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Are sluts relationship impaired?

Lursa said:
It's really sad that you believe your experience of needing to spend 'tons of $$' on women to have a relationship...with hookers or with your wife, as you've described...must be used by all other men. Or that you believe that's what they do.

Most men have no problems having a relationship, even while dating, without spending 'tons of $$.'

If you have to 'spend tons of $$' to have a relationship:

A) she's not worth your time (and you deserve what you get if you dont dump her)
B) you are a loser using the wrong methods and social skills to meet and get to know a woman
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Right? Plenty of dudes I know somehow do not run into this problem, where they are spending an exorbitant amount of money to maintain their relationship.
 
...i think i need to work on my communications skills with women.

i may be "too old fashioned for my own good". Any nice girls enjoy, breaking in their new guy?
 
Phys251 said:
A lot of men destroy women's lives. We're not innocent. Get over yourself. :)



So you view women as commodities. Got it.
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It's funny how a man that views relationships like they are financial transactions, has the audacity to talk about being "relationship impaired". :lol:
 
TheGoverness said:
It's funny how a man that views relationships like they are financial transactions, has the audacity to talk about being "relationship impaired". :lol:
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It's like when a student refuses to study properly, fails the test, and then blames the teacher for it.
 
Lursa said:
Men take advantage of women all the time...esp. in places where you travel, they impregnate women and dump them. And then they criticize them for getting abortions :roll:
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The North American and Western European men almost never do that. Sending 50 or even 100 per month isn't much of a burden and represents 5 to 10 times the help that they would get when a local man does the same thing for them. There is however a noticeable number of blonde hair, blue eyed Cubans named Ivan, Igor, Veronika, Svetna, Tatiana, etc. who don't remember their fathers nor remember getting any help from them.
 
TheGoverness said:
It's funny how a man that views relationships like they are financial transactions, has the audacity to talk about being "relationship impaired". :lol:
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Here's the difference: A financial arrangements can successfully be long term and not be distressful as long as the parameters are clearly communicated and observed. Too many women inflict casualties on men in a supposedly "loving relationship".
 
SDET said:
I'm not talking about judgement nor "shaming". I'm talking about the objective risk of men falling into failed relationships. Or more specifically, the risk of being stuck with a decade or more of child support, parental alienation, substantial loss of assets, the distraction of a failed relationship to career building, etc. What kind of women represent a higher risk to young men regarding the above-mentioned casualties?
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Getting a vasectomy solves all those problems, leaving one with only one risk: contracting a STD. But, it's a risk worth taking, if you ask me.
 
TheGoverness said:
It's funny how a man that views relationships like they are financial transactions, has the audacity to talk about being "relationship impaired". :lol:
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Most bizarre argument on the internet award winner, almost every time.
 
Phys251 said:
It's like when a student refuses to study properly, fails the test, and then blames the teacher for it.
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It's rather amazing how so many people think we don't know that there is an entirely different side to their story out there somewhere which probably more closely resembles reality. ;)
 
SDET said:
Here's the difference: A financial arrangements can successfully be long term and not be distressful as long as the parameters are clearly communicated and observed. Too many women inflict casualties on men in a supposedly "loving relationship".
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How many men "inflict casualties" on women in their respective relationships? There's plenty. Stop pretending like relationship drama is always soley on the woman's shoulders. If you envision your perfect "loving relationship" as a financial transaction for sex, then go ahead. You do you.

That's not the way I or most people are gonna roll.
 
SDET said:
Here's the difference: A financial arrangements can successfully be long term and not be distressful as long as the parameters are clearly communicated and observed. Too many women inflict casualties on men in a supposedly "loving relationship".
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Men do it all the time to women too. Stop whining. :lamo
 
TheGoverness said:
Right? Plenty of dudes I know somehow do not run into this problem, where they are spending an exorbitant amount of money to maintain their relationship.
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Its called "going about relationships wisely"
 
calamity said:
Getting a vasectomy solves all those problems, leaving one with only one risk: contracting a STD. But, it's a risk worth taking, if you ask me.
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Did and done. I tell that to guys all the time. Even the STD risk can be reduced by limiting the number of partners and frequent testing. My wife had been pushing me not to keep going back to the same chica. She preferred the STD risk over the risk of being traded in for a younger model. I keep telling her that I'm not interested in that. Why would I throw 20 years of careful training out the window? However, she is slowing appreciating my point of view. My wife suggested that we select a travel servant on our next trip which will be to Brazil and immediately have her STD tested. There should be no shortage of 18-22 year olds that want a free trip to Fernando de Noronha.
 
TheGoverness said:
How many men "inflict casualties" on women in their respective relationships? There's plenty. Stop pretending like relationship drama is always soley on the woman's shoulders. If you envision your perfect "loving relationship" as a financial transaction for sex, then go ahead. You do you.

That's not the way I or most people are gonna roll.
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i am learning to ask for my, even chance. i don't mind flipping a coin to see who gets it, their way.

can't have women gossiping i am not a, Man of my word now, can i?
 
SDET said:
Did and done. I tell that to guys all the time. Even the STD risk can be reduced by limiting the number of partners and frequent testing. My wife had been pushing me not to keep going back to the same chica. She preferred the STD risk over the risk of being traded in for a younger model. I keep telling her that I'm not interested in that. Why would I throw 20 years of careful training out the window? However, she is slowing appreciating my point of view. My wife suggested that we select a travel servant on our next trip which will be to Brazil and immediately have her STD tested. There should be no shortage of 18-22 year olds that want a free trip to Fernando de Noronha.
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I see the training the same way but in reverse. I would not want to go through another 20 years of being trained by some twenty-five-year-old who will probably do everything to me that I did to my partners when I was young and dumb.

There is one thing I can guarantee. If you are twenty to twenty-five years older than your s/o, she's gonna train you the hard way. Of course, ignorance can often be bliss. But, who wants to live like that?
 
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danielpalos said:
i am learning to ask for my, even chance. i don't mind flipping a coin to see who gets it, their way.

can't have women gossiping i am not a, Man of my word now, can i?
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You never make any sense.
 
SDET said:
I'm not talking about judgement nor "shaming". I'm talking about the objective risk of men falling into failed relationships. Or more specifically, the risk of being stuck with a decade or more of child support, parental alienation, substantial loss of assets, the distraction of a failed relationship to career building, etc. What kind of women represent a higher risk to young men regarding the above-mentioned casualties?
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I think the trick is to date someone who isn't bat**** crazy.
 
swing_voter said:
I think the trick is to date someone who isn't bat**** crazy.
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That does help. It also helps not to make them bat **** crazy. Trust me on that one.
 
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