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I'm Coming Home.

Oh, trust me, this has helped me a whole lot in high school, when I could not understand what the **** my teachers were explaining. But I haven't used it recently. I should really get back to using it more often.

It really helps. My daughter uses it, too. There are other videos out there that are similar, but Khan is by far the best. And he's free. :lol:

Don't give up, chica. It does get better. Believe it or not, it will start being fun. :)
 
I had another midterm this week, for my Math in Society class. I didn't do so well on it (I struggle with math, and this unit was really hard for me). Thankfully, my professor gives us the opportunity to do test corrections for a 70, so I’ll definitely be getting that done at some point this weekend. I did do good on the few quizzes I had to take this week. I’ve got my Music Appreciation and History midterms coming up next week, along with my Government paper (which counts as my midterm for that class). But man, the stress can be really ****ing annoying at times. But I’m still having fun. I decided to get high (again) this week w/ my friends, because being sober sucks. Been given a few more offers to “chill” (if you catch my drift), but I’ve turned them all down. Can’t say the same for some of my friends though. One of my friends runs through guys like it’s a ****ing Olympic event. But I am sort of relieved that it’s the end of the week. Planning on going to the bonfire tonight. Never been to one before, so it will be cool to experience that. Probably going to go out drinking after that w/ friends, depends on how I feel about it.

But thankfully, I’ll be going back home next weekend. I’m hitching a ride back with a friend (she lives near my area). My girlfriend has’ decided to come back home too, and we’re both going to one of our friends’ birthday party. I haven’t seen her in what feels like forever, so I really can’t wait. It’ll be nice to just get away from the stress of college for a little bit, and be back home. I also miss messing with my dog (and hopefully we’ll be getting a new dog very soon, we're probably gonna get a Maltese). I just need to stick with it for another week. I can do it.

I used to suck at math, actually no I did not, used to average 3.8 gpa in highschool and was among the top ten students in elementary school. I never went to college, I decided I was so smart that I needed to kill the excess brain cells, that is where my love of beer started!!!! Oh and there was plenty of weed in past as well, can't be too safe and all, and leave too many brain cells alive.


So the moral of the story is get your own beer and buy a car because hitching rides is lame.
 
You should be getting dunk/high/whatever because it's fun and it feels good not because "being sober sucks".

That is one of the better ways I have heard it explained.
 
I had another midterm this week, for my Math in Society class. I didn't do so well on it (I struggle with math, and this unit was really hard for me). Thankfully, my professor gives us the opportunity to do test corrections for a 70, so I’ll definitely be getting that done at some point this weekend. I did do good on the few quizzes I had to take this week. I’ve got my Music Appreciation and History midterms coming up next week, along with my Government paper (which counts as my midterm for that class). But man, the stress can be really ****ing annoying at times. But I’m still having fun. I decided to get high (again) this week w/ my friends, because being sober sucks. Been given a few more offers to “chill” (if you catch my drift), but I’ve turned them all down. Can’t say the same for some of my friends though. One of my friends runs through guys like it’s a ****ing Olympic event. But I am sort of relieved that it’s the end of the week. Planning on going to the bonfire tonight. Never been to one before, so it will be cool to experience that. Probably going to go out drinking after that w/ friends, depends on how I feel about it.

But thankfully, I’ll be going back home next weekend. I’m hitching a ride back with a friend (she lives near my area). My girlfriend has’ decided to come back home too, and we’re both going to one of our friends’ birthday party. I haven’t seen her in what feels like forever, so I really can’t wait. It’ll be nice to just get away from the stress of college for a little bit, and be back home. I also miss messing with my dog (and hopefully we’ll be getting a new dog very soon, we're probably gonna get a Maltese). I just need to stick with it for another week. I can do it.

In reading all of your threads about your freshman year, you sound pretty anxious. If that's true, getting caught up with any substance use could be concerning.
 
I live about 3 hours away. I'd probably go back much more often if I had my own car (which I will hopefully get next year). My girlfriend's gonna have to take a flight there and back, since she's all the way in Albuquerque.

And I'd kill for a break right now! I cannot wait for Thanksgiving break! :lol:




Thanks for the encouragement, Superfly. :)

I can get through this. It's just gonna take me a little while longer to fully adjust.

In college, I hated TG. That's when I usually had to study 20 hours a day for finals, which always hit first week in December.

Btw, another piece of advice. Cramming the night before a test usually never works in math or science. Gotta start the cram sessions about two weeks before them....for a solid week. The days before tests are designed for reviewing material and maybe closing the loop on some of the things you know you have trouble with.
 
What Mr. Peanut said. :lol:

Also, you are young, so you probably know this from high school, but Khan Academy is your friend.

It helped me so much, in math and in chemistry.

This is a very, very basic example of how he works, with entry level algebra (like way entry level). Just wanted to show you how he works, in case you've never used Khan Academy before.



Khan Academy is awesome.
 
In reading all of your threads about your freshman year, you sound pretty anxious. If that's true, getting caught up with any substance use could be concerning.

That's probably a well warranted concern. I started my dependency on pot to combat massive depression during college years. As a STEM major competing for grades with foreign kids who studied 24/7, I had no life. Because of that commitment, I went a whole year without a gf once.

Before long, pot became my life, getting high my gf. For some reason I could always function stoned. So, it helped me "enjoy" studying 24/7. I eventually found basketball, playing pick up full court games in the rec center, after my last class, every afternoon. But, my night life was usually a bag of dope and an engineering book, calculator, pencil, eraser and a sheet of paper. It took me 20 years to finally figure out that I could have just as much fun doing brainy crap without the sack of weed.
 
In college, I hated TG. That's when I usually had to study 20 hours a day for finals, which always hit first week in December.

Same with me. Thanksgiving is always a little stressful because the first week of December is finals week.
 
I had another midterm this week, for my Math in Society class. I didn't do so well on it (I struggle with math, and this unit was really hard for me). Thankfully, my professor gives us the opportunity to do test corrections for a 70, so I’ll definitely be getting that done at some point this weekend. I did do good on the few quizzes I had to take this week. I’ve got my Music Appreciation and History midterms coming up next week, along with my Government paper (which counts as my midterm for that class). But man, the stress can be really ****ing annoying at times. But I’m still having fun. I decided to get high (again) this week w/ my friends, because being sober sucks. Been given a few more offers to “chill” (if you catch my drift), but I’ve turned them all down. Can’t say the same for some of my friends though. One of my friends runs through guys like it’s a ****ing Olympic event. But I am sort of relieved that it’s the end of the week. Planning on going to the bonfire tonight. Never been to one before, so it will be cool to experience that. Probably going to go out drinking after that w/ friends, depends on how I feel about it.

But thankfully, I’ll be going back home next weekend. I’m hitching a ride back with a friend (she lives near my area). My girlfriend has’ decided to come back home too, and we’re both going to one of our friends’ birthday party. I haven’t seen her in what feels like forever, so I really can’t wait. It’ll be nice to just get away from the stress of college for a little bit, and be back home. I also miss messing with my dog (and hopefully we’ll be getting a new dog very soon, we're probably gonna get a Maltese). I just need to stick with it for another week. I can do it.

Your Olympic event friend ought to go to the clinic for a std screening, that **** is rampant in your age group.
 
Your Olympic event friend ought to go to the clinic for a std screening, that **** is rampant in your age group.

I believe most young people who change sex partners like socks use condoms. At least they did a decade ago or so.
 
Next time you get discouraged, don't. I am a 50 year old undergrad because I got so discouraged, and covered up with life, and work, and bills, and kids, that I walked away from college for years. I am back now to finish, and have less than a year to go. It's hard as hell, girlie. Hell I am older than most of my professors. :lol: But I am the first in my family to ever get a college degree, and that has to count for something.

Spring chicken. Here are a couple of articles to inspire you. BTW, the fact you are actually doing that is wonderful.


https://www.usatoday.com/story/news...ar-old-woman-graduates-from-college/28701339/

https://www.today.com/news/50-years-later-94-year-old-woman-graduates-college-4-t107141
 

Thanks, hon. Read both articles, and you are right - they were inspiring. I guess I'm not too old to do this, but man I sure feel that way sometimes when there are kids in my classes as young as my youngest daughter. :lol:

And like the lady in the 2nd article, I am also reaching out to different grad schools for my Master's. The best one I've seen so far for social science is USC (if I can afford it). Not gonna stop, though. Not going to go for a PhD but I will at least try for my Master's.

Thanks again for the articles!
 
Thanks, hon. Read both articles, and you are right - they were inspiring. I guess I'm not too old to do this, but man I sure feel that way sometimes when there are kids in my classes as young as my youngest daughter. :lol:

And like the lady in the 2nd article, I am also reaching out to different grad schools for my Master's. The best one I've seen so far for social science is USC (if I can afford it). Not gonna stop, though. Not going to go for a PhD but I will at least try for my Master's.

Thanks again for the articles!

You are most welcome.. and go for it !! I have a passion about education, and I always find it inspiring when people who are older finally get degrees and even masters.
 
You are most welcome.. and go for it !! I have a passion about education, and I always find it inspiring when people who are older finally get degrees and even masters.

I just hope it's inspirational to my kids, and not a huge embarrassment. :lol:

And thank you!
 
Thanks, hon. Read both articles, and you are right - they were inspiring. I guess I'm not too old to do this, but man I sure feel that way sometimes when there are kids in my classes as young as my youngest daughter. :lol:

And like the lady in the 2nd article, I am also reaching out to different grad schools for my Master's. The best one I've seen so far for social science is USC (if I can afford it). Not gonna stop, though. Not going to go for a PhD but I will at least try for my Master's.

Thanks again for the articles!

What's great about pursuing your calling when older is you know yourself better now. I know I had a hard time figuring out what I really wanted to be when I grew up. That's not to say, floundering for 20 years is the trick. I never did that. But, I certainly went down some paths which were not suited for my brain.

In HS, I wanted to be a Chemical Engineer. So, I took all the prerequisite classes, AP this and AP that. Problem was, I didn't bust ass, so my grades were a notch or two below CE material (back then there were only about a dozen schools where you could even get that degree, so competition was fierce). So, I enrolled as an Electrical Engineering major.

I learned pretty early that EE was not for me. Too much coding and off-the-wall math, not enough hands on, common sense stuff which put my brain into harmony like chemistry did. So, I switched to Mechanical Engineering with emphasis on materials. I even got me a Master's Degree in that. But, then, a weird thing happened...I discovered that I hated focusing on one little thing for years at a time. In other words, the materials engineering job was not for me.

I struggled for a decade. Hopped from one job to the next, maybe ten jobs in 15 years. And, then--voila! I fell into a technical management job. Suddenly I enjoyed working again. Something about keeping my eye on many balls at a time sang in my brain. Of course, it then took me another 15 years--and, maybe 5 jobs--to find the right management job. I think I finally found it, two months ago :)
 
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What's great about pursuing your calling when older is you know yourself better now. I know I had a hard time figuring out what I really wanted to be when I grew up. That's not to say, floundering for 20 years is the trick. I never did that. But, I certainly went down some paths which were not suited for my brain.

In HS, I wanted to be a Chemical Engineer. So, I took all the prerequisite classes, AP this and AP that. Problem was, I didn't bust ass, so my grades were a notch or two below CE material (back then there were only about a dozen schools where you could even get that degree, so competition was fierce). So, I enrolled as an Electrical Engineering major.

I learned pretty early that EE was not for me. Too much coding and off-the-wall math, not enough hands on, common sense stuff which put my brain into harmony like chemistry did. So, I switched to Mechanical Engineering with emphasis on materials. I even got me a Master's Degree in that. But, then, a weird thing happened...I discovered that I hated focusing on one little thing for years at a time. In other words, the materials engineering job was not for me.

I struggled for a decade. Hopped from one job to the next, maybe ten jobs in 15 years. And, then--voila! I fell into a technical management job. Suddenly I enjoyed working again. Something about keeping my eye on many balls at a time sang in my brain. Of course, it then took me another 15 years--and, maybe 5 jobs--to find the right management job. I think I finally found it, two months ago :)

You said you kept your eyes on many balls at a time. Way TMI. :lol:

Seriously - yeah, I started out interested in Psych, but then realized that I had too many problems of my own to try to figure out everyone else's problems. Now? I am still in psych, but only because my college doesn't offer a Social Work degree. I think I can use that in lots of different areas, anyway.

As I just mentioned to a friend, if I had it to do all over again, knowing what I know now, I would tough it out and stay in school, and get a law degree. Would want to practice immigration law. But I'm way too long in the tooth for that, and I know it. Plus, law school is too cutthroat. I'd end up having to kill some kid for pissing me off.
 
You said you kept your eyes on many balls at a time. Way TMI. :lol:

Seriously - yeah, I started out interested in Psych, but then realized that I had too many problems of my own to try to figure out everyone else's problems. Now? I am still in psych, but only because my college doesn't offer a Social Work degree. I think I can use that in lots of different areas, anyway.

As I just mentioned to a friend, if I had it to do all over again, knowing what I know now, I would tough it out and stay in school, and get a law degree. Would want to practice immigration law. But I'm way too long in the tooth for that, and I know it. Plus, law school is too cutthroat. I'd end up having to kill some kid for pissing me off.

Lots of lawyers out there deep in debt not making any money. We manufacture far too many JD's.
 
Lots of lawyers out there deep in debt not making any money. We manufacture far too many JD's.

Don't know how to say this without coming across as a douche, but I wouldn't be doing it for the money. I am OK financially. I'd be doing it to help people.
 
In college, I hated TG. That's when I usually had to study 20 hours a day for finals, which always hit first week in December.

Btw, another piece of advice. Cramming the night before a test usually never works in math or science. Gotta start the cram sessions about two weeks before them....for a solid week. The days before tests are designed for reviewing material and maybe closing the loop on some of the things you know you have trouble with.

I used to tutor in Math (specifically statistics... no surprise) in college. I always used to tell those I tutored exactly that... start practicing problems a week or so before the test.
 
That's fine.

I am doing it because it's fun. That little comment was more tongue-in-cheek than serious. :lol:

I wouldn't worry about it. All you did was make a joking comment. I've said the exact same thing myself many times, and it's not like I'm posting from a urine-soaked mattress in some alleyway.


I saw a lot of responses along the lines of "that's how it starts...."

Well, to that I say: no **** that's how it starts. How else could "it" start? It's not like someone who never drank alcohol can be an alcoholic.

Even if it's coming from a good place, people should be careful not to project their own personal issues onto others.

Sure, substance abuse has been in the societal spotlight in a big way for a couple decades now, but it's still true that the vast majority of people who try something like alcohol or marijuana do not develop an addiction, especially re: marijuana, since it can only be psychologically addictive (unlike alcohol, with its physical component to boot). It's only with a smaller subset of the population that the "it" begins small and just keeps growing.

As long as you aren't doing something all the time or doing it to self-medicate.... well, chances are very much in favor of things turning out just fine. (Obviously, a family history of related issues would give additional pause for concern).





Besides,

"there's a time and place for everything, and it's called college" - Randy Marsh.=
 
I understand. I have a uncle who is an alcoholic, and he's pretty much a deadbeat who doesn't do much of anything.

And when it comes to alcohol, I haven't gotten super drunk in my life. Doesn't really appeal to me to be black-out drunk. So every time I've drank, I've always regulated how much alcohol I consume.

Yeah I spent my first two quarters of college drunk off my ass. I was trying to tell myself it was fun. "If I don't remember last night I must've had a lot of fun". Stupid reasoning like that. Started physically noticing that it was not the right path after that second quarter and made some real life changes thank God.
 
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