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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

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    That's very interesting. What proportion of these cougars do you suppose are married?
    Damn near all of them. Its fricken sport out here. Surprisingly a lot of the husbands don't have mistresses. I think it has a lot to do with the amount of time the husbands work. Those guys are putting in 80+ hours. I think its because they are too tired to service their wives or chase pussy. That my opinion of the situation anyhow.
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

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    You have a very interesting history. Sometimes the absurd answer is the correct answer. What is the biggest lesson you have learned from your experiences?
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by PirateMk1 View Post
    Damn near all of them. Its fricken sport out here. Surprisingly a lot of the husbands don't have mistresses. I think it has a lot to do with the amount of time the husbands work. Those guys are putting in 80+ hours. I think its because they are too tired to service their wives or chase pussy. That my opinion of the situation anyhow.
    That's amazing. These husbands are having their own money used against them. Since it's California after all, can you imagine paying a gigolo as part of an alimony settlement since she needs to maintain the "style of life that she was accustomed to"?

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    That's amazing. These husbands are having their own money used against them. Since it's California after all, can you imagine paying a gigolo as part of an alimony settlement since she needs to maintain the "style of life that she was accustomed to"?
    To be honest with you I don't think the men care all that much if their woman is screwing around so long as its reasonably discreet. You would think divorce would be more prevalent but I think the marriages are more of a business arrangement, so a divorce halves what the wife would have if she remained married. Most divorces come about via disputes over money, specifically the lack thereof. If you become a broke man, you tend to also be a divorced man.
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    I suspect the Venn diagram circle of folks who have more sexual partners than average and the circle of folks who are not interested in long-term [monogamous?] relationships may have some significant overlap.
    I may be wrong.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    It's a hypothesis communicated in several circles. MGTOW videos make this claim. It's also a notion in South America. Many women in South America would not divorce their husband for consorting with prostitutes for this very reason. Many believe however that they are in danger of being "traded in for a younger model" if their husband is caught with the housekeeper's legal age daughter or the checkout girl from the supermarket for example. What say you?
    What are you actually asking?

    If you want a monogamous relationship, ask for one and you have to do the difficult thing of trusting.

    That trust is two ways, you and them.

    If a woman or a man has had armies of lovers, it shouldn't matter and if it does be honest and admit it.

    If he or she can't be honest then the relationship is balanced on a lie to begin with.

    It is better to have a open relationship because someone couldn't guarantee not to play around with the right offer than to cause the crushing mental suffering of betrayal.

    I have been married over 32 years so what do I know other than we both have enjoyed sex since married, but not always with each other.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dick Tornado View Post
    What are you actually asking?

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    SDET pays for sex - supposedly with great frequency -- but still apparently needs the vicarious thrill of posting bait threads like this.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

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    husband is caught with the housekeeper's legal age daughter or the checkout girl from the supermarket for example.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by Amelia View Post
    SDET pays for sex - supposedly with great frequency -- but still apparently needs the vicarious thrill of posting bait threads like this.
    If you need and got the money…. (I hope he plays safe.)

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

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    There's nothing silly about your reply. You answered the question directly in a concise manner. That then leads to the interesting question of WHY this notion is believed. It's striking how even the smallest of towns in Brazil has a "cat basket" (cesta de gatas) with a red porch light prominently displayed. Most of the customers are older married men in the town. It's even more striking that their neighbors don't think less of the men that are seen there.

    I'm not judging if it's true or false, but I find that belief and its origins as interesting. It's also interesting to notice that any man who doesn't strike his wife is considered above average.
    Men's Rights activist stumbles upon sexist double standard. Women are punished for their sexual activity, men are not. This is because traditionally men have the power, politically and economically.
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