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Kavanaugh 65 women letter is fishy
Think back to when you were in high school. If you went to a school like Prep and had a corresponding social circle, all the better.
Thinking back to my boarding school days and about my classmates and "friends" back home, kids who, for the most part were just like me but for their going to Prep, Episcopal, Madeira, and St. Albans/NCS (all in the D.C. area) and similar day schools, while I had a the typically large circle of "friends" prep schoolers have, one that included some several hundred kids, the reality is that, as with all of us, only a small few, about a dozen or so, not 65 kids with whom one didn't go to school, were well enough known to any one of us that one could credibly remark on the quality of their character and comportment.
"So and so" was a "fox," and we crossed paths from time to time and recognized each other, but she didn't go to my school, so all I knew was that she was nice, good looking, went to "this or that" school, and was good friends with "so and so." I never saw her do anything bizarre at parties and whatnot, so, sure, if asked about her today, I wouldn't have anything derogatory to say.
Similarly, with even the boys with whom I had "major" disagreements (we kids had our tussles, but nobody ever assaulted me -- if someone had, yes, I'd mention it were they on the cusp of becoming a major public official -- POTUS, VPOTUS, JSCOTUS, or a governor, for example), we were just kids. I wouldn't today disparage them, mainly because nobody whom I didn't get along well with remained in my closer circle of friends and acquaintances. After we parted ways, be it during our high school years or later to go to college and/or to start non-intersecting careers, I lost touch with them. So what would there be for me to say? Remember what Mother taught you? If you haven't something nice to say, say nothing. Insofar as I wouldn't rag on someone over their typical (for kids in my social set and for the times) teenage cavorting, like those 65 women from Kavanaugh's high school years, I wouldn't have anything bad to say.
That said, Kavanaugh isn't that much younger than I, and I have siblings much closer to his age. His high school years, like mine, surely were full of bacchanal parties. (The drinking age back then was 18, and anyone who wanted one had a good enough fake ID.) I can't say whether he did or didn't do what what's been asserted, but I can say that I wouldn't put it past a drunk 17/18 year-old from a patrician background to try something of that nature. Moreover, those were the days when girls wouldn't say anything, particularly if they didn't get beaten and bruised. A girl to whom such a thing happened would have been very pissed and subsequently want nothing to do with the guy, but it's unlikely that she'd ever say anything about it to hers or anyone's parents. That sort of thing just wasn't done unless some real physical harm clearly transpired. Indeed, a girl making such an accusation was likely to find she, not the boy(s), suffered social ostracization for having done so.
In light of all that, I believe the woman. I get why she's had nothing to say about it for the past 30-odd years -- it's not as though Kavanaugh's name has long and frequently been in the news, to say nothing of her likely having put the incident behind her. She's moved on with her life and surely wasn't carrying a grudge to the point of keeping current re: Brett's goings on and achievements.
Was what Kavanaugh is alleged to have done wrong? Yes. That the times forbore and/or discounted the odiousness of such behavior doesn't make that kind of behavior right. Do I think being an inebriated and hormone-driven teen boy's assaulting a girl disqualifies one for a position on the SCOTUS? Yes, because it speaks to an aspect of one's character, an aspect of it that's been present since one youth. Such a teen has lived his/her whole life having gotten away with such a thing and may even now be denying it. I'm sorry, I don't want a jurist like that sitting on the SCOTUS bench.
Having, or even knowingly risking having such a person on the highest court in the land contravenes all I would expect of judges in general, and all the more so SCOTUS jurists. Why even "go there" or risk doing so when there are other conservative judges, judges about whom no such concern will be posed, who can sit there and who would deliver equally conservative decisions?