I think the Obama camp was smart to get out ahead of this issue. It has been a long practice during the election years to distract Americans from the real issues by using wedge issues to divide and conquer the voting populace. The last thing we should be worried about right now is a bunch of queers tying the knot as GOP governors around the country are trying to decimate our educational institutions and worker rights. They want us to work like Chinese or, by God, their fatcat pocket liners will send the work to China.
By election time, this queer issue will be stale and an issue of the past, off the front pages. Timing is everything. More than half of America are softening their homophobic stances of yesteryear and more and more tolerance is sweeping the nation as time goes by. I called it 6 years ago that it wouldn't be long before the scale would tip 50% in favor of the gays. In three-to-four more years I would guess the acceptance numbers to be in the mid to upper 70's.
But even when Obama does make a bold, controversial move such as this, we can count on Romney to come back with something equally as stupid.
I have never seen a nation that loves their president as much as the majority of America loves Obama. Sometimes I think the guy could take a crap on the rug in the middle of the oval office and he would still get the votes.
Even coming out in favor of gay marriage his RCP average STILL has him leading Romney. Go figure.
RealClearPolitics - Election 2012 - General Election: Romney vs. Obama