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Non-marital sex

tacomancer said:
This is true, for example, the women I end up tend to be the sexually aggressive ones and I am usually the more passive of the two (and can take a bit of coaxing (which means boobs in my face most of the time)).

That's a role reversal away from the typical (and not a bad place for me to be, tbh)
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Boobs in your face is a good thing. :)

I am more "passive" in my relationship, but I get my moments when I can take the reigns. I know some lesbians use the terms "top?" and "bottom?", though those terms or typically relegated to gay guys, I guess I'd fit in the "bottom" category.
 
This reminds of the Holy Modal Rounders song, Boobsalot.
 
TheGoverness said:
Boobs in your face is a good thing. :)

I am more "passive" in my relationship, but I get my moments when I can take the reigns. I know some lesbians use the terms "top?" and "bottom?", though those terms or typically relegated to gay guys, I guess I'd fit in the "bottom" category.
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For me, its more "this hobby thing I am hobbying is really cool and I want to try this thing and I have this idea ... boobs"
 
Good4Nothin said:
Well we got together because of our hobby, something we are working on together. So whatever happens, we probably want to continue our friendship and collaboration.
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It would seem that the venue would have lots to do with it. For example, if the hobby were antique cars, lots more could happen in a private garage than the car show in the town square. He wouldn't have a chance to "adjust your carburetor" in public.
 
I don't think there is a standard. If I were worried about how it looks, I wouldn't do it for a while until I no longer worried about how it looks.
 
TheGoverness said:
Boobs in your face is a good thing. :)

I am more "passive" in my relationship, but I get my moments when I can take the reigns. I know some lesbians use the terms "top?" and "bottom?", though those terms or typically relegated to gay guys, I guess I'd fit in the "bottom" category.
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Nobody wants to hear this sick garbage. Keep it to yourself.
 
Mashmont said:
Nobody wants to hear this sick garbage. Keep it to yourself.
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Anyone who claims to speak for "everybody" or "nobody" should be taken with a grain of salt. That is unless you're trying to tell us that you're "nobody".
 
SDET said:
Anyone who claims to speak for "everybody" or "nobody" should be taken with a grain of salt. That is unless you're trying to tell us that you're "nobody".
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Perhaps sick people want to hear it. Good people don't.
 
Mashmont said:
Perhaps sick people want to hear it. Good people don't.
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I don't care either way. One must develop skills to not bother with irrelevant information. You are wasting time and effort if you are giving it space in your brain.
 
SDET said:
I don't care either way. One must develop skills to not bother with irrelevant information. You are wasting time and effort if you are giving it space in your brain.
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I suppose that could be said for anyone who's in the forum.
 
calamity said:
Much of it is age dependent. But, I'd say for anyone under 40, definitely test drive, because even if it's good you'll still find yourself wanting something better now and then. If it's bad, you'll cheat on day one.

After about 40...things change. Sex can be put on the shelf after 50 for sure. But, before then, I doubt it. And, if you are in your twenties--lord help you.
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Horrible advice, as one might expect.
 
SDET said:
How does one prove an opinion?
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How does one discern whether it is an opinion , or a statement of fact ?. Seeing as this is a debate forum, unless otherwise specified, what is presented is considered to be a statement of fact; not an opinion.
 
Logician Man said:
How does one discern whether it is an opinion , or a statement of fact ?. Seeing as this is a debate forum, unless otherwise specified, what is presented is considered to be a statement of fact; not an opinion.
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That kind of falls apart when someone who doesn't have a strong opinion on a topic decides to just throw it out there to see what people have to say about it.
 
SDET said:
That kind of falls apart when someone who doesn't have a strong opinion on a topic decides to just throw it out there to see what people have to say about it.
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Your post kinda falls apart, as it implies one can discern' beyond any doubt', that 'they' decide for 'others' what is a strong opinion, and what is not a strong opinion.
 
Logician Man said:
Your post kinda falls apart, as it implies one can discern' beyond any doubt', that 'they' decide for 'others' what is a strong opinion, and what is not a strong opinion.
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There's an objective definition that separates the terms fact and opinion. The concept of "good" that started this discussion fits the definition of an opinion.
 
SDET said:
There's an objective definition that separates the terms fact and opinion. The concept of "good" that started this discussion fits the definition of an opinion.
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Your 'opinion' is noted.
 
Good4Nothin said:
I don't want to insult him by asking. But I think I have good reasons to be afraid. I think I heard that over 90% of the population has herpes. Could that be true?
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The incidence rate is high, but many people who have herpes will never have a breakout.
 
Good4Nothin said:
I don't want to insult him by asking. But I think I have good reasons to be afraid. I think I heard that over 90% of the population has herpes. Could that be true?
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People who follow those archaic outdated rules of sex only within marriage never have to worry about herpes. Funny how that works.
 
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