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BDSM, kink, swinging, alternative lifestyles

Sgt Meowenstein

Sgt Meowenstein

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Who is into it, and how much do you participate in the lifestyle?
 
Sig line kind of says it all except for the bi part. That was how I first heard it and it didn't seem right to change it.

Been active for over 20 years and teaching some 101 type classes for the past 10 or so.

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My dream is to hire a travel servant for my wife and I. She would perform sexual servitude for me and other forms of servitude for my wife. She must be no older than 25.
 
SDET said:
My dream is to hire a travel servant for my wife and I. She would perform sexual servitude for me and other forms of servitude for my wife. She must be no older than 25.
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IDK WTF that is but it's very likely not kink. Kink requires informed consent. And looking at your signature, IDK how the hell you could make that consensual.
 
CLAX1911 said:
Tried it, wasn't really into it. No stomach for the sadism part and I'm definitely not a masochist.
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You do realize that there is so much more to it than that, yes? that you can be part of the lifestyle and never do anything remotely SM?
 
Phys251 said:
IDK WTF that is but it's very likely not kink. Kink requires informed consent. And looking at your signature, IDK how the hell you could make that consensual.
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kink covers a very large range of activity. Not sure how his sig figures into it, but what he said in no way would eliminate the possibility of informed consent.
 
maquiscat said:
You do realize that there is so much more to it than that, yes? that you can be part of the lifestyle and never do anything remotely SM?
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I'm not interested, I know people that are into it and they'll tell me about it getting more power to him but it's not my thing. More power to those of you who are into it.
 
Phys251 said:
IDK WTF that is but it's very likely not kink. Kink requires informed consent. And looking at your signature, IDK how the hell you could make that consensual.
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USD 80 per day, that's how. You would be amazed how many people on this planet would drool at the sight for four Jacksons. And yes, she would know exactly what she is doing and be stunned at earning a year's pay in a week. As a tip she would occasionally get to pick out a new item of clothing from a nice store, something she may never have experienced in her entire life.
 
CLAX1911 said:
I'm not interested, I know people that are into it and they'll tell me about it getting more power to him but it's not my thing. More power to those of you who are into it.
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That's fine. I've never tried to push anyone into it. It just seemed from.your post that you might have had a limited view of what BDSM was, which is not uncommon. It's expanded a lot and there are more things within the lifestyle besides B/D, D/s and S/M. We just didn't keep trying to add in letters. ;)

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CLAX1911 said:
Tried it, wasn't really into it. No stomach for the sadism part and I'm definitely not a masochist.
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You don’t have to be either. ‘BDSM’ is a general term these days that encompasses more than strictly what the initials B.D.S.M. stand for.
 
Sgt Meowenstein said:
Who is into it, and how much do you participate in the lifestyle?
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I suspect most sexual perverts who embrace this uncivilized tribal barbarian savage lifestyle are democrats if they have any political affiliation at all. That is because democrats tend to oppose God and spend a great deal of energy building walls of separation between God and every area of civilization in general.
 
marke said:
I suspect most sexual perverts who embrace this uncivilized tribal barbarian savage lifestyle are democrats if they have any political affiliation at all. That is because democrats tend to oppose God and spend a great deal of energy building walls of separation between God and every area of civilization in general.
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I thought walls were immoral?
 
marke said:
I suspect most sexual perverts who embrace this uncivilized tribal barbarian savage lifestyle are democrats if they have any political affiliation at all. That is because democrats tend to oppose God and spend a great deal of energy building walls of separation between God and every area of civilization in general.
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You do realize that the standard wife subservient to the husband model written in the Bible is a standard D/s model, yes?

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marke said:
I suspect most sexual perverts who embrace this uncivilized tribal barbarian savage lifestyle are democrats if they have any political affiliation at all. That is because democrats tend to oppose God and spend a great deal of energy building walls of separation between God and every area of civilization in general.
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Keep your partisan bs out of my thread. This isn’t a political or moral discussion. I’m asking kink-friendly people of any political persuasion what their preferences are regarding alternative lifestyles.

Go pound sand and hide your head in shame for your own perversions
 
SDET said:
USD 80 per day, that's how. You would be amazed how many people on this planet would drool at the sight for four Jacksons. And yes, she would know exactly what she is doing and be stunned at earning a year's pay in a week. As a tip she would occasionally get to pick out a new item of clothing from a nice store, something she may never have experienced in her entire life.
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You're confusing sex work with engaging in consensual activity strictly for pleasure.
 
Phys251 said:
You're confusing sex work with engaging in consensual activity strictly for pleasure.
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From his description, it seems like he’s talking about being a ‘sugar daddy’, which is a thing. There are also people in the lifestyle whose kink(s) is being a domestic servant or living the 1950s lifestyle.

BDSM is a very broad term.
 
Sgt Meowenstein said:
From his description, it seems like he’s talking about being a ‘sugar daddy’, which is a thing. There are also people in the lifestyle whose kink(s) is being a domestic servant or living the 1950s lifestyle.
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I know. I also know that the Venn diagram overlap between BDSM and sugar daddy relationships is very, very small.

BDSM is a very broad term.
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Again, I know.
 
marke said:
I suspect most sexual perverts who embrace this uncivilized tribal barbarian savage lifestyle are democrats if they have any political affiliation at all. That is because democrats tend to oppose God and spend a great deal of energy building walls of separation between God and every area of civilization in general.
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"Judge not, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."

"What are you looking at the straw in your brother’s eye for? And the beam in your own eye, do you not notice it?"

Who said it?
 
Phys251 said:
You're confusing sex work with engaging in consensual activity strictly for pleasure.
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Unless you are talking actual sexual slavery, as opposed to a M/s relationship, then even for pay is consensual.

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Phys251 said:
I know. I also know that the Venn diagram overlap between BDSM and sugar daddy relationships is very, very small.



Again, I know.
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Yeah I think the line can be blurred. For example: those that identify as ‘Findomme’, which basically means ‘financial domination’, in my opinion aren’t Dom or Domme in the true sense; they’re just in it for the money.
 
Sgt Meowenstein said:
Yeah I think the line can be blurred. For example: those that identify as ‘Findomme’, which basically means ‘financial domination’, in my opinion aren’t Dom or Domme in the true sense; they’re just in it for the money.
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I'll disagree. Dom(me) and sub are about the power exchange. Anything else is under different categories. A FinDom(me) is simply another form of power exchange.

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maquiscat said:
I'll disagree. Dom(me) and sub are about the power exchange. Anything else is under different categories. A FinDom(me) is simply another form of power exchange.

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I get the idea behind it. I guess I’m saying that some PEOPLE take advantage of subs in the findomme category; I’m not saying that findomme is itself illegitimate. But that could be said for anything.
 
Sgt Meowenstein said:
I get the idea behind it. I guess I’m saying that some PEOPLE take advantage of subs in the findomme category; I’m not saying that findomme is itself illegitimate. But that could be said for anything.
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Now that I can agree with. There are those who try to go straight for the money without all the proper negotiation and such that would be required for actual lifestyle.

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