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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by KevinKohler View Post
    So...if the 13 year old is the pitcher, its not so bad, but if he's the catcher, heinous?
    It is about a boy being a "man" about things.

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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by KevinKohler View Post
    What if it was a male teacher having sex with a male 13 year old.


    How do some of you folks feel about it now?
    Caveat every comment I am about to make with "ALL sexual exploitation of children by adults is wrong". If someone isnt smart enough to understand that then there is no value in having a real conversation about any of this in the first place. There is simply no way a 13 year can relate on the same emotional scale and perspective that an adult is capable of relating and it is ALWAYS exploitative and manipulative. You can think about the developing brain in a logic/problem solving progression from a Tic Tac Toe brain to a Checkers brain to a chess brain. Children employ tic tac toe thinking. Adolescents typically use checkers thinking. Adults are capable (though dont always use) chess thought processes...using long term decision making and consequences.

    There is a 'natural order' involving 'consensual' sexual abuse between an adult and a minor. Again...it is all destructive, but in certain cases seen as less so

    Female on female...if seen as a 'supportive' sapphic loving...still wrong but can be not devastating.
    Adult male on female..if seen as 'supportive' is 'natural' in that male female relationships are natural and often the men stoke the ego of the victim by elevating them to an adult status.
    Adult female on male...if seen as supportive is also 'natural' in that male female relationships are natural and often the boys stoke their own ego elevating them to an adult status. Its often (not always) accompanied by a 'story' from the female perpetrator implying she is a victim in other relationships, further stoking the ego of the victim as they see themselves as a savior.
    Adult male on male...tricky...depending on whether or not the victim has demonstrated and accepted homosexual ideation, in which case the above can apply. But if not, it is devastating and creates massive damage to the ego and identity of the victim, often resulting in future instances of varying forms of inappropriate behaviors.

    All bets are off when the manipulation is done by violence, force, and/or coercion.

    SO I hope that answers your question, but if your question was SPECIFICALLY asked...it would be more impactful...What if it was a male teacher having sex with YOUR male 13 year old. (or daughter for that matter)...but even then you would probably only get an honest answer from those that actually have kids that might be in that situation.

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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by VanceMack View Post
    Caveat every comment I am about to make with "ALL sexual exploitation of children by adults is wrong". If someone isnt smart enough to understand that then there is no value in having a real conversation about any of this in the first place. There is simply no way a 13 year can relate on the same emotional scale and perspective that an adult is capable of relating and it is ALWAYS exploitative and manipulative. You can think about the developing brain in a logic/problem solving progression from a Tic Tac Toe brain to a Checkers brain to a chess brain. Children employ tic tac toe thinking. Adolescents typically use checkers thinking. Adults are capable (though dont always use) chess thought processes...using long term decision making and consequences.

    There is a 'natural order' involving 'consensual' sexual abuse between an adult and a minor. Again...it is all destructive, but in certain cases seen as less so

    Female on female...if seen as a 'supportive' sapphic loving...still wrong but can be not devastating.
    Adult male on female..if seen as 'supportive' is 'natural' in that male female relationships are natural and often the men stoke the ego of the victim by elevating them to an adult status.
    Adult female on male...if seen as supportive is also 'natural' in that male female relationships are natural and often the boys stoke their own ego elevating them to an adult status. Its often (not always) accompanied by a 'story' from the female perpetrator implying she is a victim in other relationships, further stoking the ego of the victim as they see themselves as a savior.
    Adult male on male...tricky...depending on whether or not the victim has demonstrated and accepted homosexual ideation, in which case the above can apply. But if not, it is devastating and creates massive damage to the ego and identity of the victim, often resulting in future instances of varying forms of inappropriate behaviors.

    All bets are off when the manipulation is done by violence, force, and/or coercion.

    SO I hope that answers your question, but if your question was SPECIFICALLY asked...it would be more impactful...What if it was a male teacher having sex with YOUR male 13 year old. (or daughter for that matter)...but even then you would probably only get an honest answer from those that actually have kids that might be in that situation.
    All joking aside, the fact remains this was one mentally ****ed up chick. And, she probably should not be anywhere near young boys, given her actions here and apparent history of "coming onto" other boys in the past.

    Chances are that even if it was all in good fun for the teenager, eventually the chick's nutty side would have emerged. And, there is no way that poor kid could have handled that.
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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by calamity View Post
    All joking aside, the fact remains this was one mentally ****ed up chick. And, she probably should not be anywhere near young boys, given her actions here and apparent history of "coming onto" other boys in the past.

    Chances are that even if it was all in good fun for the teenager, eventually the chick's nutty side would have emerged. And, there is no way that poor kid could have handled that.
    Precisely. If she were denied access to 13 year olds its probable she would pick progressively younger victims. Thats the danger of downplaying the instances of female teacher/teen victim sexual assault.

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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by VanceMack View Post
    Precisely. If she were denied access to 13 year olds its probable she would pick progressively younger victims. Thats the danger of downplaying the instances of female teacher/teen victim sexual assault.
    Yeah, she had issues, to say the least.

    This is the stuff I was referring to, btw.

    One of the parents of the victim recounted to police investigators how Zamora tried to maintain a sense of control over his life.

    "(Victim) said he was talking to a girl he liked and he told his friend about it," police wrote in the report. "Somehow Brittany found out that (victim) liked this girl and told him that he couldn't talk to this girl. Brittany also said that, if he dated the girl, she would get other girls to beat her up."

    Brittany Zamora may have been grooming other students, report shows
    The crazy lady quickly took what maybe was perceived by the boy as "fun and games" to a serious level of being trapped in a relationship with the psycho bitch from hell. That's something any 13-yr-old kid is ill equipped to handle.
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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by Hawkeye10 View Post
    Teachers, as with everyone else in this society....used to be better.

    It is a really sad story.

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    No they werent.

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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by Mugahigh View Post
    No they werent.
    I Think that people tend to convince themselves of that because their heads would explode if the answer went the other way....they believe what they have to believe to keep their emotions peppy!
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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    His former teacher should be required to tutor him until he can command a market based wage in our first world economy, to be able to afford to make child support payments.

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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by swing_voter View Post


    It's an old double standard. Society will jail a male teacher who has sex with a female student, while a female teacher having sex with a boy is often overlooked.

    The boy calls the teach Ms Zamorra which is funny.
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    Re: Teacher has sex with 13 year old boy

    Quote Originally Posted by danielpalos View Post
    His former teacher should be required to tutor him until he can command a market based wage in our first world economy, to be able to afford to make child support payments.
    You want to put the sex offender in an authority position over the child victim?

    Is that the Catholic method?

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