because I just ended a relationship with a crazy person!". She said "fair enough, but I can't control when the power comes". About an hour after that, she texts me telling me she's, "she's being bombarded with disturbing images of me cheating on her with other women, she could actually see me making love to them". I responded, "then we should probably end things, because I don't want to be a party to hurting you".

And that was my last "relationship"

What was that movie with Sharon Stone and Michael Douglass ? Take Winchester's advice and run like hell and don't look back. You may become the next 'spirit ghost' to be etched on her list! She's dripping with Black Widow Syndrome

 

[lurchadams]

What was that movie with Sharon Stone and Michael Douglass ? Take Winchester's advice and run like hell and don't look back. You may become the next 'spirit ghost' to be etched on her list! She's dripping with Black Widow Syndrome

This is three crazy ones in a row, dude. I had to end things with my last girlfriend because she told me she could kill me with her bare hands and longed to be a professional assassin <--- actually that wasn't it. I ended it because she became verbally and emotionally abusive.

I'm starting to think that maybe it's not them that are crazy!

 

[Logician Man]

This is three crazy ones in a row, dude. I had to end things with my last girlfriend because she told me she could kill me with her bare hands and longed to be a professional assassin <--- actually that wasn't it. I ended it because she became verbally and emotionally abusive.

I'm starting to think that maybe it's not them that are crazy!

Well, Lurch, I think I've told you that I've been with the same southern belle for 54 years...different era, different mindset, kinda knew what ya saw was what you get. In this day and age, I can certainly see the upside for dating sites for people looking for a new/different start, but I would tend to keep one eye opened with any stranger who is willing to meet/date/whatever a total stranger other than what they profess to be, sight unseen, so to speak....but then, I got lucky, don't have to deal with the online dating thing.....so I'll just wish you the best and hope you eventually find that diamond in the rough..Happy ( and safe ) hunting my friend!

 

[lurchadams]

Well, Lurch, I think I've told you that I've been with the same southern belle for 54 years...different era, different mindset, kinda knew what ya saw was what you get. In this day and age, I can certainly see the upside for dating sites for people looking for a new/different start, but I would tend to keep one eye opened with any stranger who is willing to meet/date/whatever a total stranger other than what they profess to be, sight unseen, so to speak....but then, I got lucky, don't have to deal with the online dating thing.....so I'll just wish you the best and hope you eventually find that diamond in the rough..Happy ( and safe ) hunting my friend!

Again, I envy you! Stay married dude and good for you for appreciating what you've got!

 

[Logician Man]

Again, I envy you! Stay married dude and good for you for appreciating what you've got!

:thumbs: