When I was a young teen, my parents would drive us to West Point Military Academy in New York. Besides being a nice drive there, there was a lot of history to absorb, and I like history. Once or twice, they brought us to one of the West Point dress parades of the graduating class. It was just so stunning, those young cadets graduating inspired patriotism and pride of our country. The last West Point graduation and dress parade was marred by several graduate cadets who dishonored their uniform and the legacy of West Point when they made the 'white power' sign with their hands. Sure, West Point did an 'investigation' of this and concluded that the hand gestures they were making were not racist.
The way our military in general has been transformed from one that was once distinguished and highly respected around the world, to one that is distrusted and degraded in the eyes of the world. And, we're responsible for that. Incidents involving the military -- what happened in 2004 in Abu Ghraib for example where prisoners weren't only tortured, they were deeply humiliated, which for a culture such as Iraq had, was far worse than torture or death. More recently, the Eddie Gallagher acquittal by Trump of war crimes which served to dismantle the unity among military officers within the Pentagon.
There's no discipline or respect in our youth anymore, why would we expect less from them as adults? There's no respect for authority. They have no fear of authoritarian figures in their lives whether it's teachers, parents or government.