My biggest issue is that women have fought for the right to be taken seriously. For respect. For dignity and honor. Women fought their way out of a virtual slavery. Men don't own us, anymore. It disgusts me that women would sell themselves. No woman should aim to be a whore. The link between prostitution and human trafficking just adds fuel to my overall disgust. It bothers me immensely that there are men out there that would rather pay a whore to treat her like a disposable being than relate to a real woman. It pisses me off that there are women out there that will cater to this male need to "buy a woman." I view them, seriously, as traitors of a sort. In my mind the woman who will prostitute herself to a man is as disturbing as the woman who will put a burka on for a man.
Men no more "buy a woman" when they purchase the services of a prostitute than they do when they purchase the services of anyone else. Your incorrect notion that they do is the disturbing one.
But in a way I agree with the notion, only about waitresses. It is truly sad that women degrade themselves in such a worthless service industry that caters to the lazy, ****ed up, pathetic scum who can't even cook their own goddamn food. I mean, women fought for so long to be taken seriously, and then here are these looser women degrading themselves by actually SERVING people like common houseslaves. There's no dignity or honor in being a slave like that... selling themselves for piddly crap wages... being forced to smile and be cheery even at the most asshole customers. No woman should aim to be someone's serving wench/slave. It's disgusting that women would sell their flesh in such a way.
I know you have those occasional hookers who like to talk about the 1000's of $$$ they made whoring themselves out. How in control they were. Usually it's all in past tense because despite how positively lucrative it was they quit for some reason. :roll:
I quit waitressing for some reason too. :roll: Quit river guiding. Quit being a professional photographer. Quit ski patrol. Quit driving an ambulance. And quit management at Sony. All for "some reason" :roll: Astonishingly, I actually made thousands of dollars at those jobs, and was in control. I guess I must have quit because I am actually not being truthful about making money in those jobs and being in control, eh? I guess the fact that I quit a job MUST mean that I was beaten, raped, and didn't make any money.
Gimme a break. Prostitutes are not victims, as much as you'd like them to be.
The common whore doesn't make tons of money. She usually makes pretty crappy money. In most cases she doesn't keep or control a huge portion of the funds the man paid to bed her. They usually have a host of psychological issues and low self esteem. They do best when marketed like cattle, in lots.
And you know this... how? You know prostitutes? Talk to any personally? Or you just read silly, misguided websites that tell you what you want to hear about the minority of prostitutes who happen to be streetwalkers?
When sex is a commodity and marketed as a tourist attraction it's likely there are not enough willing whores within the native population of women to support the industry.
Kinda like illegal immigration and forced slave labor amongst that population too, eh? I wonder what we could do about that. Oh, I know!! Keep it illegal.
From every angle it's just immoral. There are countless children turned prostitutes.
And that is illegal, and wrong. No one is arguing it isn't. But that isn't what we're talking about.
I just literally have zero respect for prostitution. I pity the women and hope they can get out and move on to something better. I despise the customers.
I pity waitresses for the same reasons.
There's really not anything deeper than that in regards to my opinion. I find the whole business horribly immoral, uncivil, backwards, and tragic. It cannot feel good to let a man use you. Even if he pays you. The whole thing also reminds me just how pervy men can be, how insensitive, uncaring, etc. There's nothing about any of it that I find remotely appealing.
I know! They were SOOOOO insensitive when they handed me wads of cash and wined and dined me. Damn those perverts! Damn them to hell!
You are correct in that it doesn't feel good to let a person use you. Which is why I never have let anyone
use me. I've always worked for a living. And when I have sex, I never consider myself used. In fact, often it's the other way around. After all, if I'm getting paid.. I just used them to make money. If I'm not getting paid, then I just used them to get off. And sometimes.. it was both.
This whole idea of the new proud whore is just mind boggling.
The whole idea of a proud serving wench is mind boggling too. To each their own I guess. /shrug