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As some of you can tell, I enjoy some quite unusual things. However, after awhile it becomes more of a vice and the thrill dissipates with the law of diminishing returns kicking in. Whether your thrill is porn, whores, sex tourism, BDSM or something else, it has been my experience that reliving past adventures or planning new ones gives way more satisfaction than the vices themselves. When your desire for sexual thrills exceeds your desire to feel rested with plenty of sleep, you're off in the weeds.
Bringing my wife along on my last two trips has been a bonanza. It's especially helpful when she reminds me that "you're just doing this to be doing it and you're not experiencing a thrill". We then plan something else. The balance makes things 100 times more enjoyable. If not for my wife, I wouldn't have taken time and money to experience things like San Andres, Monserrate, Zipaquira, etc.
If you're spending more than 4 weeks per year on sexual thrill seeking, it's probably too much.
Bringing my wife along on my last two trips has been a bonanza. It's especially helpful when she reminds me that "you're just doing this to be doing it and you're not experiencing a thrill". We then plan something else. The balance makes things 100 times more enjoyable. If not for my wife, I wouldn't have taken time and money to experience things like San Andres, Monserrate, Zipaquira, etc.
If you're spending more than 4 weeks per year on sexual thrill seeking, it's probably too much.