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Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

I wish incidents like this would bring about more and better dialogue. There is much to be learned both about the perpetrators and their motivation, the impact on the victims, and on societal stereotypes.

We have consent laws in place to protect minors. If you ask many 13 year old 'victims' they will state they were not only not victims but willing participants and in some instances claim they are the aggressors. The adolescent brain doesnt think through the process from an adult perspective or a human perspective. Ive seen cases where the male victims insisted they experienced no harm and didnt want to cooperate in the investigations and legal proceedings, instead seeking to protect the perpetrator as a peer/partner. What the adolescent male misses is that the adult/child relationship skews their concept of relationship and prevents them from developing a 'normal' understanding of human sexuality which is eventually and unfortunately imposed on future relationships. OF COURSE there is harm...its just very hard for them to see it. Its also hard for society to see it, as many (not sure if I wouldnt characterize it as most, especially most men) would default to comments like "I wouldnt have minded being sexually assaulted by MY teacher when I was a kid." Thats the kind of male identity that is coupled with the concept of "shut up, stop crying, grow up, be a man" mindset that begins when boys are as young as 2 years old. (Typically) Girls are nurtured...boys are controlled. Girls are taught love, boys are taught to avoid expressions of feeling and love as they are perceived by other men as weakness. And this isnt even considered trauma...this is 'normal'. Add trauma to the mix..**** gets real wonky. That kind of mentality also often develops into a jaded perspective on male on female sexual harassment in the workplace where individuals may not perpetrate, but they may tolerate.

Its also helpful to understand why some women and especially teachers become predators. It would help to be able to teach an understanding of the characteristics to students in the teaching fields as well as to teach them to administrators to help them to identify these problems before they become a problem.
 
VanceMack said:
I wish incidents like this would bring about more and better dialogue. There is much to be learned both about the perpetrators and their motivation, the impact on the victims, and on societal stereotypes.

We have consent laws in place to protect minors. If you ask many 13 year old 'victims' they will state they were not only not victims but willing participants and in some instances claim they are the aggressors. The adolescent brain doesnt think through the process from an adult perspective or a human perspective. Ive seen cases where the male victims insisted they experienced no harm and didnt want to cooperate in the investigations and legal proceedings, instead seeking to protect the perpetrator as a peer/partner. What the adolescent male misses is that the adult/child relationship skews their concept of relationship and prevents them from developing a 'normal' understanding of human sexuality which is eventually and unfortunately imposed on future relationships. OF COURSE there is harm...its just very hard for them to see it. Its also hard for society to see it, as many (not sure if I wouldnt characterize it as most, especially most men) would default to comments like "I wouldnt have minded being sexually assaulted by MY teacher when I was a kid." Thats the kind of male identity that is coupled with the concept of "shut up, stop crying, grow up, be a man" mindset that begins when boys are as young as 2 years old. (Typically) Girls are nurtured...boys are controlled. Girls are taught love, boys are taught to avoid expressions of feeling and love as they are perceived by other men as weakness. And this isnt even considered trauma...this is 'normal'. Add trauma to the mix..**** gets real wonky. That kind of mentality also often develops into a jaded perspective on male on female sexual harassment in the workplace where individuals may not perpetrate, but they may tolerate.

Its also helpful to understand why some women and especially teachers become predators. It would help to be able to teach an understanding of the characteristics to students in the teaching fields as well as to teach them to administrators to help them to identify these problems before they become a problem.
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Fact remains, a 13 year old boy would be chomping at the bit to get a piece of hot teacher. Why deny them that opportunity?
 
calamity said:
Fact remains, a 13 year old boy would be chomping at the bit to get a piece of hot teacher. Why deny them that opportunity?
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Gets your juices flowing, huh?
 
OldFatGuy said:
Gets your juices flowing, huh?
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I can think of three teachers back then that certainly did. I even used one as an answer to my security questions.

Wife, not being stupid, immediately jumped all over it, saying, "She was hot, right?"
 
calamity said:
I can think of three teachers back then that certainly did. I even used one as an answer to my security questions.

Wife, not being stupid, immediately jumped all over it, saying, "She was hot, right?"
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As credible as so many of your fantasies.
 
OldFatGuy said:
As credible as so many of your fantasies.
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Yes, Miss X was the subject of many fantasies. At least 1000 dabs of Kleenex worth...maybe even two thousand, since imagining that particular ride lasted well into my late teens.
 
calamity said:
Fact remains, a 13 year old boy would be chomping at the bit to get a piece of hot teacher. Why deny them that opportunity?
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There is a difference in adolescent fantasies and sexual exploitation. Ive said before that the reason I took 3 years of French was because of Mademoiselle Allen. But again...fantasy vs reality. As a teenager...especially as a 13 year old, you need to be able to grow and develop sexual thoughts and identities at a peer pace, not have them imposed on you by a woman 3x your age that is using you to fulfill a psychological hole for more troubled than any other hole you might fill.

For your wifes sake and the sake of your marriage, lets just say its a good thing your fantasies remained fantasy.
 
VanceMack said:
There is a difference in adolescent fantasies and sexual exploitation. Ive said before that the reason I took 3 years of French was because of Mademoiselle Allen. But again...fantasy vs reality. As a teenager...especially as a 13 year old, you need to be able to grow and develop sexual thoughts and identities at a peer pace, not have them imposed on you by a woman 3x your age that is using you to fulfill a psychological hole for more troubled than any other hole you might fill.

For your wifes sake and the sake of your marriage, lets just say its a good thing your fantasies remained fantasy.
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I'm probably not in disagreement with this. Clearly, what you said makes sense. But, damn. What a rain on the parade that has to be to any 13 year old with said fantasy.

Although, come to think of it, the fact that it is illicit might heighten it a bit.
 
When I was in 7th grade, we had a hot math teacher. She wore inappropriate attire, although the boys liked it. Her name .....Miss LaVolpe, I **** you , not! Many fantasies were crushed when she married that same school year.....


Back when there was no such title as Ms.
 
Rexedgar said:
When I was in 7th grade, we had a hot math teacher. She wore inappropriate attire, although the boys liked it. Her name .....Miss LaVolpe, I **** you , not! Many fantasies were crushed when she married that same school year.....


Back when there was no such title as Ms.
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Mine started in fifth, where one teacher was so hot, I'd lay in bed at night imagining her punishment was forcing me to spend the day under her desk. :)
 
calamity said:
Mine started in fifth, where one teacher was so hot, I'd lay in bed at night imagining her punishment was forcing me to spend the day under her desk. :)
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Spanking the monkey.........
 
Rexedgar said:
See your optometrist!


:shock:
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:lol:
 
calamity said:
Yes, Miss X was the subject of many fantasies. At least 1000 dabs of Kleenex worth...maybe even two thousand, since imagining that particular ride lasted well into my late teens.
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Not good to also know you are an onanist.
 
calamity said:
Are you denying it?
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Handjelica was a favorite when I first turned 12. I quickly bored of her ministrations. I am not the one here bragging about your stronger right hand, stronger in comparison to your left.
 
OldFatGuy said:
Handjelica was a favorite when I first turned 12. I quickly bored of her ministrations. I am not the one here bragging about your stronger right hand, stronger in comparison to your left.
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I’m ambidextrous, and that’s not the only reason I’m superior. I don’t lie.
 
calamity said:
Many a 13 year old boy would beg to differ. I know I would have.
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Perhaps; however, I think you are missing the point. Sex with a minor (and what 13 year old, male or female, understands the complexities of a sexual relationship -in today's society is sexual abuse no matter who does it.
 
LadyMoonlight said:
Perhaps; however, I think you are missing the point. Sex with a minor (and what 13 year old, male or female, understands the complexities of a sexual relationship -in today's society is sexual abuse no matter who does it.
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Yeah, we’ve agreed to that.
 
LadyMoonlight said:
She is a paedophile and should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, same as a male teacher would be. There is no difference.
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FYI. THis was actually from last year, and she got 20 years in prison.
 
Rexedgar said:
When I was in 7th grade, we had a hot math teacher. She wore inappropriate attire, although the boys liked it. Her name .....Miss LaVolpe, I **** you , not! Many fantasies were crushed when she married that same school year.....


Back when there was no such title as Ms.
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Miss Moriarty 7th grade Social Studies. :happy:

One Saturday my classmate buddy and I looked up Mary's name in the phone book to get her address ha. Turned out she lived about a mile down the street that ran by my house so we hopped on our bikes and started looking at address plates on houses. He and I stalked carefully into the grass driveway where we saw her Chevy whatever I don't remember. She was laid out on a garden recliner in swimsuit reading a book when she spotted us craning our necks around the house. Aghast, she said each our names and hollered at us to get out and never come back which was the end of it....unfortunately.

After that I did my best Eddie Haskell on her -- Eddie was my model for life, he was. During passing periods I'd stop to ask her about choosing a college just to talk more with her -- I went through dozens of colleges ha I got the names of during library periods. "You're asking about college? You're in 7th grade." I replied it's never too early to start looking into things. She married the chairman of Art Dept, Ray. Many moons later my buddy became a popular radio dj evening hours and I found myself writing for a newspaper.

Turned out the girls who were new to the school too took notice of me in the hallway smiling and chatting it up with the lovely Miss Moriarty. Still not all turned out well as the cosmo Miss Primo the science teacher wouldn't have any of it whatsoever. (Get lost kid.)
 
calamity said:
I’m ambidextrous, and that’s not the only reason I’m superior. I don’t lie.
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Likewise to include switch hitter in baseball, although right hand thrower (3d base).

Only thingy can't do with my left is write so technically I'm right handed only but that's technically. I had to decide long ago, do this right handed only, to that left only, otherwise there are too many decisions to make throughout each day ha. Et vous?

In baseball I was a line drive hitter from the right side and almost all homers were from the left batters box. In hockey left handed on the wing. Never played league football or basketball but from the right on the sandlot. Better right handed with a firearm but left is good in a pinch.

Never ambiguous however. ;)
 
danielpalos said:
Women should clamor for equality and equal protection of the laws. She is the Teacher and the boy would have been a "basket case" and Incel, if she hadn't intervened. it really was, for his own Good.
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She'd have to tell it to the judge.

Then get 20 years to think about it.
 
CLAX1911 said:
You don't see a problem with a grown woman being sexually attracted to a 13 year old boy? Have you been around 13 year olds?
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I'm not a woman, so I have no opinion on that. I was however a 13 year old boy and had I the opportunity....or better yet--- had the "skills"... I'm pretty sure I would have had sex with all of my cute female teachers.... probably the ugly ones too.

Like I said, 'birds and the bees' thing.

Now a grown woman being sexually involved with a young boy... as in under age 12 or 13, then that might be different.

Here is the thing as I see it. Women---lots of women, feel neglected and are in need of attention and/or affirmation. So in that regard I think the dynamic is a bid different in the case of a female teacher and a teenage boy as compared to a male teacher and a teenage girl. With a male teacher and a girl it is more of a predatory act in my view.
 
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