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    How to balance two women on a vacation?

    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
    The important thing is for them to develop some kind of connection with each other. A group activity can help to facilitate this, but you also need to use your position to steer the social dynamic and conversation toward the direction of harmony. Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it is impossible, it depends on their personalities. I'm assuming they haven't met?

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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
    I'm sure you will rise to the challenge and be up for anything unexpected. LOL! I couldn't help myself.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    There's a good chance that I will be entertaining two women on my upcoming vacation. One will be my wife and the other a "normal" Cubana in Cuba. I believe if you're going to do something, do it right. The idea is to show both a good time and enjoy some intimacy in the mix. Neither woman will have any "lesbian" interest, but the intent is for them to interact well socially. Many RURAL Cubanas have a dream of visiting a "foreigners only" resort. My wife also will tolerate a lot in exchange for being "wined and dined" mixed with visits to the finest attractions. I specifically am interested in this because I know that it will be a challenge. However, I want to rise to the challenge and pull it off. Any pointers on how to make this work. I do know that women hate being ignored and a first step will be making sure each receives a satisfactory amount of attention. If I get even two or three serious responses, I will be satisfied. Non-serious replies will be ignored.
    Why would you expect a serious response to a totally, non-serious post?

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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by americanwoman View Post
    I say you let the women explore their lesbian interests and let them go out together.
    It's not a matter of me "letting". My wife thinks lesbianism is gross and any Cubana I have ever known thinks the same thing. I took two of the cleaning girls from an BnB to a tourist area on my trip two years ago. Both were willing to touch me at the same time, but both made it clear that they were unwilling to touch each other.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    Quote Originally Posted by Irredentist View Post
    The important thing is for them to develop some kind of connection with each other. A group activity can help to facilitate this, but you also need to use your position to steer the social dynamic and conversation toward the direction of harmony. Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it is impossible, it depends on their personalities. I'm assuming they haven't met?
    My wife wants to participate in the selection. She will tolerate a short-term fling. She will not tolerate someone willing to be a homewrecker. She asks key questions to discern the difference. When she discovered that I liked traveling out of the country to see other women, she asked if she could come along. My wife said that her presence signals to other women that I'm not available for anything long term with them.
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    Re: How to balance two women on a vacation?

    It's up to your wife to determine if she wants to interact socially, not you. She may be fine with you seeking sex but that doesn't mean that she wants to go out dancing or out to dinner with the woman you are having sex with.
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