Bullying IS NOT highly subjective. If someone says "stop it", and you don't, then you are engaging in harassment, which is bullying. You're not being physically bullied, but you are certainly being ganged up and abused, in the hope that you will leave.
THAT is bullying. It shouldn't be allowed to go on here. The Mods know who these people are. Reports are made on these people, and yet they persist. So the "if ya don't like it leave" attitude says nothing about the rules that we're supposed to abide by, but rather says a whole lot about what kind of forum this is.
It certainly is subjective.
Attacking what somebody says is very different than attacking the person who says it.
If you feel you are being attacked, report it.
If your post is being attacked, that's fair game and it's why we're here.
Attacking your position on a specific topic isn't an attack on you.
Are some people like rabid pitbulls on meth regarding certain topics? Yes they are.
Put them on ignore and move on with life.
Don't respond to them unless they treat you as you'd like to be treated. You don't have to get sucked in. You chose to get sucked in.
Don't be the victim.
Say what you want to say and if it has merit, it'll stand.
Sure somebody might trash what you say, but that's their words, not yours.
Your words are still there.
So what if somebody takes it out of context and twists it around.
Does it really matter? If it does, call them out on it and fight your battle.
At some point you just have to walk away though. There are some people who absolutely must have the last word.
If you get sucked into that war you're gonna lose fairly often.
Don't take things so damn seriously. Did you come here to change peoples minds?
Not saying that it isn't possible once in a while, but if you aren't finding entertainment here, you might be in the wrong place.