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Have you ever been in a fight for your life?

Have you ever been in a true fight for your life?


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How do people get themselves into violent situations?


That's actually a pretty good question. Thing is, there is no one answer and it is a complex subject I could write at least one book on.

Sometimes you're just in the wrong place at the wrong time, and get targeted by the wrong person. This has happened to me, and also to my father.
Sometimes people fail to be alert and miss warning signs that they're walking into trouble.
Sometimes you're targeted by a criminal for a street crime, because they think you meet their "victim selection criteria".
Sometimes you made a decision that might have seemed reasonable at the time but turned out to be a bad call.
Sometimes you do something really stupid and you should have known better.
Sometimes you get into a violent situation because it is your duty or because you are trying to protect an innocent person. BTDT.

Sometimes you get into a violent confrontation because you have an irreconcilable conflict of interests with someone who is willing to use force to have things their way.

Sometimes you make a series of minor decisions, each of which seems harmless or trivial in and of itself, but which combine like steps to form a chain of events that ultimately lands you in some deep ****.

Sometimes it happens because you're hanging out with the wrong crowd..... or sometimes the people YOU are hanging with are not so bad, but THEY are associated with some real bad characters and YOU get dragged into their crap unwillingly.

Hell that's just the tip of the iceberg really....
 
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The reason for the OP is how many people are declaring they know what was going on in GZ and TM's head during the fight/assault, what would be reasonable reactions and even that they can calculate exactly how the fight/assault physically happened in microscopic detail. This raises the question of do they have any real life knowledge or experiences of those opinions (that they tend to declare are facts) - or are they trying to rationalize and calculate emotions and actions they actually have no knowledge of whatsoever?

By personal experience (very extensive) and very extensive personal observations of others over nearly my whole lifetime - both skilled/experienced in violence and far more who were not, I draw many different conclusions from those drawn by both anti and pro-GZ posters.

For example, EVEN IF TM has raged "You are going to die!" - that doesn't mean TM was the aggressor. That is very common type ragings in a fight - and can come from EITHER hate and agressiveness OR fear and defensiveness. On the other hand, anyone whose head had been slammed into concrete by a stranger is going to use any possible means and any possible weapons available - regardless of how the conflict started or who started it. IF it became a struggle over the gun as GZ claims - and both are amatuers of little fight experience - at that point I think it a certainty that one or the other was going to get shot.

All those ^ are truisms in my opinion - truisms about human nature. This was not two rational, reasoning thru it enlightened adults in a violent confrontation. It was two animals acting on instincts and the most primitive of emotions and instincts.

Life-survival violence raises the most primitive emotions of hate and fear particularly in those who never experienced it befor. A person doesn't know which will trigger in him/herself until it actually happens. There is little to no rationality in any of it.

Some people will become totally crippled in fear. Others will go into blind hate-rage - even if the victim. Most people wllh turn away/cring to pain (being hit). A few will turn into it they way a lion will turn into pain rather than be repelled by it. The person isn't thinking thru anything - they are just doing - am if inexperienced in such situations there will be no rationality involved. An experienced and/or trained person may be acting in some rationality and even with reservations - but is from conditioned actions and reactions by experience and training, not micro second to micro second analysis.

I have trained some women in self defense and usage of fire arms. I do not teach them to think. I train them to not think - by actual body movement conditioning to mindlessly react in preset ways to various situations - that all decisions were already made and done over and over and over physicallly so they don't have to think - just do as conditioned to do. There is no time to think nor is it human nature in such situations to do so.

What most strikes me as absurd in relation to reality is analysing the injuries of GZ to determine if they were life threatening. First, any blows to the nose and certain head against concrete is life threatening. But more relevant is that the person suffering such injury is not going to be calculating such a question because raw, core primitive emotions caused by the shock of extreme physical pain and violence will be in control.

The legal question seems simple to me - and it seems that people are trying to mix their personal ethics, social platitudes and some fantasy perfection humans should possess in that legal question. The legal questions seem to only be:
1. Who threw the first blow or overtly threatened to do so?
2. Did it become a stuggle for the gun?

Until it actually became a violent conflict, neither had done anything illegal so it all is all but irrelevant - although BOTH were foolishly acting well outside their skill range in relation to potentials.

As others try to analyse the entire life history and psychology of GZ and maybe TM too, and then every second prior to what happened in the actual fight/assault - and then every word said afterwards - I look at the actual fight/assault itself as what is decisive. Personally, I think whatevers lead to two men in a life-death struggle and one of the died. All evidence - to my values - says GZ isn't a murderer. BUT if it had been TM who ended up with the gun and shot GZ - I also would reach the same conclusion about TM, that he had not committed murder. For both it became a matter of life-death self defense and self survival - or at least both believed it was in their primitive minds. Both of them clearly lacked the skill and conditioned experience to opt for any middle ground.

The initial impressions burned in by the media (on both sides) was so extreme (and often false or off point) and so judgmentally editorial on emotional furious levels repetitiously that it seems most people can't let those instilled emotions go. From this, they seek every possible means to protect the powerful emotions they already then had about the case. Since I think basically ALL the talking media heads and partisans are just PR actors and liars accordingly, it was easier for me to let those go.

I don't think anyone can put themselves into Zimmerman's head unless they themselves have been in a fight for their lives. Adrenalin is the most powerful stimulant in our bodies. When adrenalin kicks in, all bets are off. We will, by nature and genetics, do anything we can to stay alive. Only the most trained among us can "turn off that switch" and act with any real rationality. Zimmerman wasn't one of those.
 
That's actually a pretty good question. Thing is, there is no one answer and it is a complex subject I could write at least one book on.

Sometimes you're just in the wrong place at the wrong time, and get targeted by the wrong person. This has happened to me, and also to my father.
Sometimes people fail to be alert and miss warning signs that they're walking into trouble.
Sometimes you're targeted by a criminal for a street crime, because they think you meet their "victim selection criteria".
Sometimes you made a decision that might have seemed reasonable at the time but turned out to be a bad call.
Sometimes you do something really stupid and you should have known better.
Sometimes you get into a violent situation because it is your duty or because you are trying to protect and innocent person.

Sometimes you get into a violent confrontation because you have an irreconcilable conflict of interests with someone who is willing to use force to have things their way.

Sometimes you make a series of minor decisions, each of which seems harmless or trivial in and of itself, but which combine like steps to form a chain of events that ultimately lands you in some deep ****.

Sometimes it happens because you're hanging out with the wrong crowd..... or sometimes the people YOU are hanging with are not so bad, but THEY are associated with some real bad characters and YOU get dragged into their crap unwillingly.

Hell that's just the tip of the iceberg really....

Good answer. .... Really.

My dad fell asleep on the train and woke up to find his cashmere top coat missing.. He walked the length of the train, found his coat and slugged the guy who took it.

My father was otherwise a peaceful man and a hero in refinery fires.
 
I'm proud of myself. I'm finally able to dismiss your posts without jerking to attention and sayin': WTF????!!!!

Character does matter, Maggie.. George had a long history of following people, road rage, sudden violence.. and he is absolutely a pathological liar.

Neighbors saw him many times driving around the complex with his lights off or peering into darkened areas on foot with his flashlight..

And look at his two friends.. serious lowlifes.
 
There is no evidence that Trayvon doubled back.. I think that George is probably talking about what he did. George was furious.. Trayvon had no idea that he was profiled as a burglar or dangerous criminal.



The time line proves TM doubled back. If not, TM would have been home well before this happened.
 
The time line proves TM doubled back. If not, TM would have been home well before this happened.

No it doesn't prove Trayvon doubled back. That is a very silly assumption.

You know people who are violent and get infights frequently or suffer road rage generally believe that everyone is as violent as they are............
 
Character does matter, Maggie.. George had a long history of following people, road rage, sudden violence.. and he is absolutely a pathological liar.

Neighbors saw him many times driving around the complex with his lights off or peering into darkened areas on foot with his flashlight..

And look at his two friends.. serious lowlifes.

TM was a doper, school malcontent, bully, vandal, thief, rejected even by his mother and stepmother, and fundamentally violent person. Unlike TM, GZ had friends of different races.
 
No it doesn't prove Trayvon doubled back. That is a very silly assumption.

You know people who are violent and get infights frequently or suffer road rage generally believe that everyone is as violent as they are............


Your attempting to be Dr. Sharon, psychologist, is always a fail. Your analysis is wrong - nor do you have ANY basis to make it.
 
How do people get themselves into violent situations?

Your presumption that people "get themselves into violent situations" is usually wrong. For most people, violence is suddenly upon him/her.

A better question is who should a person do mentally and in real terms to be prepared if such happens and also how to avoid it.
 
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TM was a doper, school malcontent, bully, vandal, thief, rejected even by his mother and stepmother, and fundamentally violent person. Unlike TM, GZ had friends of different races.

Silly lies....
 
Your presumption that people "get themselves into violent situations" is usually wrong. For most people, violence is suddenly upon him/her.

You have bragged about all your fights and run ins with the law.
 
There is no evidence that Trayvon doubled back.. I think that George is probably talking about what he did. George was furious.. Trayvon had no idea that he was profiled as a burglar or dangerous criminal.

Puleeeze! Even Dee's own account shows that M initiated the first actual voice contact between the two. Dee's own account admits that M had lost Z. And the timeline itself shows that M had plenty of time to either stay hidden or run on home which was about 100 ft away. Hell i'm middle aged and am 30lbs overweight and I'm a smoker and even I could have run that far in less than 20 seconds. Surely M who was young and has an athletic build could have run it in about 10 seconds.

As for George being "furious"...really? Where is the evidence of that? Oh wait...Dee's account says that Z used an angry voice. :roll: An angry voice doesn't mean chit. I use an angry voice at my children all the time and 99.9% of the time I'm not angry with them. I just use it to enhance my authority and to impress upon them the seriousness of the issue.
 
You have bragged about all your fights and run ins with the law.


I've never had a "run in" with the law nor have "bragged" of fights. What I stated was the exact opposite of 1.) I never had any problem with the police and 2.) boasted to the contrary of what you said that I an no longer in life circumstances where there is any significant violence or danger of it.

Unlike you, I never boasted of nor have I ever as an adult assaulted a child.
 
No it doesn't prove Trayvon doubled back. That is a very silly assumption.

You know people who are violent and get infights frequently or suffer road rage generally believe that everyone is as violent as they are............

Ah yes the "road rage". Told by an ex-fiancee who no doubt holds a grudge against Z. I love how M's supporters are quite willing to take witness testimony from people that would obviously have a grudge against Z as fact without any supporting evidence but demands that Z should have evidence for every single little thing and when there isn't make up wild stories based upon no facts beyond that of the people that would obviously have a grudge against Z.
 
I've never had a "run in" with the law nor have "bragged" of fights. What I stated was the exact opposite of 1.) I never had any problem with the police and 2.) boasted to the contrary of what you said that I an no longer in life circumstances where there is any significant violence or danger of it.

Unlike you, I never boasted of nor have I ever as an adult assaulted a child.

Didn't you claim you have been in jail many times?
 
Ah yes the "road rage". Told by an ex-fiancee who no doubt holds a grudge against Z. I love how M's supporters are quite willing to take witness testimony from people that would obviously have a grudge against Z as fact without any supporting evidence but demands that Z should have evidence for every single little thing and when there isn't make up wild stories based upon no facts beyond that of the people that would obviously have a grudge against Z.

No the road rage episode had nothing to do with his fiancee...
 
No the road rage episode had nothing to do with his fiancee...

Ex-fiancee. And if you're not refering to to her comment then just what are you refering to. I did a google search with varying search words and I have yet to find any evidence that Z showed any road rage beyond that of his ex-fiancee saying that he had it.
 
Ex-fiancee. And if you're not refering to to her comment then just what are you refering to. I did a google search with varying search words and I have yet to find any evidence that Z showed any road rage beyond that of his ex-fiancee saying that he had it.

Listen to the SPD taped interviews with Serino and Singleton.
 
Didn't you claim you have been in jail many times?

I don't see reason to write it out again.

What i wrote is that I never had any problems with the police and they had none with me. They were doing their job.

There are many videos on U-Tube of people going absolutely berserk when getting a ticket or an officer asked the person questions or for an ID. My attitude was entirely opposite. Police had a badge, a gun and all the power of government behind them. They serve a necessary role in society. I wish even just once time I had ever seen a police officer in my youth. As an adult I neither saw police as friend or foe. They did their job. I did mine. Sometimes events made our paths cross.
 
Ex-fiancee. And if you're not refering to to her comment then just what are you refering to. I did a google search with varying search words and I have yet to find any evidence that Z showed any road rage beyond that of his ex-fiancee saying that he had it.

In September 2003, Zimmerman called police and reported that another motorist spat on him, according to reports, Zimmerman followed the man in his car until the police arrived. Daniel Osmun, the other driver, told police that Zimmerman was tailgating and that he spit his gum out the window "out of frustration."

Osum said that Zimmerman then pulled alongside of him, and the two argued. In a police report of the incident, Osum said “at one point, he thought Mr. Zimmerman was going to attack him." No charges were filed against either man.

Trayvon Martin Case: George Zimmerman Was 'Jekyll And Hyde,' Former Co-Worker Says
 
Ex-fiancee. And if you're not refering to to her comment then just what are you refering to. I did a google search with varying search words and I have yet to find any evidence that Z showed any road rage beyond that of his ex-fiancee saying that he had it.


I doubt I would ever believe ANY disparaging statements coming from his or her ex - whether man or woman. In my entire life, I have never heard even 1 woman say her ex was a great guy.
 
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In September 2003, Zimmerman called police and reported that another motorist spat on him, according to reports, Zimmerman followed the man in his car until the police arrived. Daniel Osmun, the other driver, told police that Zimmerman was tailgating and that he spit his gum out the window "out of frustration."

Osum said that Zimmerman then pulled alongside of him, and the two argued. In a police report of the incident, Osum said “at one point, he thought Mr. Zimmerman was going to attack him." No charges were filed against either man.

Trayvon Martin Case: George Zimmerman Was 'Jekyll And Hyde,' Former Co-Worker Says


A guy spit gum at GZ's car, and GZ called the police and followed him. That doesn't count as road rage.
 
In September 2003, Zimmerman called police and reported that another motorist spat on him, according to reports, Zimmerman followed the man in his car until the police arrived. Daniel Osmun, the other driver, told police that Zimmerman was tailgating and that he spit his gum out the window "out of frustration."

Osum said that Zimmerman then pulled alongside of him, and the two argued. In a police report of the incident, Osum said “at one point, he thought Mr. Zimmerman was going to attack him." No charges were filed against either man.

Trayvon Martin Case: George Zimmerman Was 'Jekyll And Hyde,' Former Co-Worker Says

This means nothing! I myself have followed both a DUI and a guy who backed into my car at a stoplight (even though I didn't think he caused any damage). I lost both of them because I'm such a pansy I won't speed....but you get the picture. I've flipped people off prolly a dozen times behind the wheel of my car. One recently, I even flipped off the horse he rode in on.

This is just more ****. On top of ****. On top of ****.
 
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