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Re: New Jersey Judge Blocks Dad From Delivery Room
No, but the only one who has proven parental rights are the mothers.
You don't have a point of argument IMHO. Women choose natural child births or take epidural pain relief or pain relief if such a thing is wanted or desired. With medications there are always risks, but with no pain medication the childbirth can be very stressful, leading to more stress hormones which can lead to longer labor and more risks to the child. If the risks were unacceptable no doctor would prescribe or administer pain medication. Women have to be carefully informed about which methods they can use to have a child with no pain medication but they have to be realistic enough that pain medication may be best for both mother and child.
And this is just one more reason why women have to have the right to make their own medical decisions is because men are not qualified or justified to make medical decisions over the wishes of their wives/girlfriends etc. (not when it comes to childbirth and the pain and discomfort to women and also not when it comes to any other medical decision about a woman's body).
IMHO, if men would be the ones who had to be pregnant and have children mankind would be doomed. So unless you are the one having that child yourself, you have no business telling that woman how to live her life or choose how she is going to have her baby. If men had to live through that pain there would by now have been a "pain free" solution to childbirth (or that is what some people think).
Childbirth is much safer now compared to decades ago, pain management during labor has evolved and the risks are nowhere nearly as big as you are trying to claim. The risk to mothers during childbirth is much higher than the risks to children, even with the pain medications. In a magical wonderful world women would be able to magically have children safely with no pain then there would be no need for pain medication. But in this realistic and actual world there is a lot of pain with childbirth, pain and stress and both things are dangerous to the child.
So we are assuming she cheated? :lol: Ok.
No, but the only one who has proven parental rights are the mothers.
Yeah, yeah, because the **** she asks for doesn't cause that. Does no one really get the point of my argument earlier? Do people realize that the pain meds women get can very well kill the child and adversely affects it's chances of survival? This whole thing women need it is to the most part ****. All child births are painful and besides the exception to the rule the stress to the child is not above the norm.
You don't have a point of argument IMHO. Women choose natural child births or take epidural pain relief or pain relief if such a thing is wanted or desired. With medications there are always risks, but with no pain medication the childbirth can be very stressful, leading to more stress hormones which can lead to longer labor and more risks to the child. If the risks were unacceptable no doctor would prescribe or administer pain medication. Women have to be carefully informed about which methods they can use to have a child with no pain medication but they have to be realistic enough that pain medication may be best for both mother and child.
And this is just one more reason why women have to have the right to make their own medical decisions is because men are not qualified or justified to make medical decisions over the wishes of their wives/girlfriends etc. (not when it comes to childbirth and the pain and discomfort to women and also not when it comes to any other medical decision about a woman's body).
IMHO, if men would be the ones who had to be pregnant and have children mankind would be doomed. So unless you are the one having that child yourself, you have no business telling that woman how to live her life or choose how she is going to have her baby. If men had to live through that pain there would by now have been a "pain free" solution to childbirth (or that is what some people think).
Childbirth is much safer now compared to decades ago, pain management during labor has evolved and the risks are nowhere nearly as big as you are trying to claim. The risk to mothers during childbirth is much higher than the risks to children, even with the pain medications. In a magical wonderful world women would be able to magically have children safely with no pain then there would be no need for pain medication. But in this realistic and actual world there is a lot of pain with childbirth, pain and stress and both things are dangerous to the child.