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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    It's a hypothesis communicated in several circles. MGTOW videos make this claim. It's also a notion in South America. Many women in South America would not divorce their husband for consorting with prostitutes for this very reason. Many believe however that they are in danger of being "traded in for a younger model" if their husband is caught with the housekeeper's legal age daughter or the checkout girl from the supermarket for example. What say you?
    I would ask the same question about men. Sex is a two way street.
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by trixare4kids View Post
    To answer your thread question, I don't think it does.

    eta: a silly hypothesis deserves a silly retort. Glad I could be helpful.
    There's nothing silly about your reply. You answered the question directly in a concise manner. That then leads to the interesting question of WHY this notion is believed. It's striking how even the smallest of towns in Brazil has a "cat basket" (cesta de gatas) with a red porch light prominently displayed. Most of the customers are older married men in the town. It's even more striking that their neighbors don't think less of the men that are seen there.

    I'm not judging if it's true or false, but I find that belief and its origins as interesting. It's also interesting to notice that any man who doesn't strike his wife is considered above average.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    It's a hypothesis communicated in several circles. MGTOW videos make this claim. It's also a notion in South America. Many women in South America would not divorce their husband for consorting with prostitutes for this very reason. Many believe however that they are in danger of being "traded in for a younger model" if their husband is caught with the housekeeper's legal age daughter or the checkout girl from the supermarket for example. What say you?
    Step back and take stock of your threads.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by PirateMk1 View Post
    I would ask the same question about men. Sex is a two way street.
    I know men that have been married for 50+ years that have enjoyed entertaining a "young honey" most of their marriage. I don't know any such women.

    Such a man stays married primarily because he owes his children and perhaps grandchildren stability.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by SDET View Post
    I know men that have been married for 50+ years that have enjoyed entertaining a "young honey" most of their marriage. I don't know any such women.

    Such a man stays married primarily because he owes his children and perhaps grandchildren stability.
    You aint been to southern cal then. The term cougar was invented out here with the older women chasing and catching younger men in the service trades. The richer the woman it seems the randier they get. I think wealth has a lot to do with the dynamic you write of. The women out in So Cal, if they have money are very well serviced.
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by PirateMk1 View Post
    I would ask the same question about men. Sex is a two way street.
    I got more coochie than a fleet of bicycle seats and yet I've managed a twenty year marriage, and in my former eight year marriage I was never unfaithful, but my partner was...but it wasn't because she'd had too many partners, it was because she was a drug addict and he had the drugs while I had quit and was struggling with sobriety.
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by Rogue Valley View Post
    Step back and take stock of your threads.

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by PirateMk1 View Post
    You aint been to southern cal then. The term cougar was invented out here with the older women chasing and catching younger men in the service trades. The richer the woman it seems the randier they get. I think wealth has a lot to do with the dynamic you write of. The women out in So Cal, if they have money are very well serviced.
    That's very interesting. What proportion of these cougars do you suppose are married?

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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by Checkerboard Strangler View Post
    I got more coochie than a fleet of bicycle seats and yet I've managed a twenty year marriage, and in my former eight year marriage I was never unfaithful, but my partner was...but it wasn't because she'd had too many partners, it was because she was a drug addict and he had the drugs while I had quit and was struggling with sobriety.
    I didn't sow my oats much, sticking my member into strange was and is something I was always loath to do. The notion of my Willie falling off because of some disease was my primary motivator in that regard. I found my SO and have remained her faithful companion ever since.
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    Re: Does having too many sex partners make a woman unable to have a long term relationship?

    Quote Originally Posted by Checkerboard Strangler View Post
    I got more coochie than a fleet of bicycle seats and yet I've managed a twenty year marriage, and in my former eight year marriage I was never unfaithful, but my partner was...but it wasn't because she'd had too many partners, it was because she was a drug addict and he had the drugs while I had quit and was struggling with sobriety.
    You have a very interesting history. Sometimes the absurd answer is the correct answer. What is the biggest lesson you have learned from your experiences?

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