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Is remaining a virgin till marriage possible.

Men are animals and screw anything wearing a dress.

See, you're looking at yourself and assuming everyone is like you. That's not true, though, because many of us are intelligent.
 
Of course it's possible, but why the **** would anyone actually do it?
I can answer that. Girl wanted to wait, and because I love her, I will wait most patiently.
 
I can answer that. Girl wanted to wait, and because I love her, I will wait most patiently.

To each their own, but that's insane IMO. How the **** can you even begin to know if you want to spend the 'rest of your life' with someone without having a clue if you're compatible in the bedroom?

That, to me, is insane.
 
To each their own, but that's insane IMO. How the **** can you even begin to know if you want to spend the 'rest of your life' with someone without having a clue if you're compatible in the bedroom?

That, to me, is insane.
Because the "bedroom" doesn't really matter to us. We are both virgins. When the time comes we will explore each other ourselves and see what we like, other than that, sex is never brought up. I...apparantly...have a talent with poetry, and she thoroughly enjoys that about me. She looks beautiful and I've never had more fun making a girl go "awwww!". We are confident our time together will be good enough for the both of us.
 
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Men are animals and screw anything wearing a dress.

Something tells me that you are trying to cover something up by applying yourself to the rest of your gender.

EDIT: Apparently Gman beat me to it.
 
Because the "bedroom" doesn't really matter to us. We are both virgins. When the time comes we will explore each other ourselves and see what we like, other than that, sex is never brought up. I...apparantly...have a talent with poetry, and she thoroughly enjoys that about me. She looks beautiful and I've never had more fun making a girl go "awwww!". We are confident our time together will be good enough for the both of us.

You and your girl are rare and old fashioned and I commend you both. I think you will find that because you have decided to wait that your love for each other will be much more than the superficial relationships so common today.
 
Ideally yes, but it's also "possible" to cut your testicles off and be a eunuch instead of getting married. Sure both are possible, but since they're both stupid and cause more harm than good, who cares? :2razz:
 
Abstinence has its own satisfaction.
Apparently it does. Just ask this guy

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Ideally yes, but it's also "possible" to cut your testicles off and be a eunuch instead of getting married. Sure both are possible, but since they're both stupid and cause more harm than good, who cares? :2razz:

Ha. And they say social liberalism is about not judging how people live their lives.
 
The idea of waiting until marriage is something that I think is a good idea in theory and on a symbolic level, but I doubt many people have the capacity for devotion to a relationship inspite of the realities of life when they do go this route. I don't doubt they exist, and I have great respect for anyone who can put so much meaning into a relationship. They are like rare, fine gemstones.
 
Yeah. My wife did, as did some of her cousins.
Anything is possible if you care enough to consider it and not allow heterosuggestive influence to factor into your choice.
 
Because the "bedroom" doesn't really matter to us. We are both virgins. When the time comes we will explore each other ourselves and see what we like, other than that, sex is never brought up. I...apparantly...have a talent with poetry, and she thoroughly enjoys that about me. She looks beautiful and I've never had more fun making a girl go "awwww!". We are confident our time together will be good enough for the both of us.

Yeah, that's nice. Good luck with that if the sex sucks. :lol:

Seriously, I hope you guys work out and all, truly, but I just don't see how two people can stay together, happy, and faithful if the sex sucks. And there's no way to know if the sex sucks until you have the sexxors.
 
You are being quite derogatory toward your own gender. Providing of course, that you are actually a male as is indicated under your stats there <-------- ?

What are you saying.. that men are no better than animals and cannot control themselves?

Well we are animals. Hominid Genus.

We are biologically wired to want to do it. The sex drive for the average 20 year old guy is probably stronger than it is for a nymphomaniac porn actress.
 
To each their own, but that's insane IMO. How the **** can you even begin to know if you want to spend the 'rest of your life' with someone without having a clue if you're compatible in the bedroom?

That, to me, is insane.

I completely understand where you're coming from. But keep in mind sex isn't the only sexual activity. My girlfriend and I have done a lot of things (a lot), and it's simple to extrapolate that to intercourse.

That said, I think failing to explore one another sexually for an entire relationship is completely unrealistic. People have different sexual fantasies and my girlfriend and I match up great in that respect. But if you marry someone without being able to answer the question "What do they enjoy in the bedroom?", you've left a big open hole in the relationship, which is always a possibility for failure.

I suppose the conclusion is: it's better to explore each other, and not wait. But if you want to wait, at least explore each other in others ways. A non-sexual relationship is a disaster.
 
You and your girl are rare and old fashioned and I commend you both. I think you will find that because you have decided to wait that your love for each other will be much more than the superficial relationships so common today.

I disagree. While I think an over-sexual couple misses out on other stuff, a completely (like, nothing) abstinent relationship is dull and dry. The number one way for people express love is through sex. If you have no sexual relationship at all, you don't really know each other. It's not some small thing to be shunned away, it's a real and major human activity. Failing to recognize that just sets up for failure when both finally realize sex *is* a big deal.
 
Yeah, that's nice. Good luck with that if the sex sucks. :lol:

Seriously, I hope you guys work out and all, truly, but I just don't see how two people can stay together, happy, and faithful if the sex sucks. And there's no way to know if the sex sucks until you have the sexxors.
Because I don't have to know, I'll love her not matter what, I don't care about her performance in bed and she doesn't care about my performance. heh, she says I give her plenty of reasons to smile every time we talk. And considering her sweetness, her delicious kisses are an adventure! :)

Really though, it's not like sex doesn't matter, because it does and we'll both make sure we enjoy it, explore our own sexuality between ourselves, but I love her too much to let the possibility of "bad sex" to make me leave her, and I know it's the same with her. Our emotional connection is just too damn strong!
 
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I'm not sure many fully understand the custom of the yearly "sacrificing of the virgins". but if a virgin knew that day was coming, they would be trying extra hard to get laid. Only the worse of the lot, would remain virgins, come sacrifice day. Which is why there were no complaints when they were tossed into the volcano. Culling of the herd as it were. :shock:

It actually made sense. :lamo
 
Because I don't have to know, I'll love her not matter what, I don't care about her performance in bed and she doesn't care about my performance. heh, she says I give her plenty of reasons to smile every time we talk. And considering her sweetness, her delicious kisses are an adventure! :)

Really though, it's not like sex doesn't matter, because it does and we'll both make sure we enjoy it, explore our own sexuality between ourselves, but I love her too much to let the possibility of "bad sex" to make me leave her, and I know it's the same with her. Our emotional connection is just too damn strong!

As long as you are really okay with not having sex the rest of your life, I guess that could work. Because that's always the possibility when you don't know if you're compatible in bed or not.

I wouldn't be okay with that possibility, myself. Wouldn't matter how much I loved someone. I would still need that at some point, somehow, someway. And if I couldn't get it at home, then we'd just have to have an open relationship wherein I could get it elsewhere.
 
Yeah, that's nice. Good luck with that if the sex sucks.

if the sex sucks forever, then it's their own fault; good sex, like most everything else, is a matter of practice and learning rather than something you just naturally 'have'. and if they love and are devoted to each other, then it should be something that (once they get to that point / are married) they should be willing to work on.
 
As long as you are really okay with not having sex the rest of your life, I guess that could work. Because that's always the possibility when you don't know if you're compatible in bed or not.

I wouldn't be okay with that possibility, myself. Wouldn't matter how much I loved someone. I would still need that at some point, somehow, someway. And if I couldn't get it at home, then we'd just have to have an open relationship wherein I could get it elsewhere.

I have to ask: why do you (or men in general) "need that at some point, somehow, someway"? Like what kind of drive cause you to need to have sex with a women (or men if you're gay) irregardless? Is it something that can be explained? Because I think for most women, they like sex, but they don't have to have it irregardless of who they have it with.
 
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