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Seems to me that among gay men in their 40s-50s, or at least the small number I have become acquainted with, that a prior marriage with children seems to be the norm as opposed to the exception. Most gays and their advocates will insist that this was societal oppression that pushed them into a marriage and kids. I think its instead men in their younger days valuing starting a family over sexual gratification, and now in their 40s and 50s with the family raised, sexual gratification rises on the value scale.
Anecdotes aren't evidence. If you want to know what the norm is, maybe you could ask a gay person, who has spent years or decades in the gay community. I'm pretty sure they'll tell you you're wrong.