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Women - What are you feelings about "giving away the milk for free".

lurchadams said:
Good. I you're happily married and not dating now you have absolutely no idea what you're talking about. But please, keep on talking out your ass.
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Not a Praxas fan, but he's right about you.

Get yourself a blowup doll. That way you won't have to have a morning after meltdown because a real live woman turned you down.
 
tres borrachos said:
Highly unlikely she got her period at 53. The nose hair is more likely. Or chin hair. On her, i mean.
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Not always likely but YOU WOULD BE surprised.
Besides, I was using it as filler.
It could have been any damn thing.
 
SkyFox76 said:
It could be the three dogs humping on your living room carpet when you two walk in.



Just throwing things out there. :mrgreen:
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:lamo Those are NOT MY dogs, and it was in the park. Who on Earth has green carpet?
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And hey, SOME women have such a twisted sense of humor that they laugh so hard at something that sick and twisted that it puts them in the mood just from laughing. I've been known to use humor, even extremely self-deprecating humor where I humiliate myself to break the tension.

On the other hand, I went over to my wife yesterday just to give her a hug and some smooches and whisper sweet nothings at her and right in the middle of all the kissy-face, my CAT decides she wants my attention.

"No Fiona, no interspecies dating allowed!"

Which of course made Karen laugh hard, and made Fiona decide to just plop herself down on the keyboard and screw up my wife's game.
 
lurchadams said:
Mmmm.... hmmm... someone else just tried that with me, my naive' friend. Didn't work for them either. I know who I am. I like who I am. I honestly don't give a **** what YOU think of me.

The first time you ever get laid, if that ever happens you'll begin to figure out how the world works.

Until then don't opine about things you know nothing about.
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If you like who you are, and know who you are, what Sherri decided was best for her wouldn't even bother you. No need to ask others what they think about this either because you would have already been onto greener pastures.
It's obvious that you're the one with issues. I'm thinking that you actually delude yourself into thinking you were entitled to have sex on a third date but because she blew you off, your frail ego isn't having any of it.
 
HumblePi said:
In my opinion, if you had responded with "yes, I completely understand. How about dinner next weekend?" That would have said more about you than anything she could have asked.
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:golf

Great post!
 
lurchadams said:
You're making assumptions. You have no idea how I was treating her. I could have been smacking her across the face and telling her, "get your clothes off and get into bed, babe". Is that's what you pictured happening? You don't know me, you don't know Sheri, and you don't have a clue regarding what you're talking about.

I'm a nice guy. I treat women gently and with respect. You're just going to have to take my word that I know how to talk to women I'm dating, pal.
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Apparently you don't either. She's a liar and has mental issues with regards to intimacy. After 3 months how did you not know this?
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
I'm tellin ya, it could have been NOSE HAIR.
Nose hair can block runways.

It could have been mouthwash, mouthwash can block runways.

It could have been a move he made or something he said, reminded her of someone else and not in a good way, not his fault but again that can block runways, too.

Or just nose hair...
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Honestly that could have been exactly it. Was this the first kiss? Maybe he kisses just like her ex. Maybe a tone of voice or comment killed the fire.

Or the nose hair.:shrug:
 
lurchadams said:
You're making assumptions. You have no idea how I was treating her. I could have been smacking her across the face and telling her, "get your clothes off and get into bed, babe". Is that's what you pictured happening? You don't know me, you don't know Sheri, and you don't have a clue regarding what you're talking about.

I'm a nice guy. I treat women gently and with respect. You're just going to have to take my word that I know how to talk to women I'm dating, pal.
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You do not treat women gently and with respect. This thread of yours is proof of this.
 
After reading this incredibly tasteless original post, I'm happy for this woman that she turned the original poster down. Good riddance! She can do better.
 
trixare4kids said:
If you like who you are, and know who you are, what Sherri decided was best for her wouldn't even bother you. No need to ask others what they think about this either because you would have already been onto greener pastures.
It's obvious that you're the one with issues. I'm thinking that you actually delude yourself into thinking you were entitled to have sex on a third date but because she blew you off, your frail ego isn't having any of it.
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Hopefully it doesn't have anything to do with ego, but with efficient use of time, energy and resources. He is, by the way, wasting time and energy worrying about it. Lurch is suffering from the sunk cost fallacy. He is putting in effort to salvage the sunk cost (time, energy and resources) in such a woman.
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
:lamo Those are NOT MY dogs, and it was in the park. Who on Earth has green carpet?
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And hey, SOME women have such a twisted sense of humor that they laugh so hard at something that sick and twisted that it puts them in the mood just from laughing. I've been known to use humor, even extremely self-deprecating humor where I humiliate myself to break the tension.

On the other hand, I went over to my wife yesterday just to give her a hug and some smooches and whisper sweet nothings at her and right in the middle of all the kissy-face, my CAT decides she wants my attention.

"No Fiona, no interspecies dating allowed!"

Which of course made Karen laugh hard, and made Fiona decide to just plop herself down on the keyboard and screw up my wife's game.
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Okay I'm not one to usually admit this, but I actually was acquainted with a couple that had green carpet throughout their home. And the thing is, this was a super nice house in an expensive part of town. So people's first time visit they'd be walking in the whole "omg we LOVE your house! the outside is simply to die for!!" then they'd lock onto the fact they'd just stepped onto a putting green with a vaulted ceiling and there would be a pause while they tried to overcome it and find something else to focus on.

And the funny thing was, I always just assumed it came in the house when they bought it, but then they happened to mention on some occasion that they'd had new carpet put in. Imagine my surprise to go to the next party over there and.............GREEN carpet! :golf

Nobody ever asked why, it was just one of those unspoken oddities. This was in the 90's btw not some freak 70's deal. Or weird doggie three way! :lol:
 
lurchadams said:
I understand what you're saying, C.B. And if I thought Sherri was the worth it, I'd be patient and invest more time in her. There's a couple of other ladies I'm seeing that don't have Sherri's problems or antiquated outlook on sexuality. If Sherri wants to continue a dialog with me, she's welcome to. I, however have already moved on from any hope that anything worthwhile would ever develop between us - not because she rejected me, but for the immature way she handled the rejection. I need people that I hang out with to act like grown ups or I don't have time for them.
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So, basically what you are saying here is... (see formatted text above) "you want a "slam bang bump and grind, I got mine!!!"... Thank's babe"
As your post continue to speak about "the other's" you are pursuing within all this time frame".... :roll:

Keep talking... the "real" truth keeps coming out :doh

It might be interesting to note.. some women who have kids, have high standards, because they never stop being a role model, and they want to face their kids with a straight face... having felt comfortable they did not just "play the lay and spread" for any Jack, Jake or Fred....
 
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SkyFox76 said:
Okay I'm not one to usually admit this, but I actually was acquainted with a couple that had green carpet throughout their home. And the thing is, this was a super nice house in an expensive part of town. So people's first time visit they'd be walking in the whole "omg we LOVE your house! the outside is simply to die for!!" then they'd lock onto the fact they'd just stepped onto a putting green with a vaulted ceiling and there would be a pause while they tried to overcome it and find something else to focus on.

And the funny thing was, I always just assumed it came in the house when they bought it, but then they happened to mention on some occasion that they'd had new carpet put in. Imagine my surprise to go to the next party over there and.............GREEN carpet! :golf

Nobody ever asked why, it was just one of those unspoken oddities. This was in the 90's btw not some freak 70's deal. Or weird doggie three way! :lol:
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Where do you guys get these emoji's ????
 
haymarket said:
I have always liked your posts on politics. I sincerely wish you well and hope all this works out for you.
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Thanks, so much! I hope everything works out for you as well. Unfortunately I don't recall right now any of your other posts. I promise to pay attention, now.
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
You do not know if her outlook is "antiquated".
By the way, I missed the part about you asking her "how long has it been"...suddenly now she's a car in need of a new fan belt.
Dude, never ever ever EVER ask another woman that again.

I mean, you CAN ASK that, but something like that usually gets asked AFTER you're both laying there glowing, and then that question takes on a meaning very different from yours.

Yours...not a good one.
Like I said, I must have missed that, Charis Rose was right, GUARANTEED turn-off.
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I absolutely disagree with you. If I'm about to have sex with someone for the first time, I have to know how much of a "driver" I have to be. Sheri telling me it had been "years" told me immediately I had to reassure her that I am capable of guiding her through everything since she's basically, again a virgin.

No, I disagree with you friend. That's important information for me to have.
 
JMR said:
It's not surprising that you felt a little led on by signals. The problem may be that you assume she thinks like you, and the outcome proves a different reality. She went to some trouble to create an atmosphere to share with you....YOU assume that meant sex.

Maybe she wanted to have a cuddle and some personal talk without the kids listening in?
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Then instead of pulling back when I tried to kiss her, why not just tell me that? I swear to God if she had said something like hey, my name, I am terrified of having sex with anyone because it's been years and I'd rather we just cuddle I SWEAR TO GOD I would have been fine with that. I would have appreciated her honesty, I'D ****ING CUDDLE WITH HER ALL NIGHT, CLOTHES ON if that's what she wanted.

The problem is she didn't communicate anything. She closed off. She's damaged goods, JMR.

JMR said:
Maybe she thought the night was still very young, and what was your hurry?
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Yeah, again. Communication? You know, people talking to one another and sharing their feelings? Have you heard of that? Sheri's incapable. I have no time for that, sorry.

JMR said:
When she wanted to slow things down, you took the opportunity to tell her how you were the right guy to fix her situation, and attempted to lead her into her own bedroom. It's not hard to imagine her thinking HOW do I slow this down? You describe that as terror. The fact is she planned this time for the two of you, and you didn't really consider what she might be thinking, you assumed she was thinking just like you.
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She slowed NOTHING down. She terminated the encounter, full stop, with no explanation other than, "I don't know you well enough".

JMR said:
I don't thin?k she needs any therapy. It's pretty obvious you think you've given her enough time to "get ready" so there is no need to up your seduction game. Better luck with the next woman. I hope it works out for you.
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And I disagree with you, JMR. This woman I'm seeing, Melissa told me she things Sheri is a victim of society's pressure to feel "perfect" all the time. Today's advertising of cosmetics and such has made women feel inadequate. Makes a lot of sense, do you not agree?

Sheri needs help, JMR. She needs help or she's going to end back up on that couch with another guy and experience the same disappointment and shame.
 
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