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[W:531]What Is Wrong with "slut shaming"?

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I don't have a beam in my eye. I'm not guilty of any of the sins I'm condemning.

Even if true, why does that matter? The Bible does not make a distinction. Where do you get the audacity to do so?
 
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I think that sex outside of marriage is the underlying cause of ALL major social problems in the United States.

Could you be wrong? What are you a sociologist?
 
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Your hypocrisy is vile....you have never committed a sin in your life?.

I never said that. But I've never had sex of any kind outside of marriage.
 
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Do you mean this is all fantasy, or are these your real-life events? This, coupled with your disclosure about your ex-girlfriend's past as a prostitute, including disclosing her name and age (beware of getting sued), is just an unbelievable amount of disclosure of personal information in a public forum. You said you were concerned for my well-being... I never believed that you truly were (those were just poorly disguised jabs), but I'll tell you, I am genuinely concerned for you, that you disclose too much. If your avatar picture is the real you and your real house, then it's just unbelievable that someone would disclose as much! Wow! Stay safe!

About caring, I'm not exactly a Democrat but I do tend to vote Democrat most of the time, so, I might qualify under your eyes, and post #147 clearly shows that I care.

WOW frigging WOW

All those accusations. Name of person??? hell no. Age: So what? She may have forgot who I am.

No, I do not joke about commenting on posters well being. I hope they are well and prosperous.

Yep, that photo was taken by the GF I busted as a prostitutes in fact. Do most women live very well with no visible source of income? I wanted a GF not some hooker. Have you dated any woman that has boxes upon boxes of toothbrushes in her hall bathroom who instructs you to use one to brush your teeth? And there are half a dozen large bottles of mouthwash in that bathroom? There are plenty more red flags I noticed. I simply did not want to believe it till the time I got to her home unannounced and a man with his shoes off was on her living room couch. Supposedly he came to fix the fences. Sure, no shoes on? I am safe for sure. I dusted her off 30 years ago.
 
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on average, who has more sex in their lives, men or women?
 
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WOW frigging WOW

All those accusations. Name of person??? hell no. Age: So what? She may have forgot who I am.

No, I do not joke about commenting on posters well being. I hope they are well and prosperous.

Yep, that photo was taken by the GF I busted as a prostitutes in fact. Do most women live very well with no visible source of income? I wanted a GF not some hooker. Have you dated any woman that has boxes upon boxes of toothbrushes in her hall bathroom who instructs you to use one to brush your teeth? And there are half a dozen large bottles of mouthwash in that bathroom? There are plenty more red flags I noticed. I simply did not want to believe it till the time I got to her home unannounced and a man with his shoes off was on her living room couch. Supposedly he came to fix the fences. Sure, no shoes on? I am safe for sure. I dusted her off 30 years ago.

I'm so sorry you were hurt.

But men hurt women like that all the time too. What does that have to do with this thread?
 
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Nah, it's the kind of thing that goes "you must resign, or else" and the person then has no other option, and resigns to save face. For me, that's kicking someone out. At first she was trying to resist and justify herself; it's after Pelosi's intervention that she resigned, and I wonder what Pelosi told her between closed doors that included threats strong enough that she was forced to resign.

Is there a double-standard? Sure. But I'm merely saying, your statement that NO woman has EVER been kicked out from office due to her sexual indiscretions, is factually untrue, given this recent example.

Outside of politics, how many female school teachers were kicked out from school for sexual indiscretions with students? Many of these are also serving sentences for statutory rape.

Yes, usually the school system and the courts deal with men in similar situations even more harshly. Again, I don't doubt the double standard. But if you want to fight off this double standard, don't start by making statements that are factually untrue. You weaken your side when you do that.

Rape of a student is just an indiscretion? Hummmm, why didn't i think of that? Strange thing to say on a forum. An indiscretion. WOW.
 
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I'm so sorry you were hurt.

But men hurt women like that all the time too. What does that have to do with this thread?

This thread is as long as a ships anchor chain.
 
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which is a crime regardless your claim was the democrats hold people to higher standards, this is blatantly not true - etc.

Cohen was the one who paid so Trump is in the clear? You must know that Cohen was just the envoy. LOL. How different is that from "I didn't have sex with that woman, Monica Lewinsky" because he allegedly thought that sex didn't include oral sex? The only difference: being under oath.

Yeah, you have a point about winning the discussion regarding the hypocrisy and the standards in both parties. Maybe you are right and the Dems don't have higher standards. They are all hypocrites, which is why I'm actually an independent, I refused to register with either party because I think they are all crooks.

I don't want to engage in a long discussion about Trump's impeachment, I've mentioned it elsewhere, but just briefly, I've posted elsewhere the link to the real timeline when we're not influenced by conspiracy theories. Burisma was investigated for corruption between 2010 and 2012, for a totally unrelated matter having to do with permits issued by the Ministry of Ecology. That investigation ended on a plea agreement. TWO YEARS LATER Hunter Biden joined Burisma in 2014. Burisma was NOT under investigation by the fired prosecutor AT THE TIME of Joe Biden's interference, and Joe Biden's did it at Obama's request (don't shoot the messenger) and Obama did it at the request of the Brits, the European Union, and the International Monetary Fund who all wanted the prosecutor out, not for investigating Burisma (which wasn't happening at the time), but for NOT investigation other cases of corruption. Biden bragged about pressuring Ukraine to fire him under Obama's orders, but that's NOT corruption and NOT illegal as Biden had NO personal gain in the matter, given that the situation AT THE TIME was completely and thoroughly unrelated to Burisma, unlike conspiracy theorists try to affirm. It is not illegal for the US president or his envoys to pressure foreign governments and offer quid-pro-quos using our foreign aid. It's done all the time. What is illegal is to do it for PERSONAL gain which wasn't Biden's case (but was Trump's case). That video with Biden has absolutely NOTHING illegal in it, as any good lawyer with knowledge of these matters will tell you. Now, Trump on the other hand, knowing that an investigation would actually exonerate Biden, only wanted Zelensky to ANNOUNCE an investigation in order to smear his political opponent. Ample testimony has established that Trump didn't ACTUALLY want an investigation, that is, couldn't care less if there was corruption (Trump, a corrupt man himself, doesn't mind corruption; the thrives in corruption; he considers corruption as a business opportunity); he only wanted the APPEARANCE of an investigation in order to score points against Biden. This is an OBVIOUS violation of US electoral law, and yes, it is an impeachable offense.

Another person with similar ideology as compared to you, asked me to substantiate what I was saying... I posted the link to the real timeline... and he then plain REFUSED TO READ THE ARTICLE!!! You guys don't WANT to know the truth, you just want to be able to continue to bitch and complain about Biden's supposed corruption. Biden is in politics for decades and has always been the US senator with the smallest net worth. He never got rich from politics. Biden is NOT corrupt. I'll accept charges that Biden is too demented to be the president as his mind indeed doesn't seem sharp in debates, but the charge that he is corrupt is false, and is a lie similar to the Swift Boat lies told against Kerry. These conspiracy theories are merely electoral tactics. Smearing Biden is good for Republican business so they'll keep doing it, but it doesn't make it any less true.

I'm so frustrated with it, that I don't really want to keep discussing it. I know you'll have all sorts of (baseless) arguments to counter that, and sorry, I've discussed it enough elsewhere and I won't respond to this any further; actually I have to run some errands, so, see you later. I will continue to respond later about the "slut shaming" part but the merits of Trump's impeachment and the conspiracy theory that Biden is corrupt are becoming very tiresome; I'm sick and tired of these discussions which go round and round and people never pay attention to the actual timeline which is what I just told you (or willingly refuse to look into it, which I find quite shameful).

See you later. Carry on. I actually like to discuss with you (thus my willing to contribute to your dating advice threads). And I have no problem acknowledging when you're right (like with the higher or equal standards part above). So, it's not you, it's the topic. This Biden-Ukraine stuff is very frustrating. I wish we coud do politics without having to lie about candidates in blatant conspiracy theories.
 
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I never said that. But I've never had sex of any kind outside of marriage.

You are living in a glass house.....you should be careful where you throw your morality stones.

But, please continue...this is comedy hypocrisy gold; all those pious and smarmy quotes about:

"judge not that you not be judged"

"For whoever keeps the whole law but fails in one point has become accountable for all of it".....

“None is righteous, no, not one;

I think I'll avoid the pious hypocrisy of you Claude Frollo types.....but keep on preaching to the world how acceptable it is to chastise and stand on your little pillar of moral superiority and look down your nose at those that choose to lead a life not in accordance with your Westborough Baptist style "godliness".
 
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I never said that. But I've never had sex of any kind outside of marriage.

Neither have I but that is my choice and I do not judge others for making their own sexual choices with other consenting adults.

Their sexual life is none of my business.
 
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Neither have I but that is my choice and I do not judge others for making their own sexual choices with other consenting adults.

Their sexual life is none of my business.

We'll just have to agree to disagree.
 
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The woman in question was caught committing adultery. It said nothing about her being "promiscuous" or a "prostitute". Seems like you need more Bible knowledge.

At any rate Jesus told the woman caught committing adultery "Go and sin no more".

Yes, but Christ told those who accused her to cast the first stone only if they were without sin. Christ did not slut shame her. He said he did not condemn her before he sent her home to "sin no more". You cannot use John 7:53-8:11 to justify your longing to slut shame
 
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Quote Originally Posted by minnie616
...... I do not judge others for making their own sexual choices with other consenting adults. Their sexual life is none of my business


We'll just have to agree to disagree.

So who gave you this job to condemn the sex life of consenting adults. And how would you know what they were doing anyway unless you were actively intruding in peoples private lives. You've given yourself a lot of authority. Do you need an official uniform for the performance of your duties?
 
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So who gave you this job to condemn the sex life of consenting adults. And how would you know what they were doing anyway unless you were actively intruding in peoples private lives. You've given yourself a lot of authority. Do you need an official uniform for the performance of your duties?

What does one wear to peak through bedroom windows to spy on those being judged?

Hopefully handcuffs.
 
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So do you have any links/references to your claim that sex outside of marriage is the cause of most of our problems in society?
 
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Do you need an official uniform for the performance of your duties?

I like uniforms. As a teacher I said why bother with uniforms for students when you could have them for teachers? Different designs for each department. Some sort of decorations to designate years of seniority and other achievement.

I enjoy visual identifiers of duties and authority.
 
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So who gave you this job to condemn the sex life of consenting adults.

I've asked for no one to grant me any authority. Some things you just have to take.
 
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So do you have any links/references to your claim that sex outside of marriage is the cause of most of our problems in society?
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I cannot link to something I've determined myself. But from what I've observed most of our problems can be linked to the deterioration of the traditional family structure. Traditional families are strongest when they are built around complete sexual exclusiveness.

It stands to reason, if a person has never had sex with anyone other than their spouse they have no reasons to contemplate any other possible sexual relationship. Speaking from personal experience I would in fact be utterly appalled at the very idea.

Everyone should be more like me.
 
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Yet despite that we still have in this country massive numbers of unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

I am not familiar with STD statistics, but there are about 800,000 abortions per year in the US. That is a low number considering the population of the country and the number of sex acts that likely take place.
 
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