I didn't have any problem with what she was wearing. For a warm summer day out in public, it'd be absolutely fine.
For walking through a dark alleyway at night, I'd probably opt for something a bit more concealing just to be on the safe side. However, in that case, I'd probably simply go with her anyway. :shrug:
Something along these lines is more of what I was talking about. Not only is it revealing, but it is trashy.
It sends off vibes implying that a woman is sexually available, and not particularly hard to get.
I've seen (admittedly, much more attractive) young women wearing stuff worse than that in downtown Chas on several occasions. It's not terribly uncommon to even run across women in tight "booty shorts," midriff baring tank tops, and stripper heels pounding the strip looking for a good time.
Even if those women aren't looking to have sex per se, they are looking to get attention. If they're not careful to take the right precautions, they run the risk of getting that attention from someone who might misunderstand their intentions.
This could be a contributing factor in that person either not taking "no" for an answer or trying to take advantage.
Yes, but there's provocative and then there's
provocative. The latter tends to get more attention from the "wrong" kinds of guys.
I also didn't deny that behavior plays the major role in this.
Here is my view in a nutshell.
See?
I think less "screwing around" in general would be a good thing. I have made no secret of that.
However, I'm hardly suggesting that we all live like the Amish instead. :lol:
If wishes were dollar bills, Chris, we'd all be billionaires. :shrug:
We already prosecute these rapists and make an active point of preaching against their behavior. Rape is still common; depressingly so where the issue we are currently discussing is concerned.
Whether you like it or not, there are certain things a woman is going to have to avoid if she wants to be safe. That's simple reality, and it isn't going to change any time soon. There really isn't anything else to it.
She is potentially hurting herself if she doesn't take care to defend her own best interests.
Again, this is simple reality. Concepts like "blame" don't even enter into the equation.
Should I "turn the other cheek?" :mrgreen: