Well, if that is the case, and I don't doubt you for a moment, it appears that you haven't quite internalized what you "know".
An "intentional homicide rate" of 19.26/100,000 (
Mexico's) is "slightly" more than a "few" more than an "intentional homicide rate" of 5.35/100,000 (
the US's).
Indeed Mexico (13.2/100,000) has a lower rate of
reported rape than the US (27.3/100,000).
(Mexico combined rape and murder per 100,000) 19.26 + 13.2 = 32.46
(US combined rape and murder per 100,000) 5.35 + 27.3 = 32.65
Mexico has the slight edge however, the statistics on rape are MUCH more susceptible to "reporting rate" (which means that the victim reported the crime) than are the statistics on murder (where there is no requirement that the victim report the crime).
The percentage survival rates for rapes that do not include murders closely approximates 100%.
The percentage survival rates for murders (regardless of whether they involve rapes) closely approximates 0.00%.
That means that you have a better chance of being alive in the US than you have in Mexico REGARDLESS of whether you are male or female.
As before, the judgment on whether a specific country is a "safe country" for a specific person depends on that person's own judgment.
However, it's always fun bantering with people who believe that the only way to discuss what the law actually is is to pretend that the law is whatever they think it should be.