Personal responsibility? That's racist! :lol:
anymore one would think that.
blaming or attempting to blame other people for life decisions that someone makes is ignorance.
I know successful white and black people. I am proud to work with a lot of them in my company.
I also know a lot of white trash who blame others for their misfortune.
A while back ago I ran into one of those poor misfortunate people. his mom worked at a restaurant that I went to. it was a small place.
anyway he started complaining about how no one would give him a chance. I went off on him a bit.
I was like people will give you a chance when you give yourself a chance.
I said pull the metal out of your face. An earing is ok but not for an interview.
I said put on a shirt instead of a tank top. pull our pants up (they were down around his ankles) get your hair cut.
(it was nasty looking and greasy looking).
He got mad. he was like I'm not rich like you. I said I am not rich. I was making 10 bucks an hour at the time.
I said my clothes are 4 years old. I said it doesn't take a lot of money to go down to JC penny buy a polo shirt and a pair of slack for
30 bucks or less. you can go to walmart or pay less and buy a pair of dress shoes or casual dress shoes for 10 bucks.
you get 1 time to impress someone to hire you. Your appearance matters.
I said there is a community college right up the road. go there and get a degree in a field.
your not going to get a job without a degree. even an associate is better than a high school diploma.
I said if that isn't for you then go to a trade school and learn a trade. electrician, plumbing, anything.
however no one is going to feel sorry for you and simply give you a job making 20 bucks an hour.