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I have a major problem with Identity Politics, that is well-known here. But I had no idea I would see an example over this past weekend that makes my point.
Here's the story.
The other day I was having a meal at a fast food restaurant, one of those that still has a kids play area section which means several of the customers were family groups having lunch that day. I'd say that not counting the ten or so employees, there were about 30 customers present.
Among the customers were two men sitting at tables about 2 - 3 feet immediately to my left-front. One appeared to be a 40+ y/o White male (W. from now on) sitting at the table immediately to my left in a chair facing opposite to the direction I was seated, so I could see him clearly. The other, who appeared to be a 60+ y/o Black male (B. from now on), was sitting in a chair immediately behind W. at the next table facing the same direction I was so I was looking at his back.
W. was eating and reading a book, while B. was sitting using a computer with some books around on his table drinking coffee.
At some point, one of the staff who appeared to be a 16 or 17 y/o boy (K. for kid from now on), came up to W. and started a conversation about the Star Wars franchise and the relative merits of the different trilogies in the series.
W. indicated he liked the first three movies to come out, stating he saw the first one back when it came out in 1977, (that was 41 years ago, hence my 40+ estimate). That the next three were merely ok, but that he only saw the first two of the new series and didn't see "Solo" the newest one because he didn't like the "SJW" themes as opposed to the straight adventure story in the first ones.
At that point I saw B. perk up a bit like he was listening, but he didn't attempt to get into the conversation. Turns out W. wasn't talking about the female heavy, or diversity characteristics in the newest movies; he was more concerned about the unrealistic characterizations, which K. seemed to agree with him. (ex. Luke had to go through training with Yoda and in his first light-saber fight with Darth Vader he lost his hand; while in Episode 7 the female character "Rey" who never even held one, was able to fight and defeat Kylo Ren as if she was a highly trained Jedi Master of the light saber).
Enough back-story. At some point W. said he was ready to leave when K. mentioned that he talked to B. who also had some points to make about Star Wars. B. turned around and interjected that he never saw any of the movies, and then started talking about the friendship between George Lukas and Steven Spielberg, bringing up the topic of the "Tuskegee Airmen" movie. W. praised the movie, explaining to K. it was about Black fighter pilots in WWII who earned the most decorations of flight groups in the European theater.
B. then brought up the Navaho "Windtalkers" and this is where things went south fast. W. said he thought it was a great movie and explained what that was about to K. too. At which point B. starting going off about Trump, his meeting to honor the survivors, and how Trump used that meeting to insult a Native American woman. W. asked what he was talking about and B. said Elizabeth Warren.
W. agreed that Trump should not have used the Pocahontas comment, but pointed out Ms. Warren's claims had no merit; that even the tribe she claimed relationship to (Cherokee) denied this to be true. B. got angry and wanted to discuss birth certificates, but W. got up to leave stating "Sir, I don't want to argue with you. I am 1/4 Arawak, I don't believe her story and she is not Native American," then began to walk away.
B. then said "You are a racist!", but W. continued to calmly walk away. B. then started yelling "You are a racist! That man is a racist! That man right there walking away is a racist!" W. paused for a second, looked back, then went on to throw his trash away and calmly left the building.
The reaction of the restaurant was typical, seeing an old man yelling out, seemingly in distress, people came to inquire...and then B. lied through his teeth. He said W. was talking badly about Native Americans and called B. the "N-word."
It never happened. W. never said anything negative about Native Americans, never said the N-word, and in fact remained polite throughout the discussions. I don't know if B. was seeking to make a "moment" out of it, or simply seeking attention. But he raised an issue of racism out of nothing, feeling completely entitled to get loud in public and falsely accuse someone of racism. I walked out in disgust.
Here's the story.
The other day I was having a meal at a fast food restaurant, one of those that still has a kids play area section which means several of the customers were family groups having lunch that day. I'd say that not counting the ten or so employees, there were about 30 customers present.
Among the customers were two men sitting at tables about 2 - 3 feet immediately to my left-front. One appeared to be a 40+ y/o White male (W. from now on) sitting at the table immediately to my left in a chair facing opposite to the direction I was seated, so I could see him clearly. The other, who appeared to be a 60+ y/o Black male (B. from now on), was sitting in a chair immediately behind W. at the next table facing the same direction I was so I was looking at his back.
W. was eating and reading a book, while B. was sitting using a computer with some books around on his table drinking coffee.
At some point, one of the staff who appeared to be a 16 or 17 y/o boy (K. for kid from now on), came up to W. and started a conversation about the Star Wars franchise and the relative merits of the different trilogies in the series.
W. indicated he liked the first three movies to come out, stating he saw the first one back when it came out in 1977, (that was 41 years ago, hence my 40+ estimate). That the next three were merely ok, but that he only saw the first two of the new series and didn't see "Solo" the newest one because he didn't like the "SJW" themes as opposed to the straight adventure story in the first ones.
At that point I saw B. perk up a bit like he was listening, but he didn't attempt to get into the conversation. Turns out W. wasn't talking about the female heavy, or diversity characteristics in the newest movies; he was more concerned about the unrealistic characterizations, which K. seemed to agree with him. (ex. Luke had to go through training with Yoda and in his first light-saber fight with Darth Vader he lost his hand; while in Episode 7 the female character "Rey" who never even held one, was able to fight and defeat Kylo Ren as if she was a highly trained Jedi Master of the light saber).
Enough back-story. At some point W. said he was ready to leave when K. mentioned that he talked to B. who also had some points to make about Star Wars. B. turned around and interjected that he never saw any of the movies, and then started talking about the friendship between George Lukas and Steven Spielberg, bringing up the topic of the "Tuskegee Airmen" movie. W. praised the movie, explaining to K. it was about Black fighter pilots in WWII who earned the most decorations of flight groups in the European theater.
B. then brought up the Navaho "Windtalkers" and this is where things went south fast. W. said he thought it was a great movie and explained what that was about to K. too. At which point B. starting going off about Trump, his meeting to honor the survivors, and how Trump used that meeting to insult a Native American woman. W. asked what he was talking about and B. said Elizabeth Warren.
W. agreed that Trump should not have used the Pocahontas comment, but pointed out Ms. Warren's claims had no merit; that even the tribe she claimed relationship to (Cherokee) denied this to be true. B. got angry and wanted to discuss birth certificates, but W. got up to leave stating "Sir, I don't want to argue with you. I am 1/4 Arawak, I don't believe her story and she is not Native American," then began to walk away.
B. then said "You are a racist!", but W. continued to calmly walk away. B. then started yelling "You are a racist! That man is a racist! That man right there walking away is a racist!" W. paused for a second, looked back, then went on to throw his trash away and calmly left the building.
The reaction of the restaurant was typical, seeing an old man yelling out, seemingly in distress, people came to inquire...and then B. lied through his teeth. He said W. was talking badly about Native Americans and called B. the "N-word."
It never happened. W. never said anything negative about Native Americans, never said the N-word, and in fact remained polite throughout the discussions. I don't know if B. was seeking to make a "moment" out of it, or simply seeking attention. But he raised an issue of racism out of nothing, feeling completely entitled to get loud in public and falsely accuse someone of racism. I walked out in disgust.
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