"Heavy breathing sex instructors"?!?!?!? Are you deranged?? Teachers aren't telling children about their own personal experiences. These are not "how to" classes. You seem to consider an academic discussion of biological functions, and the risks associated with certain sexual acts to be some sort of highly pornographic and lurid induction into perverted sex. Are you incapable of engaging in any of discussion without making it lurid. I have never discussed intimate details of my sex life with their father with any of my children, although they are aware that our marriage ended because of his infidelities. I most certainly had discussions of the dangers of STD's with my kids.
Christians are useless at imparting sexual information to their children precisely because they DON'T talk about sex. And they don't know anything about what's going on and what their children are doing because they don't talk about sex. You've admitted it. "Christians do not go around talking about sex". Do you know what you're kids are doing? Do you think they'd tell you if they're having sex? Did you tell your parents?
Everywhere that your Christian School, abstinence only sex ed programs have been instituted, rates of STD's and abortion have gone up.
Sexuality education policies and sexually transmitted disease rates in the United States of America. - PubMed - NCBI
Sexuality education policies and sexually transmitted disease rates in the United States of America. - PubMed - NCBI
From the overview of the second study:
Quite frankly, the fastest way to turn kids off of sex is to tell them about it. "I'm not doing
THAT!!! THAT'S DISGUSTING! That was my reaction to my first sex education class. That was pretty much the reaction of all of my female classmates too. That was also my reaction to being told what a blow job was as well. The subject of heterosexual anal sex never came up.
Consent didn't come up either. We were told, in mixed classrooms, that if things got out of hand, the girl was always to blame, because, the boys were far more easily aroused, so it was up to us to put the brakes on. The boys just couldn't help themselves. It's not their fault if the girls let things go too far. This gave license to the boys - it's not their fault. Only a total witch with a b, would leave a guy with "blue balls". Like he could go and finish it himself 5 minutes after he dropped her off, or even excuse himself and go to the washroom.
Added to which, at church we were told that if we weren't virgins on our wedding days, no decent man would ever want to marry us. Christians are still using this last one, which is why today's Christian girls are doing things that drug addict hookers only did for bonus bucks in my day, and no Christian boy would never even have had suggested to us, to avoid vaginal intercourse.