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Men not being involved in the abortion debate

Can you show me all this accessible public housing? There are application processes....does not mean you get anything in the next 5 years.

There are waiting lists for shelters let alone homes.

And no insurance which would translate into eventually Medicaid - if I had that for my prenatal care - I probably would be on dialysis or dead.

By the way, a lot of these subsidies you speak of....pro-life Republicans are fighting tooth and nail to severely limit.

But go ahead and tell me how easy it is to get into public housing or section 8.

Dream on.

For one thing, you cant discredit an opinion.

And you have yet to disprove a single fact that I've posted.


Again, as I told Lursa, these are legitimate issues, however separate issues from the actual aborting of a baby.

I appreciate your response year2late. You seem much more of a critical thinker and someone capable of expanding their mind. Much more so than Lursa who is an ideologue.

Lursa believes in a society where a person can buy an ar15 and abort her child. She believes in a society where kids can do those things, something I do not agree with. My biggest problem with Lursa is that she distorts other people's opinion and twists facts around. The gall of this poster to say I value life cheaply is out of line. I found it offensive that she would claim poor people on welfare do not have much to live for in life. That was despicable.

Back to the topic at hand. One of my good friends lives in Sweden. Here are some interesting facts:

Most abortions in Sweden are performed on women aged 20–24 years old, followed by the age group 25–30 years old, and teenage abortions (15–19 years old) constitute the third largest group. Before the age of thirty most women have not established a family life and abortion is more common amongst this age group, with multiple sex partners in the younger age groups parenthood is less desired and abortion more likely.[6] The fact that most women in the younger age groups are still studying, combined with them being new on the labour market, influences the choice to perform abortion.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_Sweden

But here are Sweden's laws:

FACT:

College is FREE for students in Sweden

The Swedes get up to 16 months of paid leave after the birth of a newborn, extra tax credits to defray the cost of child-rearing, plus access to regulated, subsidized day care facilities that stay open from 6:30 in the morning until 6:30 at night.

https://newrepublic.com/article/118294/us-should-copy-sweden-and-denmarks-work-family-policies

Sweden pays parents for having kids — and it reaps huge benefits. Why doesn't the US?

https://www.vox.com/2016/5/23/11440638/child-benefit-child-allowance

So essentially the government incentivizes young women to have children. You receive money for having a baby yet women still have abortions despite the free money, education, and 16-month paid leave.

So the majority of women of Sweden have abortions, not because they can't afford it, but because they feel a child would interfere with their active sex lives.

Now, we are talking about a socialist country. They have very undemocratic laws - You need explicit consent before having sex. They want to legalize incest and necrophilia.

But Sweden proves the reasons for women having abortions are misguided and wrong. Do you find it acceptable to have an abortion on the basis of wanting to maintain a promiscuous sex life???
 
Again, as I told Lursa, these are legitimate issues, however separate issues from the actual aborting of a baby.

I appreciate your response year2late. You seem much more of a critical thinker and someone capable of expanding their mind. Much more so than Lursa who is an ideologue.

Lursa believes in a society where a person can buy an ar15 and abort her child. She believes in a society where kids can do those things, something I do not agree with. My biggest problem with Lursa is that she distorts other people's opinion and twists facts around. The gall of this poster to say I value life cheaply is out of line. I found it offensive that she would claim poor people on welfare do not have much to live for in life. That was despicable.

Back to the topic at hand. One of my good friends lives in Sweden. Here are some interesting facts:



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_Sweden

But here are Sweden's laws:

FACT:

College is FREE for students in Sweden



https://newrepublic.com/article/118294/us-should-copy-sweden-and-denmarks-work-family-policies



https://www.vox.com/2016/5/23/11440638/child-benefit-child-allowance

So essentially the government incentivizes young women to have children. You receive money for having a baby yet women still have abortion despite the free money, education, and 16-month paid leave.

So the majority of women of Sweden have abortions, not because they can't afford it, but because they feel a child would interfere with their active sex lives.

Now, we are talking about a socialist country. They have very undemocratic laws - You need explicit consent before having sex. They want to legalize incest and necrophilia.

But Sweden proves the reasons for women having abortions are misguided and wrong. Do you find it acceptable to have an abortion on the basis of wanting to maintain a promiscuous sex life???

talking about me instead of to me? Because you are unable to make any refutations in the information I provide.

I post reality. Look at my sig and see what you post. Or when you talk about feeling pain in the womb, or make up things like most pregnancies are unplanned. Time after time you post bull****...and then dodge providing sources. You cheapen life by claiming things like education, safety, paying your own way, etc are 'conveniences.'

You think 'more' unwanted infants are better than a good quality of life for women and the children they already have. :doh
 
talking about me instead of to me? Because you are unable to make any refutations in the information I provide.

I post reality. Look at my sig and see what you post. Or when you talk about feeling pain in the womb, or make up things like most pregnancies are unplanned. Time after time you post bull****...and then dodge providing sources. You cheapen life by claiming things like education, safety, paying your own way, etc are 'conveniences.'

You think 'more' unwanted infants are better than a good quality of life for women and the children they already have. :doh

Women in Sweden have abortions because they choose multiple sex partners over motherhood.

Is that what the feminist movement is all about? Sounds to me that is a cheapening of life!
 
Women in Sweden have abortions because they choose multiple sex partners over motherhood.

Is that what the feminist movement is all about? Sounds to me that is a cheapening of life!

So? That's not America.
 
Again, as I told Lursa, these are legitimate issues, however separate issues from the actual aborting of a baby.

No, they are not separate. Not if you are the woman that has to deal with the pregnancy and then a kid, and making a living and not being in poverty, not taking $ from the state unnecessarily, not neglecting the kids you already have, not missing out on an education or developing the skills for a career.

These are all huge sacrifices and if a woman doesnt want to make them, she doesnt have to.

It's incredibly selfish and cruel to demand that of strangers...esp when you arent the one that will be paying the consequences. Thank God that you do not have the power to do so.
 
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No, they are not. Not if you are the woman that has to deal with the pregnancy and then a kid, and making a living and not being in poverty, not taking $ from the state unnecessarily, not neglecting the kids you already have, not missing out on an education or developing the skills for a career.

These are all huge sacrifices and if a woman doesnt want to make them, she doesnt have to.

It's incredibly selfish and cruel to demand that of strangers...esp when you arent the one that will be paying the consequences. Thank God that you do not have the power to do so.

I am getting tired of these circular/no-logicial arguments you present. I am getting very dizzy and confused.

I presented some excellent points on women in Sweden and you failed to respond in an educated manner.
 
I'm not interested in women in Sweden. As far as I can tell, it has nothing to do with women here in the US. Why should I be bothered?

It's not my fault you had to go overseas to find women that you felt you could more legitimately judge for their behavior after Y2Y and I made you realize that American women have very legitimate life-altering reasons for having abortions.
 
... separate issues from the actual aborting of a baby.
STILL BLATHERING YOUR STUPID LIE, YOU ARE. When will you stop lying about the actual status of an unborn human?

... who is an ideologue.
OH, IS THAT HOW YOU JUSTIFY LYING ABOUT THE ACTUAL STATUS OF AN UNBORN HUMAN? By being an "ideologue"? Tsk, tsk!
 
I am getting tired of these circular/no-logicial arguments
THEN WHY DO YOU KEEP BLATHERING THEM? Facts are Facts, and the Truth is very straightforward:
(1) The Universe does not consider human life to be any more special than bacterial life. The next giant asteroid to hit Earth won't care in the least what life-forms it makes extinct.
(2) Humans have the power to lie to themselves, and therefore can Deny Fact and claim "inherent" superiority over other types of life.
(3) The lies that humans tell themselves includes the lie that endless numbers of humans is always a good thing.
(4) To be able to demonstrate at least some type of superiority over other types of life is a function of brainpower that ordinary animals (including unborn humans) simply don't have.
(5) Abortion is perfectly Natural, and typically claims about 2/3 of all human conceptions.
(6) The numbers of women who want to be pregnant and have offspring is plenty sufficient to prevent the extinction of the human species from too-low a birth rate.
(7) Women who don't want offspring (or additional offspring) are likely to seek abortions. Abortion opponents cannot offer even one Objectively Valid rationale, relative to this day-and-age, why those women should be disallowed to obtain abortions.

I am getting very dizzy and confused.
THAT'S YOUR OWN FAULT. You might be able, like Alice in Wonderland, to believe six impossible things at once, but that doesn't mean it is always a smart thing to do.

I presented some excellent points on women in Sweden
YOU STILL BLATHERED IDIOCY --that somehow your opinions of women's choices and actions is superior to their own.
 
Women in Sweden have abortions because they choose multiple sex partners over motherhood.

.....

Bucky,

You brought up the number #1 reason woman in USA gave for seeking an abortion was economic .

They said they could not afford to have/raise a baby.

Sweden is not in the United States and Women have much better safety nets in Sweden.

I showed you study that proved they were they right.

The women who had abortion at that point fared better economily than those denied an abortion even the small safety net the US has.

Denial of abortion leads to economic hardships for low income women. They are right.

But if you want to compare Sweden to the USA than the USA had 4 percent fewer abortions per 100 pregnancies in 2013 than Sweden did in 2014.

Percentage of pregnancies aborted by country (listed by percentage)
 
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You should ask your mom.

My mother died. What is your point?

I again ask...what is your what is your source for your statement that "most pregnancies are unwanted"?
 
Bucky,

You brought up the number #1 reason woman in USA gave for seeking an abortion was economic .

They said they could not afford to have/raise a baby.

Sweden is not in the United States and Women have much better safety nets in Sweden.

I showed you study that proved they were they right.

The women who had abortion at that point fared better economily than those denied an abortion even the small safety net the US has.

Denial of abortion leads to economic hardships for low income women. They are right.

But if you want to compare Sweden to the USA than the USA had 4 percent fewer abortions per 100 pregnancies in 2013 than Sweden did in 2014.

Percentage of pregnancies aborted by country (listed by percentage)

Thanks minnie.

I think my point was made. Why is it that Sweden has more abortions per 100 pregnancies compared to the United States despite Sweden having a better safety net for women?

It kind of get's to the bigger isssue about the need to ban abortions.
 
Again, as I told Lursa, these are legitimate issues, however separate issues from the actual aborting of a baby.

I appreciate your response year2late. You seem much more of a critical thinker and someone capable of expanding their mind. Much more so than Lursa who is an ideologue.

Lursa believes in a society where a person can buy an ar15 and abort her child. She believes in a society where kids can do those things, something I do not agree with. My biggest problem with Lursa is that she distorts other people's opinion and twists facts around. The gall of this poster to say I value life cheaply is out of line. I found it offensive that she would claim poor people on welfare do not have much to live for in life. That was despicable.

Back to the topic at hand. One of my good friends lives in Sweden. Here are some interesting facts:



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_Sweden

But here are Sweden's laws:

FACT:

College is FREE for students in Sweden



https://newrepublic.com/article/118294/us-should-copy-sweden-and-denmarks-work-family-policies



https://www.vox.com/2016/5/23/11440638/child-benefit-child-allowance

So essentially the government incentivizes young women to have children. You receive money for having a baby yet women still have abortions despite the free money, education, and 16-month paid leave.

So the majority of women of Sweden have abortions, not because they can't afford it, but because they feel a child would interfere with their active sex lives.

Now, we are talking about a socialist country. They have very undemocratic laws - You need explicit consent before having sex. They want to legalize incest and necrophilia.

But Sweden proves the reasons for women having abortions are misguided and wrong. Do you find it acceptable to have an abortion on the basis of wanting to maintain a promiscuous sex life???

They are absolutely NOT separate issues.

You state that we have a safety net and so things get better for the woman if they remain pregnant.

I am asking for you to back up this safety net thing. I am here to tell you that in many (if not most) areas there are long waiting lists that can take years for housing Hell, homeless shelters may not even be an easy get - particularly safe one.

Part of the safety net is Medicaid. Try to find a doctor on Medicaid. Frequent relegation to clinics with long waits, inadequate resources. A clinic might be closed to new patients and be sent to a clinic many miles away. Does that inspire confidence in you? Perhaps you believe that pregnancy complications are mere nuisances and women should just stop whining about their medical issues with pregnancy?

No not separate issues.
 
They are absolutely NOT separate issues.

You state that we have a safety net and so things get better for the woman if they remain pregnant.

I am asking for you to back up this safety net thing. I am here to tell you that in many (if not most) areas there are long waiting lists that can take years for housing Hell, homeless shelters may not even be an easy get - particularly safe one.

Part of the safety net is Medicaid. Try to find a doctor on Medicaid. Frequent relegation to clinics with long waits, inadequate resources. A clinic might be closed to new patients and be sent to a clinic many miles away. Does that inspire confidence in you? Perhaps you believe that pregnancy complications are mere nuisances and women should just stop whining about their medical issues with pregnancy?

No not separate issues.

As shown in Sweden. Improving those safety nets will not decrease abortions, in fact, it would more likely increase abortions in this country.

Republicans have no incentive to expand social programs if Democrats insist on backing these extreme abortion positions where a pregnant mother can have an abortion even a day before due date.

Start restricting abortion rights and Republicans will gladly increase money towards social welfare programs.

Liberal extremists are spiting themselves. They care more about abortions (which only helps a minority of women) rather than these social programs (which effects many more people).

It makes you think, abortion isn't a women's right issue. It is a population control issue.
 
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As shown in Sweden. Improving those safety nets will not decrease abortions, in fact, it would more likely increase abortions in this country.

Republicans have no incentive to expand social programs if Democrats insist on backing these extreme abortion positions where a pregnant mother can have an abortion even a day before due date.

Start restricting abortion rights and Republicans will gladly increase money towards social welfare programs.

Liberal extremists are spiting themselves. They care more about abortions (which only helps a minority of women) rather than these social programs (which effects many more people).

It makes you think, abortion isn't a women's right issue. It is a population control issue.


What the hell are you talking about now? (concerning the bolded)

By the way, you still have not shown where you got the information "most pregnancies are unwanted". A simple link to a reliable source would be nice.
 
Thanks minnie.

I think my point was made. Why is it that Sweden has more abortions per 100 pregnancies compared to the United States despite Sweden having a better safety net for women?

It kind of get's to the bigger isssue about the need to ban abortions.

The rate of pregnancies aborted in the USA have fallen greatly over the last several years because more than 65 percent of American women of child bearing years are using artifical birth control consistanly. And as more and more women use long term birth control it will continue to fall much sharper.

Too bad that long term birth control is very expensive. The out of pocket expensive for those who do not have birth control coverage is about $800 to $1000 . If long term birth control were more affordable imagine the numbers of unwanted pregnancies the USA would no longer have.

Women do not abort planned pregnancies unless there is a medical reason.
 
I think my point was made.
NOPE. You haven't made any point that matters yet.

Why is it that Sweden has more abortions ...
WHY DOES THAT MATTER? This is the issue you are refusing to address, despite all your blatherings in a whole lot of recent messages here. In other words:

STILL WAITING FOR YOU TO SHOW WHY YOUR OPINION IS BETTER THAN THAT OF WOMEN WHO SEEK ABORTIONS.
 
As shown in Sweden. Improving those safety nets will not decrease abortions, in fact, it would more likely increase abortions in this country.

Republicans have no incentive to expand social programs if Democrats insist on backing these extreme abortion positions where a pregnant mother can have an abortion even a day before due date.

Start restricting abortion rights and Republicans will gladly increase money towards social welfare programs.

Liberal extremists are spiting themselves. They care more about abortions (which only helps a minority of women) rather than these social programs (which effects many more people).

It makes you think, abortion isn't a women's right issue. It is a population control issue.

False.

The USA is not Sweden.

Our cultures are very different.
 
If Im not mistaken, technically, women aren’t now. The Equal Rights Amendment failed to be ratified - 3 States short.

What Rights under the Constitution are women denied?
 
I agree. I also have a distaste for manslaughter as well.

The fact is the majority of Americans have a personal distaste for abortion as well.

The majority of people have distates for any number of things that they accept and want legal. You have a poor argument.
 
I cant think of any way that we would legally be prevented that didnt violate our rights.

Agreed. I was just seeking clarification to what (the way I read it) was a muddled up sentence.
 
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