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Why are only male "incels" ridiculed?

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I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
 
SDET said:
I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
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You talking "Lolita Express" type help?:giggle:
 
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nitroexpress said:
You talking "Lolita Express" type help?:giggle:
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There are female Incels?
 
SDET said:
I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
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There is no such thing as a female incel.
 
SDET said:
I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
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If there's female incels then I'd be more than willing to help out. Point them out for me.
 
SDET said:
I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
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This seems personal...not sure we want to ponder why.
 
I never got the chance to make it personal. The guys parents get in the way of helping out.

Airyaman said:
This seems personal...not sure we want to ponder why.
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AProudLefty said:
If there's female incels then I'd be more than willing to help out. Point them out for me.
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And this is why there are no female incels. I know it was a joke but you're helping answer the thread as well.

A woman can always get some. There'll always be a guy willing if she is. Even if she's not traditionally 'attractive', some sex-starved dude will have it if she's offering. Women who choose not to have sex do so for other reasons. They may not revel in their sexlessness but they do not wallow in it. It is to all intents and purposes merely abstinence.

Now the incel has convinced himself he can't get laid and chooses to wallow in misery and make an identity out of it. Sort of like the goths or the emos took their outsider status and made it a whole new group. Incels are wrong of course. 8chan tells them different, but they probably can get a partner if they ditch the self pity and clean up their act. Instead though they choose to blame everyone else and then go shoot up a yoga studio.

About the time the incel movement gained notoriety I read Rollo Tomassi's book The Rational Male and the one on the PUA 'movement' (The Game I think)? I noticed how these self-help gurus prey on [mostly young, Caucasian] men's insecurity. It reminded me that I had been a miserable teenager once who [thought he] couldn't get laid. What did I do? It might have helped that we didn't have the internet back then: I snapped out of it, got some cool friends, better clothes, hung out more and presto, girls everywhere.

There's no excuse for being an 'incel'.
 
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All that conformity isn't necessary. What is necessary is to ditch the sense of having given up. Even at my worst I was still able to get older women (27 when I was 17 and 29 when I was 21). The 29 year old was interesting. She was going nowhere in life and decided to go back to college. I carried her through the course she was too stupid to pass in exchange for at least weekly sex. I knew I could do better and eventually did better after learning an additional language.

uptower said:
And this is why there are no female incels. I know it was a joke but you're helping answer the thread as well.

A woman can always get some. There'll always be a guy willing if she is. Even if she's not traditionally 'attractive'. Some sex-starved dude will have it if she's offering. Women who choose not to have sex do so for other reasons. They may not revel their sexlessness but they do not wallow in it. It is to all intents and purposes merely abstinence.

Now the incel has convinced himself he can't get laid and chooses to wallow in it and make an identity out of it. Sort of like the goths or the emos took their outsider status and made it a whole new group. Incels are wrong. They can get a partner if they ditch the self pity and clean up their act. Instead though they choose to blame everyone else and then go shoot up a yoga studio.

About the time the incel movement gained notoriety I read Rollo Tomassi's book The Rational Male and the one on the PUA 'movement' (The Game I think)? I noticed how these self-help gurus prey on [mostly young, Caucasian] men's insecurity. It reminded me that I had been a miserable teenager once who [thought he] couldn't get laid. What did I do? It might have helped that we didn't have the internet back then: I snapped out of it, got some cool friends, better clothes, hung out more and presto, girls everywhere.

There's no excuse for being an 'incel'.
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This video pretty much makes the point that female incels simply don't exist, my issue is with the title of the video. What was hilarious about her acceptance speech? I'm sure the dick and ***** jokes go really well with prepubescent children due to the shock factor but she really isn't that funny in my opinion.
 
Nap said:
This video pretty much makes the point that female incels simply don't exist, my issue is with the title of the video. What was hilarious about her acceptance speech? I'm sure the dick and ***** jokes go really well with prepubescent children due to the shock factor but she really isn't that funny in my opinion.
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I think she's hilarious.
 
Checkerboard Strangler said:
I think she's hilarious.
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She can be pretty funny at times, but what was funny about that particular acceptance speech? To me, she relies too much on dick jokes and doesn't have much substance. She is a less funny Sarah Silverman in my opinion that simply uses vulgarity for the shock value of a woman using such language. Don't get me wrong I'm not some puritan saying she shouldn't say the types of things she is saying, only that she doesn't have much substance to her act other than that which makes it rather boring.
 
SDET said:
I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
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Probably because female incels don't put themselves out in such a manner as to invite ridicule. Either they are just smart enough to keep it under their hat, or it's not the issue to them that it is to male incels.

As far as helping them out, short of paying for the hooker, they can get sex if they really wanted to. Most of them are failing to establish relationships and are sabotaging themselves by the way they act, and it shows in their public outcries.

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SDET said:
I never got the chance to make it personal. The guys parents get in the way of helping out.
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That might be part of the problem right there.

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SDET said:
Keeping a 20-something sexually frustrated is good parenting?
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Because you shouldn't be allowed within a hundred metres of another person to begin with. All you do is reinforce incel views as valid as part of your misgunosric views of women. All your plan would do is make them feel even more entitled to sex.
 
SDET said:
I don't ever see female incels ridiculed. Furthermore, I would prefer to help a male incel rather than ridicule. As long as they don't interfere with my fun, I would gladly take one along on my next drive to Mexico. I have actually offered to help a few early 20-something incels and their parents became furious. What's with all the ridicule and belittlement? I don't get it. Shouldn't the inclination be to help out?
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A creepy post...imagine that.
 
Carjosse said:
Because you shouldn't be allowed within a hundred metres of another person to begin with. All you do is reinforce incel views as valid as part of your misgunosric views of women. All your plan would do is make them feel even more entitled to sex.
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Seriously. Those parents should be given an award for keeping their daughter away from him.
 
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