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how many have cheated?

have you had an afair?

  • Yes

    Votes: 17 19.5%

  • No

    Votes: 70 80.5%
  • Total voters
    87
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kamino

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ok, be honest, how many of us that are married have had an affair?
 
kamino said:
ok, be honest, how many of us that are married have had an affair?
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We just celebrated our 18th wedding anniversary yesterday.

:2party:

I adore my husband and he adores me back so my answer is a resounding NO.
 
Nope. We've been married 7 years (together for 10) and I don't even have an itch.
 
Ok I must appoligize, the term affair indicates extra-marital affairs, the question should be who has cheated, that means just BF and GF relationships.
 
Ive never cheated on anyone however ive slept with girls who have boyfriends and im pretty sure they somehow dont see it as cheating.
 
No, I have not cheated since I have been married or even when me and my husband were dating. I have cheated before on boyfriends but never have since I met my husband and it's been 8 years now and we've been married for 2. I think before I was just young and wasn't getting sastified so I went looking for it elsewhere. Now I am older and if something is wrong I will talk it out with him instead of taking it to someone else.
 
I've never cheated on a BF, though I've come extremely close. When I wanted to cheat that badly, I've always just ended the relationship I was in and moved on.

I've been with a number of guys who were cheating on their partners, though.
 
I've had a couple of affairs and those have been pretty recent. They're a fun diversion at first but they get tiresome after a while and become more trouble than they are worth.
 
Never. No need to. Just end the relationship amicably and move on.
 
I have cheated in the past, but that was ages and ages ago. I have been with my husband since 1996, and I am still crazy about him and have no desire to look elsewhere (well, unless it was with a woman, but that's not something I am going to act on. ;))
 
Nope. Not much more to say than that.
 
Tashah said:
Never. No need to. Just end the relationship amicably and move on.
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Ditto.

I've never had any tolerance for cheating either, always looked at it as the highest level of an insult/disrespect, and always informed everyone of my position. If the other strayed... we were history. Hey, I warned ya.
 
Are we counting flirting with people here at DP? :doh ;)

I haven't cheated on my wife since I have been dating her and our subsequent marriage. I haven't found myself in a situation yet where I was given the opportunity(is that a bad way to put it?) to cheat, so I don't know how much resolve I have. But that would be relegated strictly to a one night stand. I have no desire whatsoever to go through the process of seeing somebody else and getting to know them, yadda yadda yadda, and trying to hide it from my wife. To put it simply, I'm too lazy to cheat on my wife.
 
aps said:
I have cheated in the past, but that was ages and ages ago. I have been with my husband since 1996, and I am still crazy about him and have no desire to look elsewhere (well, unless it was with a woman, but that's not something I am going to act on. ;))
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so you cheated right after marrying your husband? nice
 
Never cheated. In fact, I found out a girl I was sleeping with had a boyfriend that lived in the apartment directly above me. I was so disgusted that she was literally ****ing me right under her boyfriends nose that I told her to get lost, and I told him…

Cheaters suck.

Peace
 
I've cheated a couple of times. Not married anymore, an surprisingly I'm celibate now and have been since shortly after that divorce. I will say I got his permission first. . . and I was always honest. . . and I brought home what I learned which was the point in the first place. He always asked what did I like because he was never able to . . . well you know. I had always just accepted that I was one of those women who didn't have O's. So from time to time in our last year, I would step out and learn a bit of something and bring it back to our relationship. We were actually having sex for the sake of sex for the first time since we got married (ten years). Then his mother visited and momma's pious little "good boy" came out again and he wouldn't have sex anymore, . . . again, and that was the end of that, I just couldn't face another decade of not being touched when men typically will do just about anything to bed me.

However, I really just wanted to have him, not every other or any other man. So now I do without him, and without anyone else. Bation is my master. :mrgreen:
 
WI Crippler said:
I have no desire whatsoever to go through the process of seeing somebody else and getting to know them, yadda yadda yadda, and trying to hide it from my wife. To put it simply, I'm too lazy to cheat on my wife.
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:rofl

Crip, you had me laughing until tears came. Your honesty is so refreshing. I have to tell you that my husband would probably have said the same thing to his buddies.


:2rofll:
 
I dont quite believe the women on here saying how satisfied they are with their husbands.Most married women ive ever met have been titillated by the thought of a night of passion.Lust is very powerful thats not to say people are lying just that well they at least think of other people.
 
mikhail said:
I dont quite believe the women on here saying how satisfied they are with their husbands.Most married women ive ever met have been titillated by the thought of a night of passion.Lust is very powerful thats not to say people are lying just that well they at least think of other people.
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women are no better, nor any different than dogs, I mean men
in this there really is equality among the sexes
all those cheating guys are not banging the same girl
 
DeeJayH said:
women are no better, nor any different than dogs, I mean men
in this there really is equality among the sexes
all those cheating guys are not banging the same girl
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The girl the guy is cheating with doesn't have to be cheating on anyone
 
I would disagree, if i understand you correctly
a person who has sex with a cheater is also cheating
ones failure to acknowledge and respect anothers relationship is no better than the cheating spouse IMO
while i could not care less that a woman is a hooker
a hooker is no better than teh john she sleeps with if the john is involved in an exclusive relationship, but the hooker would have to be knowingly violating the bond
 
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Never. Not even close.
 
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