I don't disagree with some of what you stated.
But I'm wondering if you're from the South? I ask because I've encountered many times both white Americans and Black-Americans that speak with some pontificating authority that all whites in every US city always viewed themselves as pretty much the same.
The only question I saw was a personal one. So, a little personal history:
I was not born in the south and my parents moved to Hawthorne, California. So, my early years were spent living in that area with relatives in East L.A., La Puente, etc. So that you get a rounded picture (since you want to judge my upbringing), my sister married a Lebanese (Muslim) and my uncle married a Mexican. My family moved to the south, but as soon as I got into my teens (14) I ran away from home and hitch-hiked from Georgia back to California where I stayed for a year.
Then I came back to Georgia and have lived here off and on most of my life - except when work or school, etc. took me away for periods of time.
The history of whites, as a race, is complex... even in America. There were times when the Irish were frowned upon by the masses and times when the Italians were the (bad racial word) in the mix. Even when whites have their own country, they still have wars - in Ireland it's whether or not you're Catholic versus Protestant.
Despite all those differences, we developed a unique culture and one of our identifying marks was race. People get all up tight about race, but think nothing of Japan (the most racially pure nation on the globe) or China which is 98 percent plus Han Chinese. The only place that a nation gets in trouble for touting the racial part of their culture is the United States of America.
People have been programmed, Pavlovian style, to think that anyone who would be so brave as to actually care about their white heritage must be racists. But, a few short years ago when I was what was known as a DFACS asset, I had all kinds of children living in my home. One child in particular was the product of a Honduran woman with a Mexican boyfriend that abandoned their baby.
The babysitter they left him with, knew that I had been a Justice of the Peace, brought the baby to me realizing I could handle the situation and I took care of him and nearly adopted him. Somehow the mother requalified to get him back after a few years. Had that not happened, I would have adopted him.
So, I'm way beyond the typical crap that I read on the Internet. In my line of work I witnessed the differences and the problems unique to whites that are Americans. I started this thread because the nazis, white nationalists, and probably the KKK (if they still exist outside the Internet) all talk a good game, but if they have any outreach programs to help people of their own kind, I've yet to find it. They don't even want to weigh in on this board.
In a few months, I will earn a certificate in Christian Education. I became an ordained minister in my 20s, but left the ministry after marital problems and eventually a divorce. Well, it's years later and if somebody will not provide the whites the same kind of advantages that other races / cultures / ethnicities have, then maybe my future is doing what nobody else will.
You see, I keep thinking that if the right people had intervened and helped people like Dylan Roof or James Alex Fields Jr. we would not have ever known them for their acts of rage, but maybe their acts of giving to their community. Today we deny that there IS a problem and those in the eye of the storm only find solace with political propaganda prostitutes whose only contribution to life is protesting and raising hell. Young men like those are out there without a father figure, no family support system and no organization that is geared to understand their culture to give them guidance. That is why I had this interest in finding and questioning someone that identified with being a white nationalist.
Quite frankly, I don't know what to call myself. So, I guess in a few weeks I'll be doing my own thing.