The majority of people from both sides of the aisle are good decent people. I wouldn't use the rhetoric of politicians, who are almost always calculating in what they say, as a barometer for how people in general feel and behave.
This week nobody in real life has told me to **** off or called me anything mean to my face. Nobody in real life has belittled me for my political beliefs.
On the other hand, in that same time period, easily over 100 people have told me good morning, held doors open for me, given me polite nods hello, and a few have even complimented me or done me a favor.
Sometimes it helps to turn off the TV and get off the internet and just live in the real world for a bit to get some perspective.