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Pervnado - Harvey Weinstein, Louis C.K., Roy Moore....Who's Next? And Why?

Can you give an example of the bolded?

How could a 14 year old get into an uncomfortable sexual situation? Who was it with and where?

Let's see...

1) Girl is in the back of a school bus with a boy that she is friends with. He puts his arm around her and then starts touching her breast. She asks him to stop, but he continues saying "it's no big deal".
2) Girl is hanging out with boyfriend at her house. They are watching a movie, cuddling while they do it. She falls asleep. Wakes up to boy having his hand down her pants.
3) Girl is hanging out with a group of friends at a bowling alley. Boy picks her up and carries her outside. She asks him to put her down, he does and grabs and kisses her without her wanting to.
4) Girl has just broken up with boyfriend. Invites a few friends over for company. One is a boy she's been friends with for a while. When "comforting" her, he starts to touch her breasts and asks her if she's like to have sex to help her get over the break up.
5) Girl is in PE. She's talking to a boy who is her partner in the game that the teacher has assigned them to play. During the game, he grabs her butt, squeezing it in a sexual way.
6) Girl goes out with a friend. Her friend introduces her to a boy who is a friend of the boy she is seeing. They talk. Boy tries to kiss her. She says "no". Boy touches her breasts and tries to kiss her again. Girl leaves.

Here are the ages of the girls in those examples:

1) 15
2) 16
3) 14
4) 17
5) 16
6) 13

I have scores of stories like that. Happens to pretty much every teen girl I've worked with, and from what they report, most of their friends.
 
Let's see...

1) Girl is in the back of a school bus with a boy that she is friends with. He puts his arm around her and then starts touching her breast. She asks him to stop, but he continues saying "it's no big deal".
2) Girl is hanging out with boyfriend at her house. They are watching a movie, cuddling while they do it. She falls asleep. Wakes up to boy having his hand down her pants.
3) Girl is hanging out with a group of friends at a bowling alley. Boy picks her up and carries her outside. She asks him to put her down, he does and grabs and kisses her without her wanting to.
4) Girl has just broken up with boyfriend. Invites a few friends over for company. One is a boy she's been friends with for a while. When "comforting" her, he starts to touch her breasts and asks her if she's like to have sex to help her get over the break up.
5) Girl is in PE. She's talking to a boy who is her partner in the game that the teacher has assigned them to play. During the game, he grabs her butt, squeezing it in a sexual way.
6) Girl goes out with a friend. Her friend introduces her to a boy who is a friend of the boy she is seeing. They talk. Boy tries to kiss her. She says "no". Boy touches her breasts and tries to kiss her again. Girl leaves.

Here are the ages of the girls in those examples:

1) 15
2) 16
3) 14
4) 17
5) 16
6) 13

I have scores of stories like that. Happens to pretty much every teen girl I've worked with, and from what they report, most of their friends.

So teen boys have gotten super aggressive with girls then.

None of that would have been acceptable when I was a teen.

The girl would have kicked the **** out of the guy doing anything like that.

Why do you think this change has happened in the boys behavior?
 
It was still not a sexual situation.

Maybe with your adult mind, you add the sexual part, but I doubt even for a teenager, it would be seen as sexual.

At the time, and ever since, my nephew has claimed it was sexual abuse. His call, not mine. And my daughter, the perpetrator of this evil deed, agreed and agrees, still enjoying holding that vision over her cousin's head at moments he finds inappropriate and embarrassing. These days, at the breakfast table, his six year old daughter, not so innocently asks him, "Who is Underdog?" with a very sly smile on her face. He replies with a growl as he slurps down his Cheerios.

Doubt all you want. Your perspective is not theirs. Do real men wear Underdog underwear? My wife bought me underwear with The Joker's head printed on them many times.
 
So teen boys have gotten super aggressive with girls then.

I also have quite a few examples of minors being in sexually uncomfortable situations with adults.

None of that would have been acceptable when I was a teen.

The girl would have kicked the **** out of the guy doing anything like that.

Why do you think this change has happened in the boys behavior?

Truthfully, I don't think it's changed much. When I was a teen, my friend group would never think about acting that way, but I can remember incidents when others would. I think the biggest difference is that now it's talked about. Not a whole lot is done (a bit more, perhaps... 2 of the incidents I mentioned were acted upon) but more than in the past when it wasn't even talked about.
 
Today they suspended James Levine, director of the New York City Opera for sexual advances towards men, decades ago (link). Now the liberals' darling, the gay community, gets in on the "fun." Seriously, costing people their careers over decades-old allegations has to stop.
 
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